Am I weird because I think oral sex is gross?

On this site it seems like most people have oral sex. I just thought it was something kinky some couples did. Not everyone in a sexual relationship? I never want to receive it. I don't want someone's face down there, it just seems embarrassing and dirty. I don't want to give it to anyone either.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • > Am I weird

    Unusual, not weird. It is fine to be unusual. Don't take any crap or pressure to change.

    > I don't want someone's face down there, it just seems embarrassing and dirty

    Assuming you take care of yourself it isn't dirty, it is fascinating for most guys, whatever the shape, size or details! I guess most guys would be OK with not giving so long as you were happy with them looking and touching as part of normal relations.

    > I don't want to give it to anyone either

    You should only do what you want to. Guys expectations are increasingly set by p*rn, where oral seems almost universal. Soon after you become active with someone you should let them know your views on this, so it doesn't fester. If they really can't cope without, you should move on if your feelings will never change and his expectations won't.

    Some guys aren't bothered about not getting oral often or at all. I prefer penetration or manual stimulation from a girlfriend. Some gfs have obviously thought it such a big deal that I've gone along with it, but the truth is I wouldn't miss it. I'm happy to give, but wouldn't force the issue if she was embarrased.

  • It's something you should discuss with your partner. I think most people do it because they want to please their partner, not particularly because they enjoy it. I could be wrong, though.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's not weird that you feel that way. Everyone is different. Also, everyone's views tend to change based off of how much experience they have. I've always been into giving oral sex to either gender, but I used to feel really uncomfortable with guys going down on me, especially if I wasn't 100% smooth/freshly shaven.

    After I was with a guy several months, I finally felt comfortable letting him go down on me, and I actually really enjoyed it. I realized that he thought it was great too, and he didn't think that I was dirty at all.

    So, whatever you decide is right for you is definitely okay, but if you decide later on that you want to try something new, then go ahead. Do what feels right for you.

  • You aren't weird,you just have a preference just as many people on this website have a preference of liking oral sex.

    You should only do what you think is comfortable.

    Guys don't like to go down,so you're in luck,but most expect it,so you should of course let your future partner know how you feel about it

    • ' Guys don't like to go down' I don't think that's entirely true, some for sure don't, but from my expierence a whole lot do

    • I completely disagree, most guys find going down on a girl to be extremely hot and will happily lick away if the girl lets them.

  • I used to think the same thing. I didn't want snyones face down there until I tried it... Now giving is a different story because I have a bad gag reflux so I really can't. But it's not that bad

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  • nothing wrong with that... I love sex but not everyone has to. if you don't like it, don't do it. its pretty simple.

  • no you are not weird because you don't want to do it.

    everybody is different, and everybody has different opinions.

    dont feel down just because you don't want to, who knows? you might change your mind in the future

    hope this helps you

  • I'm not sure exactly percentage of the population thinks it's gross, but I know at least a couple people who don't like it, so I wouldn't say it's weird.

  • it is not strange I don't like it eather and if a girl insists and dose it I will not kiss her

  • Weird? It makes you normal.

  • Only if your going off other peoples opinions but if you really feel that way about oral sex then no one else has any right to call you out because we all have our own opinions and are entitled to them. So go be yourself girl.

  • No. oral sex is gross