How weird is my boyfriend? He responds more to "breast sex" than to the regular kind.

[Clarabobara]

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for months and one sort of odd thing about him was that it always took him a long time to orgasm. Like 'wanna just try again later' long. But apparently not always. A few weeks ago he asked if we could try "breast sex" (you know the actual term) so I was like yeah sure why not. We found some Vaseline and I just kind of leaned back on the couch and locked my fingers over my boobs. He started thrusting sort of hard and it was a bit uncomfortable so I thought 'oh boy, here we go. He's going to be doing this for the next thirty minutes!'. No more than two minutes later, though, he orgasmed. And he ejaculated way more than I had ever seen come out of him. Since then he hasn't requested it personally but I've offered breast sex when regular sex wasn't getting the job done and each time it only took a few minutes for him to finish. Also looking at his face he just seems to enjoy it a lot more. So basically I'm wondering how strange this is. It's like he prefers my breasts to my vagina. I love him to death but maybe he's just a huge weirdo when it comes to this. Also I'm curious if there are any ways to do this that are either more stimulating for him, less uncomfortable for me, or all around easier.

[RabidRabbit]

When it comes to sex, I think you have to take a step back from the labels weird and normal. The key is that you both enjoy it and no one is getting hurt.

I think it's a fairly common act, I've always heard it referred to as a "tit-wank", but maybe that's a British term. Not something I've personally ever thought of as a turn on, but there are certainly weirder sexual acts that people enjoy.

You will have to talk with him about ways to make it even more enjoyable. Maybe you could add oral stimulation as well? The other thing I wonder about is if a proper sexual lubricant rather than vaseline may make it less uncomfortable for you.

[l-hedoniste]

Titf*cks are clearly his thing. No big deal. But you should note that he bothered to try vaginal with you--not his thing--for your sake. He sucked it up and ground it out for his girl. (Pardon the pun.) That makes him one of the good guys.

As for comfort, try lube, and he needs to watch how he distributes his weight.

[shellybelly]

I wouldn't say that he is a weirdo for that at all. I think that he just took so much pleasure in the feeling of something different. I think that you should use this bit of knowledge to your advantage. By that I mean change things up a bit. You could maybe mix things up several times before he ejaculates...tease him a bit even. He just gave you the ammunition and put the bullets in the gun and all you have to do is pull the trigger girl! You know what he likes...work it!

[LovesWomen]

Sounds like he may have a performance anxiety about vaginal sex. Most men like "boob" sex only for the sake of variety. Nothing tops a loving woman's vagina.

[sovetskii13]

It's called "Mammary sex". I agree with foolycooly1001 on his suggestion about showing your breasts more. Your breasts might be what is called his "fetish". For him, looking at your breasts makes you seem more attractive to him and that creates more pleasure for him. The more pleasure, the faster and better orgasm will be.

[foolycooly1001]

Well maybe he needs to see the breasts to come. Have you tried other positions where he can see and/or feel your breasts during penetration?

[Clarabobara]

Not so much. That's a good suggestion. Now that I think about it I've worn my bra during sex a few times!

[Lover_of_big_tits]

He sounds like me, I’m the same way. There’s something about titfucking that really makes me get off quickly

[dreamishobby]

ahh I think he was bored of having a chocolate ice-cream everyday...so one day when you offered strawberry ice-creamm...he was delighted...!

i would say keep rotating betn chocolate~strawberry~butterscotch~blackcurrent...!

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Lol I hope this whole thing! :D

[Anonymous]

Genuinely weird. P0rn culture.