"Worse"?
Hum, you might want to talk with people into cuckolding and cuckqueening over on fetlife.
But basically my impression is that they tend to progress to the point where they'll prefer not being sexually satisfied at all at some point, it's all about their partner and their pleasure (aka you in this case).
They might enjoy humiliation, like being negativly compared to the person their partner is with (not all of them are mind you).
For instance some girls into cuckqueening loves hearing how much better the other girl is in bed or how much better that other girl looks and how much better they take care of their man, how they're a better cook and just in general is better in every way... (think of it as a form of sadism and masochism but with feelings instead of physical pain)
And that feeling of jelousy of someone else having pleasure with *their* man etc...
For others it's not about humiliation and things like that but about submission and serving their partner and their happiness.
Honestly I don't know what exactly your boyfriend might end up with, but talk with him, talk with people into cuckolding in that community (for instance on fetlife) and perhaps he may also join something like that.
I don't know where it'll all end.
He might not go any further at all too.
Or perhaps you get another boyfriend who share you with your current one?
I don't know.
If you want this experience to go well, you both have to talk about it again and again! He has to respect your limits or doubts. And you have to make sure you do it for the good reasons! For example : my ex and I did cuckold couple times!! But it took over a year of serious discussions to both be sure we wanted to do it! And the first time we did, the other person didn't respect our limits so it ended fast and rude!! Lol But we kept going and lived many very hot experiences ;)
Thank you !
Pleasure! If you have any questions, feel free to pv message me or ask them here ;)
just listened to a "savage love" podcast episode on this... apparently some dudes freak out, get violent, or regret it and turn mean. to sum up that advice: set clear boundaries, let him know if he gets mad and starts acting like you're a whore later, you'll leave him. start slow like flirting with other men in front of him, then touching, kissing, etc... don't go straight for sex. and if you don't wanna, don't.
Thank you
You'll have to be very careful with that (both of you). It takes A LOT of trust and A LOT of proper communcation. You will have to agree upon very precise rules and communicate them so that they are 100% clear to both of you.
If you can meet these criteria, I think you'll have a lot of fun.
A lot of really bad information going around in this thread...
Thanks ! I guess everyone has different points of views and it's good to hear everyone's opinions.
Sure. But some of these opinions aren't really based on facts but rather subjective emotions. A lot of people can't comprehend why someone would be into cuckolding so they like to talk shit about it.
Do not do it. You and your boyfriend should only sleep with each other, no one else while in a relationship. Sex should have purpose, not be meaningless. I don't care how badly his sexual desires are. You should places your morals and beliefs over that type of shit.
Thank you I see your point
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I did. I didn't have actual sex with another guy but my boyfriend asked me to watch how i give someone else a blowjob. I did it for him because i feel like i wanted to give him that experience. We agreed on some rules. I got to choose the guy, which we found in a hotel lobby on our holiday. We went to the room, hardly spoke with the guy... gave him a drink. I dressed up in lingerie. My boyfriend was sitting on the chair the whole time and I started giving the guy a blowjob. It was a strange experience.
A lot of guys (and many girls) want to watch their wives or girlfriend with other guys. My college boyfriend really liked this. I did it two times and it was very erotic but I am sure there are those that have had bad experiences.
There are times it can go wrong and ruin a relationship...
You both gotta be in it... i watch it for years, but will never do it. I watch it cos it has a good storyline/usually real.
U better avoid that
Break up, find a real man.
My ex boyfriend was a cuck too.
And how was your experience with it?
Not bad. Good experience actually
Cuckolding leads to break ups, divorce. Is not something natural for a stable relationship.
I don't understand what's attractive from seen your SO fucked by another guy, it's just not something that match with a healthy relationship.
I understand
Trust me, it those that. I knew this guy online who went nuts after he realized his wife was cheating on him. What make it surprising is that they practiced cuckolding, so what reason did she had to cheat?
I guess is because they think that if they are there watching or participating then it's not cheating. In reality you have already slept with another person so it kinda is. It's a confusing subject that not many will understand but I can see why It can get worst in time.
How do u know he is into?
Do u have threesome with another guy?
Whenever we have sex he's always asked me about my past sexual experiences. He gets aroused from it. No I've never had a threesome and he's told me that is one of his fantasies.
You should avoid it Don't fulfill his fantasy Might take a toll on your relationship
all i can say is this when a woman does this she becomes a worthless whore
Maybe I’m dumb but what exactly is cuckolding?
It's the act having sex with someone else in front of your partner
Thanks. Kinda hot but kinda not
He’ll be coming out of the closet soon enough
You really think so? I've read a lot about it and there's a lot of men that are into it
Yeah, I really do think so. I don’t think there are a lot of straight men who want to share their wife.
Or girlfriend** my mistake
If you aren't into it, be clear. You can't do something like this just for him.
Of that causes a problem then you have to deal with that, but you can't do something you don't like just for someone else's kicks
Thanks for the feedback, I don't think that I will be doing any of this.. it's just not me
It's your life I'm not into it tho
May I know what happened finally? Did you try or not? How you think now. As a cuckold I like to know your opinion. Thanks
Are you comfortable with doing it? If not then tell him no. If so shit go have fun while he watches.
I did it with my ex wife, I enjoyed watching her get fucked by another man and once he left her on the bed it was my turn and I fucked her with the harder and bigger erection than the previous guy.
Wow I'm guessing that you never seen your ex wife the same after that
Its what I wanted, I found her more desirable. Plus she enjoyed experiencing other shapes and sizes of dick but loved mine the most.
Ohh really okay that's interesting.
Yeah. They all say they want that. UNTIL they see their partner in the hands of another person. Hell nah.
Lucky woman! You get the permission to "cheat" on him without actually cheating on him.
Anyway this is your decision. To do or not to.
But cuckolding is disgusting in my opinion. How can some guy enjoy watching their woman being pounded by someone else? Bring me a bucket really fast!🤢
The part of having sex with another man doesn't really bring my attention, it was more to fulfil his fantasy and an "experience " for my self but I think I will pass. I agree I don't know why anyone would want that but people have different fetishes..
I have 0 experience with cuckoldry and have never heard anyone liking it. The thought of it alone makes me sick! Swinging may be one thing but that's only for open or polyamory relationships but not something i can imagine being compatible with monogamy. Do what is best anon asker.
I've known people who've done this, and their relationships have never lasted after.
Tbh, he sounds closet gay, or at least bi. A guy like that is definitely unmanly, and not a long term prospect, that's for sure.
Very well said!!! <3
Thanks for the feedback
What is wrong with you.. 'not a long term prospect' Jesus go back to the dark ages. Just because he might enjoy something sexually that you don't doesn't give you the right to comment on him as a person.
Ditch him.
He has no respect, either for himself or for you.
You ask whether it will get 'worse'. Next thing will be he'll want to get the other guy hard for you, and 'clean up' after. He's a low value individual, and you should run.
This is very true thanks
Hang on he's not a low value individual because of a fetish like this. Projecting your sexual bias like that is neither helpful to the poster or true. It comes down to what she is comfortable with or not.
I can agree with what you are saying but at this point I think that I'm being used as a sexual tool to fulfil his fantasies..
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