What does it feel like having a vagina?

Call me crazy for asking this, but I'm really curious what does it feel like? Can you feel anything down there? Like I mean when you walk do you notice it there? Like when you sit down do you notice it? What does it feel like for a girl when she has sex? What all can you feel? Can you feel it down there when you start your period, like can you feel it coming on, like when you have to go to the bathroom or something? After you have sex with a guy, what does that feel like? Do you still have any sensations of him messing with you, is it still reacting even afterwards, or when he pulls out is it done immediately? Does it get wet like randomly? Do you like see a guy in a store, and all the sudden your like wooah I'm wet; or like wooah I'm wet I'm gonna play with it when I get home maybe. Does that happen? Is it better having a guy play with it or by yourself? Does it hurt if you get hit there, even know nothing is there? Is using the B-room like a challege, it's gotta be hard with three holes, is it hard or was it in the begining to differentiate which is which? When you have sex with a guy in your vagina, does it feel anything like anal, or is it like a totally different feeling alltogether? Have you ever looked down, and wondered why you have a vagina, and not the other? If so, do you wonder this still, or on occasion maybe? Do you wonder what it would be like to not have a vagina? Sorry for the length on this one, just HIGHLY curious.
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  • I'm gonna answer in the same way as Linds, but the answers are mostly different.

    Can you feel anything down there? Like I mean when you walk do you notice it there?

    Not really. I'm always aware of it, but it doesn't give off any sensations.

    Like when you sit down do you notice it?

    Only if I sit awkwardly and it feels exposed or if my clothes press up against my clit in a pleasurable way.

    What does it feel like for a girl when she has sex?

    I don't know really because I'm a virgin, but in my fantasies it always feels like I'm completely full and there's pressure towards the back. Good pressure. I don't know if it's actually like that though.

    What all can you feel?

    Pretty much anything if the fabric of my clothes and/or undies is thin. It's almost always pretty sensitive down there but particularly so when I'm aroused and it's all uber-sensitive.

    Can you feel it down there when you start your period, like can you feel it coming on, like when you have to go to the bathroom or something?

    Girls normally have discharge to clean it out down there, but when it discharges, for me it feels totally different from getting your period. Sometimes I'll discharge and be like "Oh well." and other times it's like "Oh no, that was totally my period." Also, for a few days before I get it, I can sort of feel my hormones changing and my back getting sore (my back always does that before my period) and I get really paranoid and edgy. It's times like those that I keep tampons in my locker and car for emergencies.

    After you have sex with a guy, what does that feel like?

    Do you still have any sensations of him messing with you, is it still reacting even afterward, or when he pulls out is it done immediately?

    Can't really answer. The whole virginity thing y'know.

    Does it get wet like randomly?

    Sometimes. It's not really that bad though. I don't have to worry about looking like I peed myself.

    Do you see a guy in a store, and all the sudden your like wooah I'm wet; or like wooah I'm wet I'm gonna play with it when I get home maybe. Does that happen?

    Well, I don't get very wet by nature, but sometimes I'll see someone really hot or depending on my current mood and state of arousal and I'm like "I'd do him". So yes, sometimes I do see someone or something and get suddenly aroused, either mildly or ragingly. If it's mildly I'll probably forget about it in a minute but if I'm raging I'll mast. at home or in my car.

    Is it better having a guy play with it or by yourself?

    Guy. Definitely a guy.

    Does it hurt if you get hit there

    Only if something hits it really hard. When I was 13 a boy kicked me really hard and it was sore for 3 days.

    Is using the B-room like a challenge? No. Poo comes out one hole, pee comes from the urethra (which is pencil tip sized) and the vag just stays out of the way. No you don't distinguish. The only inconvenience is having to pee more often than a guy.

    No I don't wonder why I'm girl. I wonder what it's be like to be penised.

    • So how often do you jill in the car? And how much mess do you have to worry about cleaning up if you do? It just seems pretty adventurous so I was curious. Sorry if this offends

    • I can only guess you have not got kicked right in the clitoris then.

  • Oh my gosh, I love this question. Maybe because I've always wondered what it would be like having a penis and also considered if guys ever wondered what it'd be like to have a vagina. Let me see if I can tackle some of these questions for ya :

    Can you feel anything down there?

    Very rarely. I know that for myself, and I happen to have slightly longer than average lips, sometimes my panties will pinch a lip and it will be a slight pain, but otherwise I'm rather unaware of it's presense. Except when it's really wet!

    Like I mean when you walk do you notice it there?

    No.

    Like when you sit down do you notice it?

