I can't get it up! Any advice?

Ok, Me and girlfriend have been dating for a couple months and I still can't get it up. She's never seen it erect which is really frustrating because I'm a grower and it's very small while it's soft like 2inches but grows a few inches when erect so she thinks I have a small penis on top of it. She's not being nice or understanding about it either she teases me and shames me for it and acts annoyed and frustrated and recently started insulting my penis.. last time we attempted to have sex.. she just laid there rolling her eyes and said "OMG come on! This is pathetic!" She's very attractive so I don't understand why this keeps happening.. Is it performance anxiety?
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I'm beginning to feel like she's using me too.. she's always nice when I take her out to dinner or movies or take her shopping but not too much during intimacy. She's been unemployed for a while now and hasn't really looked plus I suspect she's been cheating on me based on her recent behavior
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  • You are asking the wrong questions.

    '' she teases me and shames me for it and acts annoyed and frustrated and recently started insulting my penis.''

    You should have ditched her already, and I guarantee if the roles were reversed, she'd already be gone.

    Guys, young men, STOP putting up with so much shit from women. If they disrespect you, or your manhood, ditch them immediately. Why would you remain with someone that is treating you like you are worthless?

    If anything, your erectile dysfunction is probably more related to the woman, than anything else. Get rid of her and eject her from your life forever. Then after that, work on your health, diet, and exercise.

  • It’s defini performance anxiety. I suggest you get some viagara or cialis fuck the living daylights out of her. Cum on her face and then have her lick you dick clean. As soon as you feel she’s done you get up, get dressed and say “we’re done” and leave.

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  • Maybe your penis detect she’s not worth being inside of? Tbh she sounds quite cruel, it’s not like you’re deliberately avoiding an erection.

    • Thank you, I'm beginning to feel like she's using me too.. she's always nice when I take her out to dinner or movies or take her shopping but not too much during intimacy. She's been unemployed for a while now and hasn't really looked plus I suspect she's been cheating on me based on her recent behavior.

    • My advice-get rid of her 🙋🏼‍♀️

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  • You must be joking saying all this and thinking your penis getting hard is the biggest concern lol

    • What do you mean?

    • It sounds like you're with someone you don't need to be with. If you're serious, it's probably just hard to get hard because she's made you nervous more than aroused.

    • That's probably true.. her actions do make me feel intimidated..

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  • Yeah it is plus its not the right girl if she does things this way.

  • Become a woman, then you don't have to worry about it.

  • Wow, She sounds like a mean spoiled brat!! TBH she's probably using you and cheating on you.. you should seriously consider moving on and the insults are not cool..