Guys, Do Y'all Prefer Big or small Outer Labias? Or Both? Or Big Or Small You'll Lay Em' All? Read & Comment:)

[AlwaysOnYourMind]

Hey guys, do yall prefer big or small outer labias? Do you think.The bigger the better? More cushion for the pushing? Or are you revolted by it? This question is aimed at guys but girls are welcome to answer too with advice... OKay here it is. I have bit outer lips there longer and fuller than the girls I know. The inners are puffy but not long, its not discolored if pink is normal? But I do also have a big clit. I was never really worried about it before nor did I really even notice this part of myself as being different. Until one day I was in the bath and my sister walked in and said "i hate girls with those" at the time I didn't even know what she was talking about but then she pointed said " big lips are so nasty". I was so ashamed and embarrassed. I didn't ask for her opinion. I'm a virgin and I plan on waiting until I get married to have sex. So no man ever seen me naked, I honestly don't know what yall think of that so I'm really scared what would be said or done if the person I was with didn't like that? If I get serious with someone maybe I should bring it up and see what they say, test the waters or just ask honestly... what do yall think? Also I've heard people say that if its bigger its been used and abused but that's not true for me I'm still innocent, but when my husband sees that is he going to automatically think I've been to the petting zoo before? I know I probably sound naive but I'm really confused and embarrassed about this and I really need to know what men think of this topic. Thanks for the input :)

[Easygoing7]

I think big, and bigger is always better; lips are the one of the sexiest parts on a woman.

id say a slight majority likes them small, usually younger guys, the avg guy doesn't care or have a preference of the size, usually the same majority that doesn't care much to go down on a girl, and the smaller minority like them large

the problem is your asking that question here, and most guys who get to this page, or using the filter labia to see what girls are saying. That group of guys is the minority who like them large, like myself. So you'll get a lot of responses saying large is sexy

And we are here replying to this, to tell you that guys like us exist.. and its more of a fetish for guys like us... most guys it doesn't really make a difference, and won't treat you anydifferent.

But guys with the large preference will be constantly touching you there and wanting to go down on you, and make you feel really happy that they are large..

its a difficult subject to bring up when you're first meeting someone, for both guys and girls.

I myself have pissed girls off when I say I havea preference, but how to you not say something when the opposite of your preference is a turn off

lol

[sa230e]

Womens' vulvas are like snowflakes. No two are the same but they're all beautiful. I've never seen one I didn't like. Unless you have a penis, I won't be disappointed, trust me.

And don't let ignorant people fool you into thinking there's such a thing as a normal vulva. You could gather a group of many women whose genitals look nothing alike yet they're all perfectly "normal". To illustrate that I always point people to this photo gallery from a great sex-ed website link . I highly suggest you take a look. All those women have perfectly normal genitalia and so do you.

Personally, I think they're all beautiful. They're beautiful because that's what female genitals naturally look like. Natural is beautiful. Don't let society condition you to think that it isn't and don't let your sister's sh*tty attitude make you feel ashamed.

And yes, big or small, I WILL lay them all. And finger them. And eat them too. So there.

[tiffanymarie_19]

KINDA OFF THE SUBJECT...AND I'M COMPLETELY STRAIGHT, BUT YOU SEEM TO HAVE A NICE BODY, BUT IF YOU'RE SAVING YOURSELF FOR MARRIAGE, YOU'RE REALLY SENDING THE WRONG MESSAGE WITH PICS LIKE THAT LOL NOT BEIN JUDGEMENTAL, JUST SAYIN...

[katiesmuff]

Long story short, I would lick yours anytime you would like. The size has never been an issue with me. Mine is also a bit on the large size and it's never been an issue with any guy or girl.

[Xia90]

This question is for guys. And if she's straight would you still lick it? NO.

[Xia90]

Also your nearly 10 years older she's still in high school your gross. This is why bi girls are stupid you hit on straight women (even if she's straight you don't give a ****).