    No, not unless I sit with my pants in an awkward position where somethings being pinched. Sometimes if I'm wearing jeans the thick material may press against me and give me interested sensations.

    What does it feel like for a girl when she has sex?

    I'm a virgin, but I consider myself a pro-masturbater. Umm.it feels like an intense pressure building up inside and it makes you want to scream. Sometimes it feels like you have to pee.

    Can you feel it down there when you start your period, like can you feel it coming on, like when you have to go to the bathroom or something?

    It feels nothing like having to go to the bathroom. The only indication I ever get that my period is coming is if I'm getting cramps, which I usually get the day before or the day of my period. Sometimes (and I stress sometimes) you can feel the blood coming out, and it really is an awkward feeling.

    After you have sex with a guy, what does that feel like?

    I'm not really qualified to answer this question.

    Do you still have any sensations of him messing with you, is it still reacting even afterwards, or when he pulls out is it done immediately?

    After I masturbate sometimes it still feels like the inside of my vagina, or even sometimes the outside, is still pulsating.

    Does it get wet like randomly?

    It's always a little bit moist, but usually I have to be turned on in order for it to get "wet".

    Do you like see a guy in a store, and all the sudden your like wooah I'm wet;

    This has never happened to me. Maybe because I can't really tell I'm wet unless I stick my hand down there and feel -- the exception is when I'm REALLY wet and it starts coming down my legs, but this has never happened just by looking at someone.

    or like wooah I'm wet I'm gonna play with it when I get home maybe. Does that happen?

    No. I've never planned when I'm going to masturbate ahead of time.

    Is it better having a guy play with it or by yourself?

    It's definitely better having a guy play with it :)

    Does it hurt if you get hit there, even know nothing is there?

    It doesn't hurt anymore than it hurts if I get hit anywhere else on my body. If you do it with force, it'll hurt because it's flesh and has nerve endings. It's nothing like a man's testicles, though. A bump or light hit will not make me cringe in pain.

    • Continued: Is using the B-room like a challenge, it's gotta be hard with three holes, is it hard or was it in the beginning to differentiate which is which? Let me put this out there -- the urethra -- where our urine is expelled from -- is barely visible. You've really got to do some searching in order to even locate it. It was never an issue. The other 2 holes have never posed a problem for my either. They feel different both with on my finger and they feel different from what I can feel inside.

    • When you have sex with a guy in your vagina, does it feel anything like anal, or is it like a totally different feeling all together? I've had fingers in both and they feel completely different. Have you ever looked down, and wondered why you have a vagina, and not the other? If so, do you wonder this still, or on occasion maybe? I can't say that I've ever wondered why I have a vagina. I always assumed it was because I was female.

    • Do you wonder what it would be like to not have a vagina? Of course I've wondered from time to time.

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  • A vagina is an internal organ, so without outside stimulation, I usually don't consciously feel it all the time. Like, can you pinpoint exactly where your stomach is without trying to internally feel it? No. In order to feel your stomach you need to feel the muscles around it or feel sensations in it (pain, bloating). The vagina is the same way. It feels dormant or subconscious until something happens to it like periods cramps or sex or pregnancy.
    I can't feel it when I'm just walking around, if I do its usually just exterior skin and not anything deep. (Sometimes when I go jogging my thighs cause friction and can cause some arousal, but it's usually unpleasant because I'm trying to run). I can sometimes feel my vagina when I'm peeing, this is because I'm using nearby muscles to control my urinary bladder. I can usually tell when I'm about to start my period, because my midsection usually feels like I'm constipated and my stomach makes bubbling sounds and makes whale noises and it feels like something is weighing down all my internal organs. I don't get cramps or bad pains though so I'm blessed. To become wet, I need a lot more mental stimulation then just seeing a guy. If I imagine doing something to him, that can get me aroused. If I get wet, I can calm myself down, I don't need to immediately finger myself when I get home, and I usually forget my arousal by the time I get home. It still hurts if I get whacked down there because there's only a couple layers of skin and muscles protecting my pelvic bone, and my bones are particularly sensitive. Truth be told, I didn't know where my vagina was till 6th grade. I knew I had three holes, but my vagina was hidden in folds of skin and I took to exploring it and when I did I tried sticking my finger up it but I missed and jammed my finger into a painful forgotten corner. Being 17 now, I still haven't seen the little hole where my pee comes out from. I running out of words so I might make another post about sex feelings.

    • @idontwant2becreative I am sure it won't be just the bone that will hurt, getting hit right in the clitoris will cause extreme pain too.

