I have a weird vagina angle?

I’m his second partner and he’s my first. He complains that I have a weird vagina because the angle has to be right in order for him to smoothly insert his penis. Like it bends his penis or something and sometimes he loses it. Has anyone else experienced this? Am I doing something wrong?
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  • Listen, if she doesn't appreciate you the way you are then he is not the one. Everyone here blessed with their own size, their own identity, their own shape. Even our hair is none of them were I am 100% sure yours are not weird, it's a blessings. If he told you that yours are weird because he compared yours with his first partner's, then go left him. He still had her in his mind for sure, he doesn't appreciate you, he doesn't belong with you. You deserve someone much better than him.

  • I can't comment on the discomfort that it's causing him, but the fast that he's making you feel like your vagina is "weird" or making you feel like you're doing something wrong, it sounds to me like this person really doesn't so much care about you but rather just getting off.. If something is going on down there, as a couple the two of you should work to figure it out together. Not alienate one another..

    • He’s always kind of been that way. He says I don’t show enough cleavage or wear sexy things. But even when I do he doesn’t initiate unless I’m blatantly doing something to get his attention. Sometimes he’ll just straight up refuse me because he’s too tired. Only when he wants it so I have to be ready and on the go, but then that’s when he complains about the angle...

    • That is incredibly selfish of him. And not very fair to you, either. You shouldn't subject yourself to someone who doesn't want anything to do with you (sexually) unless it's convenient for them. Considering this is your first partner, its a delicate situation but a low self-esteem is likely to come of this type of behaviour from him

    • I’m already there, except I keep thinking about how all these other guys look at me. I sometimes dress cute when out with my girlfriends and other times I don’t dress slutty and I’m still turning heads. The thing is it’s not so easy because I’m married to this person and that’s what’s keeping me up for these past few months.

  • You can try different positions until you find one that works

  • He's an idiot. You're fine. He needs to get better aim.

    • Lol, no. This actually happens.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Well for starts its hard say, doe he point up or down or have a bend? Have actually broken your hymen all the way? Sex was quite painful for my first wife until she got seen by a good gyno and discovered that he's had only partially torn and then she built scar tissue. Small procedure cliped it away anrbshe was a fucking machine after that.

    • Up and no bent. I’m fully broken. Been to gyno and they never mentioned anything. Sometimes he has no problems entering it.

    • Is it in all positions or just certain ones, and if he point up towards his belly it can make it more difficult especially if you are not relaxed and a bit tensed up. Have you tried doggystyle? That would be a better position for him until you are relaxed

    • Usually when I get on top. If he lays flat on his back it’s okay sometimes. But I really want him sitting on the couch and me riding on top but he says the angle is weird or sometimes when we spoon I have to bend at a right angle for him to put it in. We do doggy a lot but I only orgasm when riding him.

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  • I did have a girlfriend with a curved vagina once. It didn't bother me but it was uneasy for her. If it doesn't bother you then it sounds like he might be a whiner. I also had another girlfriend that had problems with me going in and had to angle her pelvis just right but again that was something she noticed, not me.

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  • It sound like HE have problem and not you. He no expert on anything yet!

  • Yes. No. It was good for the woman I was with, because it hit her g-spot really hard. I had to be careful, especially when she would get into it.

  • Nothing wrong or strange with you. You're partner's just giving you bs!

  • Lol no way I'm sure you couldn't be more perfect down there he's blaming everything on you

  • If you're his second he doesn't have enough experience to make any observations. And sincs he's your first you shouldn't worry about what he says. There are very mimimal differences between women's vaginas no matter what you read. So its not you.

  • I cannot understand how this is possible.

  • I've never had that issue, it's probably his technique. Vaginas are specifically designed to have penises inside them. Maybe you aren't aroused enough or something. Make sure that your vagina is wet enough before he tries to enter.

  • I've never heard of a curved vagina before

    But there's guys with curved penises and that didn't stop them from living a normal life

    So why he's saying this?

  • I had a lover who had an inverted vagina, so having straight missionary sex was difficult, but from behind or a reverse cowboy was really good. Go buy the Kama Sutra or download it on a Kindle and try a bunch of different positions. They're fun !!

  • Try another guy and get his opinion. If he doesn't find any problem then it's your BFs dicks fault

  • Let me realign that for you! ;)

  • Would need pics to get a better understanding lol.

  • Its not you fault. If he blames you he ain't deservd you.

  • Turn over and try it that way

  • He's complaing lmfao goin soft during sex

  • Sound like he's the one with the issue, not you.

  • I'll need to volunteer my time and take a closer look to see how weird it could be. LOL

  • Weird is good most cases

  • Try different positions..

  • It's statistically more likely that his penis is at an odd angle.

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