Just lost my virginity... do you think he could tell?

I'm 21 and I lost my virginity yesterday, to my boyfriend of nearly 3 months (he's 27). He did not know that I was a virgin. I was one by choice (waiting for the "right" guy, someone I can trust and feel comfortable with, etc.), but I still always felt embarrassed by it. Everyone assumed I wasn't one, so I always just went with it. Anyway, we had a long night of drinking at a friend's place the night before, so we went back to his place the next afternoon and decided to nap for a while. He was in his boxers and a t-shirt, I was in yoga pants and a tank top. After we woke up, we were laying around cuddling and started making out a little bit. He gently moved me so I was laying on my back, I took off his shirt, he pulled my pants & panties off, then his boxers and got on top of me. He fingered me for a few seconds, but I was already wet, so he put it in and thrusted really deep. It felt amazing, no pain whatsoever. We did a few variations of the missionary position for awhile (my feet on the bed, then my legs wrapped around his waist, then my legs over my head), the entire time I was meeting his thrusts with my hips, 0periodically tightening my vagina muscles, running my hands down his back in different ways, [because I've heard guys equate "bad sex" with girls who "just lay there"... plus I was having fun...I didn't want to just lay there ;) ]. He then got onto his back and had me ride him. It took me a couple seconds to get the rhythm just right, but he was directing my hips with his hands, so I figured out how he wanted it very quickly. He reached up to take my shirt off, but I batted his hands away and did it, then took my bra off... he got the biggest smile on his face =P. I reached back and grabbed his legs while riding him, arching my back a little bit so my boobs were sticking out. I don't know why. It just felt right and I'm pretty sure he liked it. lol. He was then trying to pull me closer to him, so I bent forward and placed my hands on either side of his head, on the bed. So my boobs were right above his face while I was riding him. After like a minute of that, he wrapped his arms around my upper body and pulled me down towards him so our bodies were completely pressed together. He grabbed my hips and thrusted into me really hard a few last times and came. We laid in each others arms in silence for a minute while he uh... recovered... then out of nowhere he goes, "That was f***ing awesome!" and we laughed about it for bit. Then we cuddled for awhile, just staring at each other all dreamily and kissing. I've heard so many horror stories about people losing their virginity, being inexperienced, etc. but I didn't think it went bad at all? Do you think it sounds like it went well, being that it was my first time?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I think that if you bled and you were in pain he would know. But I assume that he doesnt. But you sound like me I did a lot of research on sex so that I knew what I was suppose to do and to make he experience better. I hope you guys used some type of protection but maybe you should think about telling him because he would be very flatter to know that he was the only guy uve been with.

  • Fuck me, losing my virginity with my current boyfriend wasn't like that.

    It was so painful, maybe because I had never been felt up before in my life.

  • nice story lol. no he didn't know. hope the sex is still f***ing awesome lol ;)

Most Helpful Guys

  • I think he said it all when he said it was F-ing awesome. Plus, you sound like you were more than ready and you enjoyed yourself. Believe it or not, most guys are much more concerned about how good it is for their partner than themselves. If you had a good time and you showed it, you can be sure he loved it and never even thought of you being a virgin.

  • Your boyfriend sounds like a lucky man. By the sound of things, I'm sure he couldn't tell at all. You go girl. (By the way, if anyone has a problem reading this, they should stay out of the "Sexuality" section or stop reading. The girl has a legitimate question - leave her alone.)

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  • First of all we didn't need a full detail of your sex night... and anyways I'm sure he probably didn't know. Or didn't care since you were f***ing him.

  • wow

    • Your boyfriend sounds like a lucky man. By the sound of things, I'm sure he couldn't tell at all. You go girl. (By the way, if anyone has a problem reading this, they should stay out of the "Sexuality" section or stop reading. The girl has a legitimate question - leave her alone.)