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  • Well, since some women also asked about what it's like to have a penis, and since there is only one answer, with someone once mentioning about how it would be great for diversity in terms of actually answering this question, I may as well say mine, too.

    Anyway, well I can say that I don't really wear underwear. At all. So I can't really comment on how it pinches or anything, especially with the last time I wore them being when I was quite young. I also don't really feel it there when it's soft and not horny or anything, unless of course it is actually pressing against my pants and I notice it. After that it sort of becomes like breathing; like if I notice it or notice it touching my pants, then I continue to notice it usually or something like that. When it gets wet, I don't usually notice it until it's touched by either my hand or my pants. When I am getting horny, it can be very annoying, especially if I am out in public. Now, I'm not sure how other men feel about this, but I often get horny in public, sometimes from actually getting turned on by seeing a really cute (I wouldn't necessarily call what I like "hot", per se) woman, and sometimes just randomly. Like I could be just sitting there, and maybe I'm liking what I'm doing, maybe I'm not, but sometimes it will just twitch, or I'll twitch it for some reason, which leads me to think about it, and then I start getting horny. You girls don't know how good you have it with not having to hide a boner in public. You sort of try to hold your arms over your legs, in a seemingly awkward position, or cross your legs, and you just sit there thinking "they fucking know". Argh I hate it. Going to the bathroom is also something very day-to-day. Like, it just happens. I've heard from one of my friends who is a girl that she is jealous (seemingly very jealous) of the fact that men can pee standing up, like it's a huge deal. Is it actually though? It's just normal for me, and I can pee sitting down, too, no problem.

    • Continued: Oh and when we get horny, now I'm not sure if it's anything like when girls get turned on or anything and blood rushes to the clit, but for men it can be a very awkward feeling. Like, especially when you're hiding it out in public, and you have to twitch it in order for the blood to pump more. If you just leave it there it starts becoming extremely uncomfortable until your body almost forces you to do it. However when you're in a controlled situation and you move your penis about to let blood through, it can actually feel very nice, especially if you move it in the right direction; usually downwards. In terms of orgasming, yeah for me I find it very annoying that we only get one for awhile. I'd kill to have the ability to have that many orgasms in a row, although then again I don't really want to imagine the massive clean up job I'd have to do from that. Oh also, orgasming can sometimes feel like peeing, but more often than not, not really.

    • Continued: It will only ever feel like peeing if you just happened to have felt like you needed to go even slightly before you thought "oh I'll masturbate instead" or something. And yeah it just sort of feels pleasure from there. It's hard to explain this for obvious reasons, but yeah. I'd presume it to feel weaker than you would, as of course, the penis has lesser nerve endings and they are more spread apart, which annoys me.

    • Oh, and one more thing I thought I should mention that some women may be wondering about: Auto-fellatio. I am one of the few men (I don't know how many men can actually do this, but I hear it is very little) that can actually do it. I have never had a real blow-job, but I imagine it to be something similar. I pretty much wrap my arms around my legs, or sit on a chair, put my legs on a table in front of me, and reach through, grab the bottom of the chair to pull myself closer, and just go at it. It feels really, really good, although I have yet to get good enough at it as I don't know when I should be able to do it or anything, but hopefully I'll learn soon :D Anyway, in terms of the actual feeling, well it depends. I can either go straight to liking it like a dog, which feels TOO good. Or, what I usually do, is I stick my tongue in it when the foreskin is almost all the way up, and just lick around. Doing this for a few minutes usually gets me off and such. But yeah.

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  • What's it like to have a penis? As a guy, I'll try to explain.

    In it's natural soft state I don't really notice it's there and don't even think about it. Wearing underpants keeps everything in check, but wearing no underpants and jumping about wildly would have everything flapping about, but wouldn't be at all painful.

    Sometimes with underpants on elastic can pinch.- usually the skin of the scrotum. Which is probably similar to a girl's labia being pinched.

    Getting a penis aroused can be done just by imagination, but for a guy is mostly done by visual stimulation like p*rno or sexy girlfriend, and almost definitely by sexy kissing and body contact.

    Testicles: if you close your eyes and put pressure on your eyeball with your finger, this is what testicle pain feels like. Imagine getting kicked there!

    Also having a penis means I just want to stick in into females. Great sensations are felt the full length of the shaft, but mostly on the bottom side of it. The rest can be basically numb. And it's way more sensitive when erect. And when I want to stick it into a female, that's because it feels so damn good. Also the vagina is the obvious place to want to stick it, but the mouth and the ass are usually high on the list, because of the urge to get it inside the female's body rather than any perverse reasons.