[katiesmuff]

Got some really bad news for you Xia90. We have messaged each other back and forth and she is defenantely up for it! Sorry to burst your MANLY bubble but more girls are bi than you would ever guess, and probably much of it is due to argionant jerks such as yourself! By the way she is 18 and legal so what the hell does age have to do with it? Get your head out of your *ss next time and read the question before you answer! Dummy

[AlwaysOnYourMind]

Xia90 get out of here with that crap, I'm not sure by what you ment with your first comment but it really doesn't matter. If your going to be an a^^ then quit leaving comments! & I am strait but with morons like you I can understand why woman would turn!

[Xia90]

If lots of girls were bi like your claiming then you would see lots of same sex couples (which you don't). Most girls are not bi there straight I think somewhere around 85-90% are straight. Being bi is a fad now and most "bi" girls won't go beyond kissing and its to impress the guys.

[AlwaysOnYourMind]

I agree with you, yes they say there bi to impress guys, and yes usually they won't go further than kissing. But your comment was mean towards me when I did not diserve that. If you want to answer my question then go ahead but there's no reason to comment and be rude to me or the people I asked to answer my question!

[Xia90]

if your really straight then the answerer I am replying to would be being rude to you I mean "I would lick yours anytime you would like" ... seriously now that's rude.

[AlwaysOnYourMind]

Her reply wasn't mean as your first comment was to me. So bye

[urstruely]

I look like that too and I've wondered the same thing. Great question.

[archer86]

No big deal to a mature man at all, think of it as more material to play with. Bigger labias does not mean you've had way too much action at all, either a woman has them big or small. You could get surgery to have them reduced in size but why? Surgery is expensive and it does not enhance your sexual performance. All you need to do is be secure with yourself and find a man who won't give a flyin' hoot about the size of your lips, or hips, or bra size. This is much easier to find for women than you think. I'm NOT saying make yourself available for anyone(what? I'm telling a woman not to be easy?!?).

I personally enjoy giving oral(also called, "Muffin Diving") to women so I like all muffins. Shape and size is not biggie for me, cleanliness and shaven is a factor.

Don't worry about it. Any man who turns down such an attractive young woman like yourself better have a damned good reason for doing so. Bigger labias is not one of them.

Finally, don't wait till marriage. Unless you want to make yourself a ritualistic sacrifice to the gods as they did back in the ancient Aztez and Mayan days, There's really no reason to wait. Sex is good, but not so spectacular that you experience a "heavenly event" before or after marriage. Just my expert opinion.

Hope this helps

[bersaba]

To be honest, I really like the "peach" look. Big, smooth (shaved) fat lps. Of course, all the other forms are nice aswell, it's just a personal preference.

[crudedude1975]

No worries girl!

I gaurentee at least 8 out of 10 men wouldn't even notice or care.

I love them all , soft and pink is so hot!

I wouldn't bring it up to anyone simply because you are dtawing attention to something your not happy with.

If a guy is willing to dump you over that the he is a jerk anyway.

So please don't worry about that, its not a problem

[MandMandM]

Any geometry is fine. What on earth business is it of your sister's? Why is she seeing you in the bath anyway.

[funny222]

I love the puffy, wetness of a woman's aroused labias. The way her hump inflates and her lips enlarge. I think it's all very erotic and sexy, and makes cunnilingis that much more pleasurable. Something more to fill up the mouth, if you know what I mean.

On the negative side, I recall a girl once telling me that the reason she thinks it's ugly, how the labias just hang down from the groin, is because it reminds her of male scrotum -- which she doesn't find attractive either. I figure a girl who is bisexual and likes large extensive labias also likes a large testicular hanging scrotum. I've read somewhere that the skin is basically the same. And I also read that some guys don't like filling all that skin in their mouth as it feels they're giving a man pleasure, if you know what I mean.

[Cartiphilus]

Your big outer labia are not nasty. From your description it seems you have a Camel Toe ( link ) which is considered VERY hot. Have no worries it's highly unlikely that any guy (It seems all answers to this question in the past have been quite favorable towards thinking all guys like Camel Toes.) is going to grimace, make strange faces or at all dislike what he'll see down there when he sees you naked. You have no need at all to feel embarrassed.

