Inhave been there with my girlfriend first im sorry to hear about the abuse thats something we all hope to see never happen again to anyone. Second its amazing your partner is understanding thats rare im lile thatbwith my girlfriend as well what we do is we try to have nights or whenever we have sex to be fair to the other partner. I habe an issue with finishing it takes me hours to cum and she slaves over my penis to get it to cum. And she also gets anxiety sometimes when she finshed when im still hard and not satisfied, so we agreed to make it a night by night basis one night its all about her needs and her wants and not neglected by mine but hers is the priority and than the next night swjtch, if you need more info PM meni can explain it more
0 0 0 0As like others said, avoid rough sex. You got two reasons for that, and if your actual partner doesn't care ask yourself what future you are seeking for.
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I can only suggest you don't have rough sex at all because if it leads too panic attack's then you need too put your mental health first. However you must then try something else and why not try tantra which is meditative sex in a slow and emotional way. Asides from that i would say seek out an mental health professional as it is proven that talking can help.
0 0 0 0Don't this to yourself girl! If you're not enjoying it, you really shouldn't continue with this. I always feel like when penus and vagina do not coherently seem to work out like that, it just wasn't meant to be. That's just my honest opinion about it.
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1 1Well just go and talk to him you will feel better cause he will understand you as you defined him here
0 0 0 0Communication is key tell him
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