    And for guys that mostly can only have one orgasm before having to take an hour or two to recover, this is not as bad as some girls imagine. The act of in and out sex rubs all the right places on the penis and the guy will get nearly to orgasm time after time, which is immensely pleasurable, and then finally when the time is right go for the big one. And then lie back and feel like the king of the jungle.

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  • Well, just like any other part of the body, you feel it when you touch it, you don't remember it exists if nothing touches it or it doesn't hurt, it does hurt when you hit it with something, it doesn't hurt on periods, it's the womb that hurts.

    What does it feel like having a vagina?
  • Sometimes when wearing tight jeans I like to sit down and cross my legs. It’s so good the feeling of my clit being squeezed and I start to get really wet. I usually do it before having sex with my boyfriend so I am ready and dripping wet for him.

  • No. Only if stuff is coming out or I feel wet

  • Are you serious you're supposed to be a female and you don't know what your own vagina feels like

  • If you are a girl like me, a vagina feels very wet. Sorry ladies who think this is crude but for me its true. All the time. Wet. Wet. Wet. It's definitely the most wet when my clothes are tight. But every girl is different.
    SInce I've always had a vagina I'm not sure what it feels like without it. But for me it makes me feel feminine and pretty. ;)
    One time, I saw a guy I liked in college and within 10 seconds I had an orgasm. My girlfriend asked me if I was all right as I bent over and I had to lie to her and tell her it was a tummy ache. ;o) I had to go to the bathroom and clean up!

  • Vaginas are painful you can die bruh form intense pain

  • Can i feel anything down there?
    Well unless im aroused or wet i never think about it... i just forget that its there!
    When i sit down do i notice anything?
    No... almost never except when im wearing some kind of rouph material and it is pushing against my clit feels really good sometimes!
    I can't answer sex questions because im a virgin... sorry!
    Can i feel it when i have my period?
    No not really just like any other day when im not on my period. Except for when heavy blood comes out its really really uncomfortable.! and it doesn't feel like you have to go pee or bathroom related at all, because peeing wize, you can control it but with periods you can't control it or hold it in what so ever, you dont even know any blood came out unless its really heavy.
    Does it get wet randomly?
    Never... i have never in my whole life experienced it getting wet randomly... mabey if im in the car and thinking about my crush having sex or something like that... haha
    Do i see a guy in the store and get aroused?
    I have never even thought about that when im just in the store or something. When i see a good looking guy i think about if he's nice or if he's into himself not his penis. I dont think any girl gets aroused like guys do when they see a good looking guy! at all... at least it has never happend to me.
    Is it better having a guy play with it or me?
    definitly without a doubt a guy would be way better!
    Is it a challenge usuing the bathroom?
    Not at all... it all just works... you dont have to think about it.
    Have i ever wondered why i have a vjj?
    I probobly wondered that only about 30 times in my life (basically never)... I've only wanted to touch a penis not to have one really at all... actually i dont think I've ever thought about having a penis mabey 1 or 2 times?

  • The real question is what does it feel like having a penis ?

    • Well, it is sort of like a much smaller, extra leg. I have a fairly large penis myself which means there are a lot of adjustments throughout the day. Also, random boners happen a lot. When an erection comes on, you notice it right away. For me at least, I start thinking very sexually when I have an erection, but after it goes away, I am back to normal. Also, I am a very romantic person, so I get erections when making any sort of romantic gesture. Also, the worst thing is the world is getting an erection while slow dancing. You can guess why.

    • Getting a boner while slow dancing is the worst. Or best. It's just something that can be very arousing. Having a penis is like having another finger or something. And it hurts like a motherfucking bitch when you get hit there. Like a burning stinging pain.

    • Ok I know this was all posted like years ago but I wanted to add my thoughts as I just read this the other day and I hope everyone that originally posted is still watching and maybe has new insight. Whats it like to have a penis? Well mostly I'm unaware that it's there unless or course I think about it or get an erection. If you get hit there it hurts like the devil it makes your stomach turn and can make you want to throw up. Going to the bathroom is well going to the bath room. The long you hold you pee the more pressure there is when it comes out. I can't speak for all guys but for me I never can seem to get it all out I always end up with a couple of drops in my underwear. You girls think us guys have an advantage over you in this department. But honestly all you have to do is pull your pants down sit down. And wipe when you done. For guys we have to pull it out aim and hold it the entire time then shake it off. I can't really describe the sensation I have nothing to compare to.

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  • Aww no! The worst thing EVER is when you can feel some kind of fluid escaping, and you just *know* that it's your period starting.

