Penis Size Preference Survey (Please be constructive)

First off I'd like to apologize to anyone that is sick of seeing so many questions about penis size. You've got to realize that many men are insecure about their size, just like many women are insecure about their breasts. I've always answered questions by women about ideal body type, breast size and shape, etc. honestly, so I hope you ladies will return the favor. I'm just trying to get some decent statistics so I can hopefully have more self-confidence (I am average). Please be tolerant and try to post constructive messages. I will be very thankful to any girl that posts accurate and detailed information. Please be 100% honest. 1. Please post your age, body type, height, weight, and/or measurements if you feel comfortable posting that sort of information (I am trying to see if recent media stating that size is important has had any effect on what the younger generations of women want, as well as trying to see if body type has any effect on how tight a girl is. I know most studies show no correlation, but I am trying to be thorough.) 2. Please post whether or not you do Kegel exercises.(I am trying to see if the tightening from Kegels allow girls to be satisfied by smaller penises.) 3. Please post the smallest penis size you think you could be satisfied by. (If you can give exact length and girth measurements, it would be very helpful. If not, try to compare to a standard household object.) 4. Please post the ideal penis size in your opinion. (If you can give exact length and girth measurements, it would be very helpful. If not, try to compare to a standard household object.) 5. Please post the largest penis size you think you could accommodate before things get uncomfortable/painful. (If you can give exact length and girth measurements, it would be very helpful. If not, try to compare to a standard household object.) 6. Do you think you could be satisfied by an average penis? How satisfied would you be with an average penis on a user with average skills on a 1-10 scale?(The average erect penis size according to medical research seems to be between 5.5-6 inches long and about 4.9 inches in girth.)
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I just want to give a special thanks to the girls that answered this truthfully. I feel more confident now that average is enough, though I still wish I was a bit bigger, because no one wants to be mediocre in any facet of life. Thanks again.
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  • First, I'm 20 as of today, I'm 6' 1" tall, and weigh 178 lbs., with an average/slim build. Flaccid, I'm between 3.5 - 4 inches, with a girth of 4 inches. With a hard on, I measure 6.25 inches, with a girth of 5.5 inches. I live in coastal Ecuador, where the average guy's erection is 6.9 inches. EC is supposed to be number 2 in the world for large dicks. I've heard claims that nationality has nothing to do with penis size, but on the beach, you see a lot of guys wearing tight assed swim trunks or underwear, and believe me, at least here, nationality does have a basis for truth. At least from what I've seen. So, I'm a little shorter than the national average, I never felt like I was "lacking anything", nor have I had any complaints, or comments about my size. I've been with both guys and girls, bi the way. Also here on the coast, many small clothing stores have no dressing rooms. You just drop your shorts and try something on. There's no shame about the human body here. I was in this little shop, and the dude working in the store was more than happy to help me out (of my shorts), to try new ones on. He kept offering me more to try. But every time, he had to squeeze between me and the shelves. Whenever he did, his leg, or butt would grind against my crotch. One time, we were even crotch to crotch. It sure didn't take him long to start "getting my attention". He kept getting closer, and he was clearly checking me out. I saw where his eyes were directed. So as you can imagine, it had an effect on me. Now I'm starting to get a little hard, to the point that I had the old "wet spot" in my super tight pouch style underwear. Long story short, we're going out for dinner and a few beers. The plan is to come back to my apartment to watch a movie later tonight.

    So I guess I'd have to say that size REALLY DOESN'T MATTER. At least it doesn't for me.

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  • I'm 5'3 (I round up =p), 109 lbs so pretty peite, top - down 34, 25.7 -ish (depending on time of day), and 36.

    I used to do kegels but maybe mine's a bit small? On the verge of cumming, I'd pulse (not on purpose) and it'd get slightly painful. It was pretty fustrutating cus it'd be good up until that point and I wouldn't be able to cum again that night (or day lol). Afterwards, I quit and haven't had a problem.

    I don't know maybe around 3in and 2in girth? I'm comparing to my ex's fingers. They worked just fine xD

    I love it around 5.5-6 in and 4-4.5 in.

