Young guys-- what do you think about your mom dressing sexy?

[cajundani]

I am 36 and have a 16yr old son. Personally I think I have a sexy body and would love to wear more flattering or sexy things when we go places. I love my short skirts, low tops showing lots of cleavage from my 36Hs, and heels. I get the feeling by the looks he gives me and comments he makes that he doesn't want his mom showing too much. his comments are usually just " you"re wearing that?" or " that's what you are wearing?" I don't dress slutty or in anything that isn't age appropriate but I also don't want to dress like an old lady. and Don't want to embarrass him. so what the deal...is it really inappropriate for me to go out dressed sexy? Check my profile to see my pictures.

[icanhelp]

Well I'm a bit of a crime buff an I can remember this guys name but there was this serial killer who s mother used to dress really provocatively, and so this guy grew up with sexual frustration towards his mother, and so after he left home, all of that sexual frustration against women built up and he killer his mother and about 10 other women I think it was. So before ou think about dressing up sexy and wild, remember, you are a mother now and your kid hates it, plus you could be screwing up your teenage son. But seriously though, if you have kids now, don't you think it's time to start being a normal mom, not trying to be sexy? I'm a teenager and I would HATE if my mom was to worried about looking sexy to listen to the fact that she looks fine without lookig like a flesh buffet. Tc. Peace.

[cajundani]

Thanks! Didn't think of that crime stuff, but I do remember reading someting about that years ago! LOL!. This is the response I am looking for, I just want to know what kids think of their moms dressing sexy. I mean he has no problem telling me that his friends mom is Hot ! so I was just confused by his comments. Thanks so much for your comment!

[icanhelp]

You seem like a nice lady ha ha glad to help :) ha ha take care and have a wonderful day :)

[BobDaRulaBDR]

That's an odd kid I couldn't imagine telling my mother I thought my friends moms were hot. Even If I had friends

[katiesmuff]

I would'nt think that is the way a mother would want to dress when with her teenage son. I'm 27 and have a 5 year old daughter. When not with her I tend to dress very pravocative letting these huge 34C's get some looks and from time to time I am sure some have gotten a sneak peek at the coochie. However when I am with my daugther shopping, school, day care etc I dress a conservative as possible. If you or I were to get lableled as sluts in cirlcles where the kids are involved it also unfairly falls back on them also.

[cajundani]

I forgot to say too.....my hubby suggests I dress to show off my body so I am battling the 2! hubby encourages me to wear something showy. But I get what you are saying...... thanks for responding.

[katiesmuff]

Tell your hubby to grow up and back off and think of his sons feelings. He wants to parade you around as his hooker tell him you guys can do that when the two of you go out on adult only dates.

[saphirasilverwings]

If your profile pictures are a good representation of what you wear regularly, your clothing is not appropriate for ANY age. There's no need to dress like a 1950s grandmother but if you normally bare your stomach in public I certainly don't blame anyone, 16 year old son or otherwise, for disapproving.

[saphirasilverwings]

I completely agree wih the answer below. When you're not in a situation where you could be associated with your son at all, wear what you want. But as far as being a mom I would consider that inappropriate.

[saphirasilverwings]

Your husband can deal. He's a parent too, he should understand.

[cajundani]

Those pics are not what I normally wear those were just for my hubbys calendar, but it gives you an idea of what I look like. I do wear a bikini to the beach but so does every other woman on the beach, but that's the only place I wear a bikini. I don't bare my stomach, like I said I do dress age appropriate just on the sexy side.

[saphirasilverwings]

Then telling us to look at your pictures doesn't make very much sense as it doesn't help us understand the situation at all.

[saphirasilverwings]

To me, there's nothing confusing... you have a responsibility to raise your son in a healthy and appropriate environment. It's important to have fun, but that should come second. Your husband SHOULD be able to understand this.

[saphirasilverwings]

If you notice that your son seems uncomfortable when you wear something, it would be good to not wear that anymore when you are around him.