    Or if you're really heavy that day, and then you cough/sneeze and you can feel a surge of fluid..

    Ohh. It's awful.

    • Nah I think getting hit in the testicles is worse, it' makes you come close to vomiting

    • @mcwhorter Don't compare getting hit in the testicles with periods! Getting kicked in the pussy is the actual comparison.

  • Yeah I can feel it when there's stuff coming out of it. Usually after I've been sitting a long time and I adjust the way I am sitting or I get up, I can feel the blood gushing out.

    Just seeing a guy that I find attractive does not make me wet. When I get turned on, it wets and pulses down there and I get a weird, pleasurable feeling throughout my whole body. Nothing is random though!

    You can't feel it -it's a hole -no it doesn't hurt if something hits it because there's nothing there.

    It was never hard to tell which hole was which once I started exploring. I have fingered myself but it doesn't turn me on at all. Maybe if my crush was sitting right in front of me!

    Yes, I have wondered what it would be like to have a penis.

    • I am sure you have never been hit there!

  • hahaha MAN awesome question!

    Im shy to answer not in anonymous loool

    I always wanted to ask guys about it too.

    Wow.where should I begin.u just would write what I feel

    Im getting wet pretty fast

    i masturbate in way clitoral stimalation,it feels good,but when a guy did it to me it was the bestttttttttt,i was telling him plz more and harder do it damn it! haha poor he

    i'm never fingering myself,dunno,but touched my clit and watched it ,and saw my vagina when it was wet,i thought damn I just need a di*k in it.lol

    I like to be naked while masturbation,touch my boobs sometimes ;)

    being a girl is awesome exept the pain while our period,childborth,or loosing the virginity. :)

    I wondered y I have a vagina,but I realized it's good to have one hehe

    By the way what about guys.

    • Damn straight it's good to have one. I'm actually really jealous because a lot of the things you mentioned (even the childbirth part).

    • Damn.. sexy response lol

  • you can't feel it just when your walking around but sometimes if I sit a certain way my jeans will turn me on haha.when you have sex.you can't really explain what it feels like.its amazing I guess.personally,RIGHT before I get my period or as I'm getting it I get a really bad back pain in my lower back,and that's when I know to go to the bathroom.after sex,it kind of throbs but in a good way.i think it does hurt when you get hit there personally.ive been hit there a lot and yeah,it hurts.it feels NOTHING LIKE ANAL.at all.not even close.anal hurts,really,really bad and in my opinion it is not pleasurable one bit.regular sex is pleasurable and it shouldnt hurt unless your new at it.

    • Thanks for the detailed response :).

    • I've heard that if you squeeze your legs together and such while sitting down it can feel pleasurable. Is that like what you're talking about, or different?

  • I can't feel anything down there, I mean, I know tis there but its not some kind of sensation, its like saying can you feel your hands where they meet your wrists? that's just another part of the body and I suppose if I don't think about it I "forget" all about it. I can't say I've ever noticed, just like again, I haven't stopped and gone wow there are my hands! its just another part of my body and its always been there and its always felt the same so I guess its just gone out of mind? when I sit down I don't notice no, I can't imagine ever noticing, unless I'm on my period and I feel a little sticky down there, but other than that, no.

    Sex for women is different depending on the woman and the man she is with, it really varies, so I've heard, I can't really answer this one,

    I don't get wet randomly, I have to be turned on,

    And I don't get wet from seeing some guy randomly, and as stated before, I don't plan when I masturbate,

    guys playing with it is better. It doesn't hurt if you're hit there, that would have to be some serious maneuvering to actually hit the vagina, I can't speak for all girls but I'm pretty tucked away. And No, its not a decision from where you pee? you just do? I suppose its like asking, have you ever mistaken your nostrils for your mouth? pee just comes out of where it comes out of its not like you have to figure it out?

    I have wondered what it would be like not to have a vagina, but I don't wonder why,

    • I noticed lots of girls mentioned that they don't notice their vagina really. For guys it's different, we are practically always aware of our penis.

    • Obviously never been hit right in the clit! That would be excruciating.

  • Wow! She has already answered all the questions.

    • Haha, you should go ahead and answer it! I had fun with it and it'd probably be interesting for him to see if girls feel the same way or if their opinions and feelings vary. I, myself, am kind of curious as to whether or not other girls feel the same way I do.

    • I can't just repeau what you have written in my own words. You gave a lot of details and your answer should be the best answer. I wonder why its not.

    • Well, if there is a gir/women out there that can answer some that linds couldn't totally due to her not having any experience with it yet. That would help her out I guess..?

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