Ladies have you ever had sex with a black guy?

im white and I've always had a fantasy about having sex with a black guy, I was just curious but like is this a common fantasy, oh and if youve been with a black guy did it live up to your expectations, like were the myths true :P
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  • Here's the truth about white girls and black guys: Every girl goes through that curiosity/adventure stage. A handful of girls manage to resist the temptation to "sew wild oats" (actually, harvest wild oats, but I digress); the other 90+ percent go through a phase where they get their share of penis. For a few of them, that may mean just doing it with a steady boyfriend who is probably of the same race. For most, it means some combination of steady boyfriends, some "third-date and went all the way" guys, and maybe one or two one-night stand/heat of the moment events; perhaps having sex with 5 to 10 guys before settling down and becoming "nice girls" who find one guy, get married, and live happily ever after.. And for a few at the extreme, they basically turn into total sluts.

    I'll address the majority group -- the ones who have been with 5 to 10 then settle down; for most of them, sex with a black guy is one of those adventures they might do at the right moment in time; it is a combination of curiosity and a short-term wild streak that leads to perhaps 50% of girls in this group actually going all the way with a black guy at least one time, and perhaps an additional 10-15% having "only" done oral with a black guy (I have a friend in this category). So, if you are out on a date with a non-virgin girl over 25, there is a better than 50% chance that she's had a black penis inside her vagina before. [The 5-10% that were truly the good girls are probably married by age 25, and thus you won't be dating them; and if you are out with one of the sluts, there's about 95% chance she's done black; so, the odds are better than 50% that any random 25 year old white woman you are out on date with has gone all the way with a black guy at least once; and a 65% chance there's been a black penis in her mouth.] Now, here's the rest of the story -- she probably won't admit it. She knows white guys typically don't want a girl who's done black, so she "forgets" to mention it.

    • The vast majority of non black women on this planet aren't even around black males. They are a particular minority. So this '50 percent/95 percent' you're hawking is nonsense.

    • @LThunder OK. Fine. I was referring to women in the United States.

    • That's still nonsense.

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  • Chelsea, This is a fantasy many girls have and so many fail to go for it and miss out on what could be a great experience. My suggestion is DO IT! I have been sexually involved with black men now for a lot of years and have enjoyed most all of it. As in any sexual thing regardless of race there will be some disappointments along with the many great times. As for the myths I would say most are not as true as they would make you believe. What I do find true is the confindence they have. They have told me this probably comes from the fact that they are just as intreged by having a white girl as we are as having a black guy. For me one of the most extreme highs it the color contrast. After all these years living with these guys I still get butterflies when I am naked with them and can visually see the color contrast. The other thing is they are much better at working it, making sure I am getting as much pleasure as they are getting.

    I recommend giving it a try.

    • So are they bigger in the pants or is this myth?

    • It's basically a myth, but as with any race of guys some do come along with very large sholongs. Can't say that more of the black race has them than any other though!

    • I agree about the color contrast it's so sexy. And it is basically a myth about being bigger. Some are and some aren't.

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  • I have always wanted to have sex with a black guy. I fantasize about it almost every day. The issue is that even though I have a boyfriend whom I love very much and have been with for 3 years, I still cannot stop imagining what it would be like. And interestingly enough when I think of it, it's not really about the penis size, to be honest, I don't really like huge dicks. It's rather about the fact that they look so hot, simply because they are black. I have shared this with my boyfriend and he is well aware of it and frankly we have ourselves a good laugh somethimes because I feel so hopeless ( :D). And he always tells me that if I really want it that much I should go for it, but I can't, most importantly because I would consider it cheating. However, another reason that I haven't shared with him is that there is a part of me that thinks I would like it way too much, so I would never be able to enjoy sex with my boyfriend again. Has someone been in a similar situation?

    • I've never done "black." But I still understand. I've met some "damn, he's hot" guys that my only real interest in them was the physical. Like most good girls, I just kept moving, because I recognized that I can't just go around f**king every guy that looks hot. Life works much better when your sex partner is also someone with whom you have a good romance going. That said, I was on spring break (freshman year of college) and my boyfriend decided to stay home and work. Well, long story short, I met a hot guy and took him back to my motel room and did the deed, and damn it was good. But do know, a lot of the "good" was because I was doing something "bad." Taking a step back and analyzing just the sex, absent the risque nature of my "bad" behavior, he wasn't any better than the boyfriend I had at the time. Don't confuse the sparks that fly the "first time" you do something, with it being better than your normal gig. A roller coaster is always a thrill the first time you ride it.

    • On another note, I'm a bit surprised that your boyfriend told you to go for it. That's not normal for a guy who loves you to encourage you to have sex with another guy that you find intersting. And would you be OK with your boyfriend f-ing another girl? Even if it were just for the adventure of doing a black/hispanic/asian/blind/short/tall/fat/skinny/flat-chested (pick one) girl and he claimed no interest in her beyond the sax? I have a feeling that you are going to do black one day, just for the experience. But I would recommend that you not mention that you got it to your boyfriend. And if the topic ever comes up, just say "I'm over that now." Just make sure your birth control is current when you have your adventure. Why do you feel so hopeless?