[AlwaysOnYourMind]

Not quite as much as the picture but yes very simular. Thanks for the imput!

[Craig69]

Hey, it really doesn't matter, big, small or in between. I personally love larger outer lips, as well as inner lips that protrude. It's even sexier when you get roused and the lips puff up even more and get a nice shine from your juices. There are so many different variations of female genitalia and all are wonderful. Don't worry just be happy.

[Itsme2300]

Bigger lips are absolutely no indication of how much you've done sexually. Don't bring it up, it's not really necessary. Larger labia are a huge turn on, they are fun to play with and nice to look at. Everyone has their preferences though, so you might run into someone who doesn't like them (like your sister). Honestly, be proud of what you have, because the vast majority of guys find it hot.

[G_GTom]

If was with a woman based on your description, I'd be really happy! I wouldn't worry about it. Guys are much more diverse in their preferences than women are.

[dreamishobby]

for a one night stant I would say the normal sized one look better but a person in love with you is not at all gonna leave you just because you flashed him your big inner/outer labia!

[festeradams]

Some guys will find bigger labia more of a turn on than smaller labia (myself for one), while other guys may feel the opposite. But it's not the size of your labia that your future husband will be marrying you for, it's you, your personality, your appearance, all the bits and pieces summed together that have made him so attracted to you that he would want to spend his life with you. Don't worry about your labia,

[snackeyg]

I prefer small, but if we were in a relationship I'm not gonna be like ew it's over or never have sex because of it. Hopefully you'd allow the same for a small penis(assuming you dislike small).

Don't be all I never wanna show my vag or omg once I take my pants off he'll just stop. That won't happen to you unless the guy is extremely shallow and an asshole.

[AlwaysOnYourMind]

Thanks this helped I don't know what I like but things like that don't bother me!

[snackeyg]

You're welcome. :) That's good. Makes me feel better about myself that it doesn't bother you. lol

[Danielsen45]

It can't be big enough, its so sexy ;)

[haiderkhan]

yes off course we like the libias

[teknopwr]

I can speak for myself and say that labia can never be large enough. It's extremely sexy and I get aroused with the thought of them. My girlfriends labia are quite large a with darker wrinkled edge that gives way to pink. They hang down at least an inch at times and when she spreads her legs they tend to pull apart and splay open. Her labia just there wanting to be sucked. I can't help but to go down on her. So, yes, I'm a fan of large labia.

I've also had this discussion amongst my friends and its mixed. Some guys prefer lips, some prefer smooth and most are happy they are getting any p**** at all. 90% of the guys out there will love your p**** the way it is. It beats a scar and numbness.

[Anonymous]

Is your sister bi? "Hates girls with those" how does she know or why would she hate girls with those without getting nude with them. Hot!

[AlwaysOnYourMind]

I don't know if she is... its always been completely normal for us to be in the bathroom while ones getting ready, so we can chat. But I thought it was rude all the same I don't look at her vaj!

[Anonymous]

I love big outer p**** lips and hidden inner ones. Amazing.

[Anonymous]

smaller

[Anonymous]

you've got an unnecessary self consiousness about your body parts, and this is degrading your self confidence. You should know, no matter how other girls try to make you feel, that you've got a huge advantage, you're clean, you're innocent, you're free of stds, you're fresh, you're healthy, what do you want more? no wait, lets talk about your private parts, puffy is the definition of sexy if we wanted to be precise, the skinny little things are nasty, usually. It's just like a meaty penis. Just make sure you're taking care of yourself :) raise your head up high.

[Opinion Owner]

oh and I forgot to say you look so pretty! ;)

[AlwaysOnYourMind]

Thanks you whoever said I look pretty, that's sweet!

[Opinion Owner]

you're welcome, cause it's cute when pretty girls don't know how pretty they are, well we need to tell them xD

[Anonymous]

It really doesn't matter what a girl looks like down there. If I'm attracted to the rest of her body already and love her personality I'm going to accept and like what she looks like down there. It is actually like opening a Christmas present when you finally get to see a woman you like down there because they all look different but all look good!