Why does my boyfriend spank me?

Question

He'll do it during sex, or just every so often. Not hard, but is that like a fetish? Or why?

BigBoyJosh · Accepted Answer

Possibly a fetish(probly not) or he could have some sort or fantasy that involves spanking(we ALL have fantasy's and some people try hard to make em real), though if it botheres you can ask him to stop; though if your okay with him getting in be with you, it shouldn't be to much of a problem, lol.

Hope I helped and maybe you have some crazy fantasy you could fulfil with him =)

sota13 · Accepted Answer

i wouldn't call that kind of a think a fetish (though some people DO have a spanking fetish). It's just usually something that's playful and fun and sexy when yer getting into it. If it bothers you, just let him know. If it doesn't bother you, there's nothing to worry about. Common bedroom behavior.

Birdsofprey · Accepted Answer

Some people like to spank or be spanked.  If you aren't comfortable with it, just tell him.  He doesn't mean it in a degrating way, I wouldn't get too concerned.