    • That has been helpful, thanks. I think that my boyfriend said that it's okay just so I stop talking about it and in a way get it over with. But in reality, much like me, I don't actually think that he would simply accept it and won't get hurt. The bottom line is, if you have something of value (a good relationshit in this case) just hold on to it and don't risk it for a little while of fun.

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  • Yes I am black.

    Yes. I fantasize about white women.

    Yes. The color contrast makes the sexual pleasure more intense and erotic for both people.

    Yes. Most white girls tell me that overall black dick on avg is bigger.

    Yes. If a girl fucks a black guy and experiences a black penis filling up her pelvis she likely won't go back to the white guys she used to date.

    Yes. Black dick is no different than the fever if fucking someone with a foreign accent.

    Yes. Black people in general are more blunt and forward about sexuality compared to other races. Women like this a lot for the same reason why they like alpha males who show confidence and control.

    Yes. White men and other raced men have money, jobs, power, cars, status to provide intense attraction to women. Likely a white girl only wants a one night stand. The sex is so pleasurable she changes her mind. In the end, she likely will marry money, etc. White guys win.

    Yes. It is true I prefer white chics, but mainly for cultural reasons. Im from the suburbs and culturally white.

    Yes. Black men like white girls because they have class, and are not as disrespect as black chics.

    Yes. White guys can have big penis as do all cultures.

    Yes. White women like the eroticism more than just the penis size. They are turned on by feelings, and ambiance. Black guys give off a feeling of strength, power, dominance, and they are charming with flattery. Saying, "damn girl you're fine.." " you're beautiful. Goddamn! Come chill with me." Chics like this forward nature.

    Did I get it right ladies?

    • Yeah, but, when white guys try to do what black guys do with white girls they get mad at them. White girls are afraid to get mad at black guys.

  • This is a sad question. White society and culture is being destroyed by the constant immigration of non whites and forced assimilation on the white community. We are force fed the normalization of mixed race relationships by the corrupt media. These conditions amount to a programme of white genocide as defined by international law, and a gradual blending out of the white race.
    Although many white guys won't be able to articulate their feelings, many feel embarrassed, betrayed and saddened by white girls who engage in this behavour, as it shows complete disrespect for the struggle of their ancestors, and is adding to white genocide.

    • AHHH HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! YES!!! Your white women will soon be ours!!! ~Satire

    • What an idiot. Have you ever noticed why blacks in America are so varied in appearance. I mean they're not like Africans or Jamaicans etc. It is because for years White slave owners raped thousands upon thousands of slaves. Because white people (just like any people) hate to be demonized. This fact has been kept from history books. The fact of just how extensive white men fucked black women. So so common. You just didn't talk about it. So today you have blacks with blue eyes... green eyes... straight hair... and skin so light in completion you would think they're white. The genocide you talk about didn't start with black guys and white women. It started with White men raping black women. Hell they we literally owned the pushy you dumb ads. We started this shit!

    • You wanko men

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  • i've had a similar fantasy. but I don't think I will ever act upon it. I like the status quo of the white d***.

    • good to know I'm not the only one that thinks about it lol, why do you fantasize about it, like what does it for you?

    • i think personally for me its because I know my father would hate it. and it would be something I wouldn't normally do. maybe because its like this "bad boy" idea in my head? haha

    • go for a steve urkel type and close your eyes lol you won't think he's black then :-P

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  • Yes, just to explain it and not trying to be lewd or sexting, but its kinda neat seeing black mans body engulfing your entire pale white body. And there's something hot and dirty about looking down and seeing a really dark and black dick going inside your pink vagina, you kinda think "oh fuck that's so wrong, we're 2 different colors and we shouldn't be mixing but we are and i don't care, i love my white pussy mixing with a black dick!"

    Or at least that's how its like with me.

    • Great answer!

    • Yes it would be if you were a woman. But what it would be if you were a man?

    • Hell yea. I'm a white guy and would love to see you guys fuck!

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  • I have never, but I will one day :)

    • what about Asian guys? all white girls will try black but not asian? whats with that.. i doubt Asian men come 2nd in the bedroom, they can fuck too.

    • @ravsubmariner Doing an Asian guy is not considered taboo.

    • @ravsubmariner chill out with all the races stuff then there are plenty of white girls out there that will have sex with Asian guys the only thing is is that is not considered to be taboo in the eyes of most white people you're white. However the darker the skin tone the more taboo it is and out of every race in the world blacks are considered to be the most taboo race to have sex with. You're getting butt hurt but think about how we feel knowing that everyone hates us. I never did anything to anyone neither has my family but we're still generalized and stereotyped against in the one positive thing we have you're getting all butthurt about. I'm not trying to have a pity party or anything like that I want you to understand and kind of look at it from a different perspective

  • The problem I have with topics like this is it continues the stereotype of black men being sexual beast whether you acknowledge that or not. Also based on the comments some of you seem to think your experience with one black man is going to be the same with every black man. Ladies was every white guy you dated the same, they did all treat you the same way, please you equally? I highly doubt it yet black men all get lumped in the some boat foolishness.