    Girth isn't a problem as long as I'm prepared. My boyfriend once tried it with a dildo and it felt good after the initial push; course this was after lots of foreplay and cumming once. Length, on the other hand, past 6in, I CAN'T. It might be okay at first but after really pushing against my cervix, it gets sore than painful.

    Course, I usually let the guy lead but once I'm comfortable and feel like I want more, I just ride him to get things going. I've had better partners before but I didn' t really like them and was quite cold after we were done (don't judge, girls have needs too). I think my libido is really high but I'm still picky so compatible guys used to be keepers BUT after my first real relationship, I'd sometimes feel this lovely tingling sensation right on the verge of cumming. It felt sooo good I got addicted and since I've only chosen partners I was really serious about. So guys, I wouldn't worry too much about size; if she really loves you, she'll make it work ;)

  • The most believable statistics I've come across have given 5.1-5.9 inches as the average penis length.

    1. 19 years old, 5'4", 115 lbs, slender but not skinny, small curves (waist- 25, hips- 33, bust- 30)

    2. I have done them sporadically for the past few years. I haven't done them for a while.

    3. 3.5 inch length, 1.25 inch diameter

    4. 5-6 inch length, 1.5 inch diameter

    5. 7inches, 2 inch diameter

    6. Absolutely. My boyfriend is average (5 inches according to him, looks like maybe 5.25 or 5.5 to me). I couldn't be happier. It really is a lot about the angle. As a side note, I've actually had to ask him to angle so that he doesn't go in as deep as he can since it hurts when he does. But I think that might just be me.

    • Thanks for the honest answer.

  • 1. 21, 5'6, 130, average-thin but not skinny, not sure about exact measurements- b cup, small-medium curves

    2. No

    3. I'm not sure, I guess 5 inches

    4. I guess 6 1/2 is ideal but then again I'm not a good judge for size because every time I've ever had sex it hurt A LOT

    5.)I don't think I've ever been with someone smaller than 6 so I can't say, and like I mentioned, the first 5-10 minutes always hurt like the first time

    6.I guess that would be okay except it might keep coming out and that would hurt more if he has to keep putting it back in, other than that 4.9 might be OK, might even hurt less

    • Thanks for the honest answer. Just wondering, how much foreplay do you do? I wouldn't think it would hurt if you did enough foreplay. Is the pain from the length or the girth?

    • Do you would try out a much smaller cock?

    • @sarcasticbella You should probably be with like a 3 in dick then if 6 inches hurts…

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  • I'm 22, 5'2, I weigh 120. Pretty curvy. I do kegals sometimes. I don't know exactly how small would be too small... the smallest I've been with was about 5 inches and he was alright, but he was also pretty skilled. I remember thinking that I would like a little more. 6-8 inches is ideal, bigger than that would be too much. I can certainly be satisfied by an average one

    • 6-8 seems to be what most girls say

    • 5 in is average and you said you were disappointed by that but then you said average would satisfy you.

  • I appreciate this post---- but I still am not convinced penis size has anything to do with sexual satisfaction. If you're worried about, you can make up for a lack of size with a high level of function so start using a penis health creme daily. Why not? Literally what do you have to use. These deliver vitamins and proteins directly to the penis and keep it strong and healthy. There is a good one called Man1 Man Oil available... check it out. Hope this helps.

  • 1.

    16 years old(about to be 17)

    5'3

    120 something lbs...still too fat though

    39-27-39

    Hourglass

    2.

    Yes

    3.

    4 inches

    4.

    5'6 inches

    5.

    7-8 inches...although that sounds painful

    6.

    Please,shut up

    • I hope you at least answered truthfully for the questions you did answer, even if you were rude on the last. I know you're the one that thinks the search engine has all the answers, but I've read several of the penis size preference questions on this site and none of them seem to be asking for detailed information like mine. I've always been courteous and truthful when girls ask about body type or breast preference. Is it too much that I ask for the same thing?

