Does porn make you insecure?

depeche2015 Guru

If so, do you allow your partners to watch it?

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Most Helpful Guys

mobligator Xper 6
+1 y
I love viewing porn and erotic nude girls while masturbating and Edging for 3 or 4 hours a day. I'm addicted to jerking off to porn but I don't want a cure for my addiction. I just wish I could cum about 10 times a day instead of just 2 or 3 times. by the way, porn is just the depiction of people engaging in sex and whats wrong with sex or watching people having sex when they are doing it so you can watch. The mind is the most powerful sex organ in the human body and it can arouse you tremendously when watching porn.
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nightdrot Master
+1 y
No. It can be a turn on, both when watching it on my own and when my girlfriend and I, which we do from time to time, watch it together. It is a combination of inspiration and - when it goes too far - comedy or farce.

If you have any experience - and especially if you are lucky enough as I am to have a loving relationship - it can add a little spice... but insecurity? I just roll my eyes. As often as not, it can be boring rather than intimidating.
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Val_Evo2 Xper 6
+1 y
Yes, definitely.

It's tough to process that they can just go and find grown women that are their ideal type / attractiveness.

And I start to feel like i have to compete with that. And then all my flaws are just that more noticeable.

There's no way I can compete with an adult woman.
3 1 0 0
- Cricket74
  +1 y
  Understandable. Flip that though. Do you read romances? Do you desire the men on the covers?
Hurlyburly Guru
+1 y
It doesn't make me insecure. I do not think that anyone has the right to allow or disallow that to his/her partner though. Masturbation is a personal thing.
3 1 0 0
fauchelevent Master
+1 y
It doesn't really make me feel insecure, no, and I have no interest in controlling whether my partner watches it or not.
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What Girls & Guys Said

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BeeRightInd Xper 5
+1 y
Porn does not make me insecure. Yes my partner watches it and she allows me to watch it. Porn is a great release and we have learned many different positions from porn that have greatly enhanced our sex life.
1 0 0 0
PoliceLivesMatter Guru
+1 y
My partner watching porn would not make me insecure.
2 0 0 0
ladsin Editor
+1 y
Nope, I don't mind them watching porn so long as it doesn't affect our sexual life. If they start masturbating all the time, but always being "too tired" for sex with me then we'd probably have some issues.
1 1 0 0
_QueenOfTheDank_ Xper 5
+1 y
As long as we're watching it together or they give me a heads up, we love to watch porn together!
1 1 0 0
Elliegirl Guru
+1 y
It doesn’t make me insecure.
2 0 0 0
wankiam Master
+1 y
i have always used porn and 99 percent of girls i have been in a relationship with have objected
1 0 0 0
- wankiam
  +1 y
  if i find that my partner watches porn it makes me happy
ghostqueen Master
+1 y
Everything makes me insecure.
2 1 0 0
cherryphi82 Yoda
+1 y
Yes, some. Not all.
1 0 0 0
- Cricket74
  +1 y
  Not all?
- cherryphi82
  +1 y
  @Cricket74 There's a lot of different kind of porn. Some porn makes me feel insecure about myself, and other varieties don't. I pick what I can most relate to/like.
- Cricket74
  +1 y
  Ah. OK. Got it. Comfort.
NeglectedChild Xper 7
+1 y
Porn is gay af. How you gonna jack off to some guy ****ing a woman.
If you get off by seeing another man naked and fully erect, you ain't straight.

I have no interest in seeing another mans dick. And why watch people having sex when you can just have sex, it's pretty pathetic.
1 0 1 0
Cricket74 Xper 6
+1 y
Insecure. Why should it? When I was in a relationship I had a subscription to Penthouse magazine. When the new issue came my gal and I would cuddle up and go through it together. It was the most intense sex we had all month. It gave us a few ideas too. I'm laughing now remembering how my gal complained about how few of the males had a complete erection. Sigh. She was special. I Don't know if I'll ever be able to find another girl to share Penthouse magazine with.
1 0 0 0
blackiesixx Xper 5
+1 y
Not at all. Don't care if my partner watching porn.
2 1 0 0
SirRexington Master
+1 y
No but after awhile it desensitizes you.
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- Joelski440
  +1 y
  Porn does not desensitize you, not does it give you unrealistic views on sex. A weak mentality does this. Saying that is like saying video game make kids violent.
- SirRexington
  +1 y
  @Joelski440 you have a point but I do not agree.
- Joelski440
  +1 y
  fair enough, I get tired of the argument the porn desensitized people, make them crave harder & harder content to satisfy their needs, & gives them unrealistic/unhealthy views on sex. I agree this may happen to some people. as long as these people are responsible & mentally adjusted it should affect them.
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- SirRexington
  +1 y
  @Joelski440 alright, i understand not wanting to argue the same argument repeatedly. Im just saying i don't agree.
- Joelski440
  +1 y
  As I said fear enough. I don't don't want to argue either what exactly don't you agree with?
- SirRexington
  +1 y
  @Joelski440 the new rise in anal as well as other things that didn't have the public influence is does now. The way people view sex is not the same, instead it's a physical thing that you can do all time with no consequences which is creating a resurgence in casual sex.
- Joelski440
  +1 y
  Ok I see, I don't believe porn has anything to do with this. This is more from the shift in Society. Women becoming more self aware, self sufficient & uninhibited.
GoodGuyBreakingBad Master
+1 y
Yes i think porn is just a replacement for a healthy relationship.
Porn makes one somewhat insecure.
2 0 0 0
MsPinkUnicorn Xper 6
+1 y
porn is porn me and my man can watch it
2 1 0 0
- Cricket74
  +1 y
  Do you mind what kind of porn. Is it OK if he watches it alone?
- MsPinkUnicorn
  +1 y
  @Cricket74 Yea like mostly every guy watches porn and I understand the need for it sometimes So if he want to watch porn then its OK with me
Nikki2708 Xper 3
+1 y
I personally haven't talked to my boyfriend about it but yes somewhere deep down i do get affected by him watching it.
2 1 0 0
- Cricket74
  +1 y
  Tell him. Share it with him. We men are clueless honest. Let him know how it affects you.
DiegoO Guru
+1 y
When I watch to much of it, but it creates an insecurity that doesn't last long.
1 0 0 0
Anon-ymous1 Editor
+1 y
Insecure like how? Like my dick isn't as big as most of the boys on there?
1 1 0 0
- Anon-ymous1
  +1 y
  *boys' dicks, rather
AD240pCharlie Yoda
+1 y
It doesn't make me insecure, but even if it did, I wouldn't care if she did.
1 1 0 0
bi-mike-95 Xper 5
+1 y
it depends what you mean. eg if i was in the library and saw someone watching it then yes it would, its more the knowing what they are doing that causes the main discomfort. i had a girlfriend a few years ago. she bluntly showed me porn on her phone when we was on break at college. i wouldn't mind its more the no warning that gets to me.
1 0 0 0
Remy1996 Xper 4
+1 y
I think it kinda depends on how often you watch it and what kind of porn it is.
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