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Why do you guys revolve everthing around sex?

you wake up thinking about it you go to bed think about it. you look at any girl and immediately picture her in your bed. that's all you talk about with other guys I understand you guys like it so much but why revolve everything around it? why do you only care about that?
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I don't know maybe I have been on this website to long, and all I pretty much run across comments such as the ones I commented on below. So what are girls supposed to think when the majority of what guys talk about and they say think about is sex?
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  • I believe it's because men's brains revolve around pleasure and happiness - the simple things... Women's brains are much more complex - revolving around other people and other priorities. Mens priorities are sexual in nature... they just are. We live in a world where life always has and always will revolve around sex. Lets face it... sex sells. Sex is thrown in our faces constantly - commercials, movies, music, advertisements. I also think men think that sex should be like the p*rn industry shows it. A woman who is all about the man - all about his interests and getting him satisfied. The bottom line for me is - most of the time, my sexual activity with my boyfriend is for him... not me. I could care less whether or not I have sex bc the chances of me climaxing are ridiculously low and WAY too time consuming. So, I make sure he is having a good time. I make sure he gets what he wants/needs. Because, sadly, the only way to get what you want (as a female), is to make sure the man is satisfied sexually. Boys - if you are satisfied sexually, will you not do anything for your woman? If she's not putting out, isn't that all you can think about? Why am I not getting any? BC the whole world revolves around it. Every kind act... men are thinking... i hope she likes this and will suck my dick, or BOY am I going to get lucky tonight. Men don't do kind acts for the purpose of kind acts... they do them for the good sex they'll have. Another question... when is sex over? When the man's done. Period. The only way i can cum is externally - as with SEVERAL women. So, if the only way to cum is externally, who is the actual act of sex for? Male pleasure... not female! Further proof of living in a mans sexual world

  • I don't know about other girls but it turns me on when I know my boyfriend is thinking about sex! That's basically all we talk about is what we want to do to each other sexually. Plus, like JChacon08, it's human instinct. You can't help it and neither can they.

  • you have to understand, men are visual beings. women use their mind.

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  • To me normal is having sex 1-2 times a week when alone with my girlfriend. If that's out of the way, which is say 3 hours a week, than I'm satisfied sexually and will barely ever salivate for it.

    It's only when a guy is not sexually fulfilled that he begins to seem like his life revolves around sex.

    For example, I had one girlfriend who would barely want to be sexually active. After about a month of no sex it would become a daily occurrence where I would try to instigate, at this point my girlfriend would start saying "all you want to do is have sex all the time". I find this annoying and unfair, because I would only be asking for sex often because I hadn't got any in so long.

    Basically one thing I personally could not stand when dating, is when a girl would try to make me feel guilty for wanting to have sex. With all my good relationships there has been a steady dose (again 1-2 a week), and because of it, I wouldn't become so sex obsessed and I wouldn't get annoyed when my girl didn't feel like it. In relationships like this, the sex becomes maybe 1% of a week, but 1% is a hell of a big difference compared to 0%, which in turn makes you think about it %100 of the week.

  • I wouldn't say that it's ALL we care about - you must realize that it's not as simple as you make it sound. It is, in essence, the only reason that males exist in the first place. We are literally genetic accidents which proved useful and were used more by evolution and whatnot.

    To say that it's all we think about wouldn't be far from the truth, in my experience - but we do enjoy the same sort of cuddly-wuddly stuff that you lot do. Thing is, it's just lower down on the priorities list, sadly. Personally, being in something of a steady relationship has taught me that it's not all-important, which is probably good to know at 16. To wrap this up, it's all we're put on this earth to think about, so cut us some slack. Just a bit, not too much or we'll all become rapists and nobody wants that.

    • If it is the only reason you exist, then wouldn't it be fair to say that it's your #1 priority? And would it also be a true statement that women are only here to create more humans? To bear children?

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  • Do you watch television today? It is telling us to think about sex. Every commercial. Every movie. Every tv show. I mean every ad in every magazine is pushing women and their sexuality to us. And then there is women. Are you telling me you have never worn a shirt that you knew was going to show a little extra cleavage or a skirt that showed a little too much thigh. Or maybe you went bra less or just the opposite, you wore a push up bra to make your breasts look even bigger. What about make up. are you telling me you don't apply make up in front of a mirror for an hour so that some guy will think you are hot? Let's not forget necklaces, earrings, and ankle bracelets.what do you really think those are for.they are to draw our attention to those parts of your body.that is why they usually sparkle so much. And of course we can't forget about tattoos.you know where all you girls put those.