    • lool flippin hater, ino its hard for you to give black people something...but common...you rob our history, rob our knowledge, robbed our faith and now you wanna completely rob our image...jheeez.

    • i don't know if this dumbass that commented can see this but someone needs to please inform him that he is the reason racism still exists... thank you

    • Doctor sex, you bias scum bag. You act like you and your people have been robbed of everything such as are to be compansated for your loses you never attained. Meanwhile you maintain the fact of your image... You come from a dark skinned woman, you know the ones that don't compare to the deep thirst you have for a white girl... The kind you can't get. Where you will try harder because of what I said here and after fail Blaim racism in desperate attempts to duress the sex from them.

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  • I'm white but I have a friend (he's one of my best friends) who is black and he gets all the chicks, both black and white, but specially white. I don't know what he does, really, but I'm so jealous of him, I told him so lol, he looks pretty much like this guy here

    Ladies have you ever had sex with a black guy?
  • aww why do I see people dissin black guys? lol I've only been w one and I love him to death, despite all his problems. I miss him this question makes me miss him :(

    anyways, umm yeah he was very big and so good at pleasing me it was so awesome. he was rough w me yet loving at the same time (dont ask how it works) his oral was fantastic I cud come from just that that's how good he is. but hot damn nobody ever did it like he's done it. I looooooooove me some black d*** hahaha!

    i always fantasized about black guys tho I don't know y but they are just so sexy :)

    • So you're a black guy fantasizing about black guys. They like your ass, what? You're also a troll.

  • The only fantasy I've ever had about a black guy was in a dream. So this is what happened...in my dream I was watching p*rn at my grandma's house. There were two girls making out and humping and then all of a sudden the one girl says, "Shorty, get in here!" And a black midget gets in between them. It was really weird and I never want that to actually happen. lol.

    • lol-that-so-funny:)

    • Lmao

    • lol you're joking right?

  • Well I'm curious to what do you mean by Myths and such things that you wanted answered by a black guy. ( Oh yea if you didn't noticed I'm a black guy ) LOL

    • I have a question for you. Would you have a relationship with a white girl or you just want them for sex?

    • I would preferably date.

    • @CarrieM im a black guy and dste primarily white girls. Dated one 2 years. The skin contrast makes the sex hot too by the way. there's also social standing etc involved

  • I have been with a black guy and yes the myth was true, with him at least. He was enormous but he had no idea what he was doing with it. It was pretty awful.

    • it wasn't good?

    • same here. the ones I've seen have never been small

  • lol I concur with the previous guy

    • i won't mind banging both eva and sofia there both freakin hot

  • I've had sex with black guys, yes they usually were bigger but most of them didn't know how to satisfy a girl.

    • how about Asian guys?

  • Nope. I'm still a virgin, you?

  • i mostly hook up with black guys, I love them. the color contrast is the biggest turn on. they're also more assertive in bed, black guys aren't afraid to just f*** lol

    • try Asian guys, im pretty sure theyre good too. whys it always got to be just white or black guys? black guys can't even invent anything and can't get africa civilized, yet all u white girls want black men? how about Asian men for all their credit?

    • Your life is headed for disaster.

    • @ravsubmariner You're not trying to invent something or civilize something when you're in bed! In fact, you're trying to UNCIVILIZE her and make her lose control. Now check your insecurities at the frong door!

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  • Hey honey, you should give it a try and find it out urself. Id tell ya its totally worth it. I never categorize men as black or white , and I've not had much xp with blacks but whatever I had was different , black men are like : "I won't stop till u get it all baby!" ;) won't say anything else... Hope u got my point hehe :)

    • So you're a guy with a horny ass?

  • They're overrated.

  • Sex with them is just like sex with anyone else. Their pubes are more coarse and it's weird trying to run your hands through their hair or if he like has chest hair or something. It just feels weird. Their full lips feel better on you, and I wouldn't say they're all big down there but black ones look better than white ones imho. I think they have bigger nut sacks though. Everyone says they won't go down on you but all the ones I know are into it. I guess the attraction is that they're so different. BUT the kind of Black guys that usually get hyped up like thugs are probably not all that in bed. Someone with a me vs the world attitude and a f*** everyone kind of mindset is just gonna be really selfish in bed.

  • A lot of butthurt white guys on here! F*** your girls better than maybe this wouldn't be happening :^)

  • Lol seeing as I am black yes, they're still diff sizes as in any race

  • Ladies, please take my poll on how many White women have been with a Black man. That way we can tally the exact percentage and help sort out some of the confusion surrounding this issue. Thanks.

  • I've had sex with black guys and black girls doesn't matter to me

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