[Red_Arrow]

You said to see your pictures, check your profile. But the only picture is of your feet in shoes. I am curious how you dress the way your husband wants. If they are available on the net please send me a link.
Now about how you should dress. It does not sound like it is anything inappropriate, just that your son feels uncomfortable because you are his mother. That is understandable. My suggestion is to tone down your apparel when you son is with you, and dress the way you (and your hubby) want you to when your son is not with you.

[Anonymous]

I am SO glad I have a "boring" mother. lol.

I feel sorry for your son (in the respect of the his complaints).

If your dressing "sexy" for your husband, keep it for the bedroom and work events. Spare you son his blushes.

[cajundani]

I didn't always have a good body and since I have worked hard to get a good body, guess that's why I enjoy showing it off too. Soooo you think I should go back to being a "boring" mom? LOL!

[Opinion Owner]

Well, yes. When your around your children & there friends. You've got a perfect husband (hopefully) you only need to be sexy for one man.. you don't need the approval or longing looks of everyone (again hopefully). Its good to be proud of your figure & you will have chance to show it off, when you take your son swimming or when you goto the gym. Even if you enjoy making your husband jelous, when you goto work events or whatever. But for the family occasion, dress like a mum for your son

[lelebear]

You can be sexy without being slutty. Try to find a happy medium so that you can please both your men. Maybe wear a skirt that is a little short but cover up your breasts or show a little bit of cleavage but cover your legs that way not everything is hanging out.

[cajundani]

Good idea thanks!

[ManAmongBoys]

Your son doesn't like it, but I'm sure his friends LOVE IT. Especially looking at your chest.

[cajundani]

You are crazy....I knew you'd say that! LOL! Thanks!

[modeve]

Very strange that in some societies if a woman wears revealing or sexy dress, she is frowned upon especially by her own family. I am at a loss to understand why such a behaviour is seen. Should a young woman kill her desires just because she has children?

[Alpha93]

Your son is probably really embarrassed, but I'm sure his friends love it!

sons don't like it when their moms dress like that, but his friends do.

[prosmind]

If you are comfortable with your body and showing skin, continue with it.

[realdudeprince]

Hey i didn't see ur pic in profile
where is ur pic dear

[GrahamTavish]

I prefer it when she walks around naked my mum has pretty amazing boobs and its easy to sneak a grab

[NormaTavish]

I'm well aware off it.. your not that sneaky

[GrahamTavish]

@NormaTavish ha!

[chuck48]

I think you should dress the way you want your the adult. Your son will be fine.

[andyandyrandy]

Wear what pleases u, maybe he doesn't want to share his hot mom

[Diobalik]

I can understand this question. My mom was sexy and I took notice. I can remember some things she used to wear and what it used to do to me. Send me a messg and we can share details.

[concearnedlady]

ok well there is a way for any woman to dress sexy but classy. There is no need for skirts that are to short or tops that are to low cut. Your breasts are large enough that they will be noticed in just about anything! I suggest dressing in way that shows your curves but is still respectful to your sons. You are their mother first! Even for women that are not mothers a guy still finds a woman sexy even if she dressed classy as well.

[Anonymous]

Please stop. You're traumatizing your poor son. You're supposed to be his mother and a boy his age has raging hormones. If he sees any skin on any woman his mind is going to think of it sexually for at least a second, and thinking about your mother in a sexual way is traumatizing.

[Anonymous]

You are embarrassing him. Badly. Stop it. Grow up. Stop trying to act like a teenager and at least while you are around your son, try to act like his mother. He probably gets picked on by his friends because of it too. Nobody wants to see their mother walking around dressed like a two dollar whore. Oh and MILF is not something you want to hear your mother described as by your friends as a teenager really.

[Anonymous]

ugh I'm so happy my mom doesn't dress slutty, I'd never hear the end of it

you're a mother, act like one