    And yet you can't figure this out. It's because you girls do it to us.

    • Soooooo your blaming women for looking like women?

    • Nooo...I'm blaming women for fixing themselves up as sexy as they can get...and then getting mad at men for noticing.

    • I agree with Torodon. When I am trying on clothes I'm usually not thinking about how practical they are, I'm thinking about how good a pair of pants make my butt look or if a top makes my boobs look better. I don't buy lacy panties because they are more comfortable than cotton panties, I buy them because they are sexy and if they show on accident guys won't think I shop for underwear with my grandma. I'm just saying we don't dress up for no one. We dress up to be noticed.

  • Woah woah woah. Basically what CrazyCrisUk said; we aren't all like that. I admit, I think about it too. But not waking up thinking about, going to bed thinking about, and looking at any girl and thinking about it. You've obviously not been around nice guys. And yes, we do have a strong urge to have sex, but that's natural human instinct. It's just some of us guys are able to control it more than others. As for me, the only girl I look at and picture in my bed would be my girlfriend, and really I've only done that once or twice - and it wasn't all sex. You're probably just hanging around the wrong guys. But we don't all revolve everything around sex. And if we do, it's human nature - we were evolved to reproduce and follow the idea of survival of the fittest.

  • Well it seems rather simple to me. Males want sex, and if they are not getting it they can hardly think of anything else. Think of what happens to a guy immediately after sex. If you don't do something to keep his attention, he will be asleep two minutes after the sex is over. If a male is getting plenty of sex, it enables him to think more of other things. You will find as a general rule, those males that talk most about it, are getting the least of it.

    On a similar note, the guy that brags most of his large equipment, will tend to have small equipment. He is subconsciously trying to convince himself. Those that have it, know it, and don't need to convince themselves.

    • It is natural for a man to want sex. Men produce more of the hormone Testosterone which is responsible for sex drive and aggression. This accounts for their aggressive search for sex. They are chemically driven to think about sex much more often than you. Some women think about sex just as often or more often than men. I am assuming you are one who does not.

  • Thats not all we think about, you make us sound so simple, I know girls who talk about nothing else so it's to do with the person not the gender.

    And yeah we've got a higher sex drive, if we didn't there wouldn't be babies born everyday, just once a year 9 months after valentines and all that lol. ;)

    • Dont say "you make us sound so simple" when all over this website guys say "Were simple" "were not as hard to figure out as women think" and also "just give us head more and will stay with you". or "put out more and we won't look at that other chick." that's just a few things I have read on this website. It is mostly guys who say that stuff. in fact its hundreds of guys who say that and your telling me I shouldnt generalize? that's kinda hard to do when that is all a girl hears........

    • Look, if the other blokes on this website say that all they need for a relationship to work is head then maybe that's what they need. In that case they're in it for what you can do for them, not just for you. I for one would stay in a sexless relationship if I loved the girl, and I think of titty's at least twenty times a day. You gotta think what your going into the relationship for in the first place though, just looking for a f*** buddy or you looking for a soulmate?

    • He does have a point, lol ;-)

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  • Women are boring, we only pretend to care so we can have sex.

    • Lol ;-)

    • Scott, if you're not going to be nice then... Y'know... Go and do an Art GCSE. Yeah! That was below the belt.

  • Actually, I think a lot has to do with perception.

    I am 39 and still single, and I would love to get married, have a relationship.ect.

    but a lot of people around me mis-interpret my intentions and assume that I am in need to get laid.

    women assume men are pigs and only after sex, but men do not communicate like women do, I don't tell my guy buddies how I would love to just cuddle at night on the beach with a beautiful woman and read a book to her by the firelight. my buddies would look at me cross-eyed! so when the guys are around, I'll say something shallow like "I need to get laid!"

    they get the point, and we avoid any awkward silences!

    • Rofl, so true, I was thinking of telling my mates I was missing cuddling up on the sofa with my ex and watching romantic comedies....... actually I think I won't lol

  • thats not all we think about

    money tooo

  • Well from my experience girls think and talk about it all the time too.

  • I don't really know. I guess were just freaks of nature.

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