Why won't my girlfriend let me finger her?

[Anonymous]

She used to love it, but now that we've had sex, she won't let me. She also has never let me eat her out, but her ex boyfriend used to all the time? She's also never open to new positions. She says it is because I am well endowed, but has been able to do the positions before?

[Anonymous]

I'm still a virgin, so I can't speak for the sex positions. It took me 4 years to let my boyfriend eat me out and I'm still self conscious about it. I'm working on it though. For her it may be a comfort level thing. He always tells me how good I taste, but I always have to kiss him in the middle, just to make sure. Maybe you could try fingering her and then work your way down telling her how good she smells and that you want to taste her. You could also ask for a 69 for your birthday :-).

[Sweetums4362]

It may simply just hurt too bad! That's why I say I would much rather have an average size penis than a big one. As for going down on her, I can't figure that one out. Unless maybe she's embarassed about the way she smells or how it looks or maybe she has an infection that she doesn't want you to know about... I guess it could be a number of things. That's something I'm definitely not turning down! Lol.

[Anonymous]

Sorry. Its been along day. That was me down there. I don't know. She may just prefer sex :-)