    • Yes,it is.Search engine works just fine actually.I notice many of the people who ask breast/labia/penis Q's only want to give background info tailored to their "situation" to receive the answers they want to hear,not honest individual answers. I'm irritated with these Q's because for the small breast questions and penis Qs it's usually the same girl and guy,trying to hide behind anon yet they post the same sh*t over and over

    • I can assure you I'm not some random guy spamming the same question. I've only been on here for about 3 months and many or those questions are far older than that. I have looked up several of these questions through the search engine and the answers have helped with my self confidence to a degree, but many of these questions have far too many "It's not the size, it's how you use it answers." I just wanted to get some really good detailed answers that proved that average is enough, so I asked.

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  • You want size and function dudes... so use a pump and a penis health creme. The pump will give you both length and girth and the creme will improve its performance through vitamins and proteins. Man1 Man Oil is a great creme.. has helped me out a ton. You can get both items online. Hope this helps and good luck!

  • motion of the ocean, dude.

    it's not the length it's the width that counts.

    The most sensitive regions of the vag are the first few inches anyway. Having a longer d*** can cause more pain.

    • How can it be motion of the ocean when you prefer thicker?

    • motion of the ocean counts for a lot more than length, and so does width. I was only providing multiple examples of why the length-of-the-penis question is not as important.

  • My measurements:
    5'9" 120 pounds slim/average

    I don't do kegels xD

    3 inch, 1 inch diameter

    4-5 inch, 1.5 inch diameter

    7.5 inch, 2 inch diameter

    Yes! I don't know why guys care so much, if your in the 4-6 range, your good! No matter what people say, most girls are scared by large ones because instead of pleasure it turns into discomfort or pain!

    • What if you're not in the 4-6 range?

    • Hmm what is if the guy is smaller?

  • Yea but there have been times where it hurts until the end, it varies in intensity. Hopefully it'll get better someday

    • Hopefully it will get better. How big did you say his penis was again?

  • I do enough foreplay...oral. I've even used ky jelly, it doesn't help. I'm not sure if the size really matters I think its just me being small. Its a sharp pain that goes away after its in and they pump a few times. After a few min (or several depending on how long its been) it 'usually feels good and I like it deeper so length isn't the problem, If I had to guess ide say its the width that hurts

    • Yeah, I guess you're just really tight. At least it starts to feel good fast.

  • I'm 34 years old. I have a few extra pounds. I'm 5ft 7.
    I do kegels because I've had 2 children and I'm trying to keep it tight down there. :)
    I think the smallest I could get any satisfaction from would be about 5 inches. About the girth of a smaller sized zucchini...not too skinny.
    got size for me is approx 6 inches and a bit thicker than a small zucchini.
    I could be happy and have been happy with an average sized penis.
    Hope this helps. :)

    • According to statistics, average is 5.5 inches. Do you think there would be much of a difference with an ideal 6 incher for you? :)

    • What is you smallest experience?

    • You said you’ve been happy with average dicks…yet 5 in is average and you said that’s small…

  • I am 30. I am 6'2 and I am 225. I hate my penis. It's somewhere from 6 to 6.5. Not really good enough so I don't attempt to date. My ideal would be 8.5. Something that I can feel proud of and something that makes me feel more of a man. I guess the other questions don't apply to me, but I would get plastic surgery if I could afford it and the procedure was actually available.

  • Age: 30
    Height: 5' 10
    Weight: 70 kg
    Length size: 19 cm/7.5 inches
    Girth size: 13 cm/5.1 inches
    OK, it looks huge, but for the milfs and Size Queens, is a average one. So, my ideal and perfect size for my cock´s 22 cm length with 16 cm girth

  • I'm 29 years old, 5'9" and 143 pounds, lean body.
    I do kegels sometimes.
    The smallest I could get satisfaction with is 6.2 inches, 1.5 girth.
    Perfect size is 7 inches, 2.4 girth.
    8 inches only hurts

    • @LorenV - just as a curious guy who fit's your 'perfect size' (7.2'') how do you arrive at a 2.4'' girth --- or do you mean the width across the shaft rather than the circumference all the way around it?

    • Do you had smaller guys? And can’t get satisfaction?

    • Wow you are limited to only like 15% of men then

  • 17, slim athletic build, 6ft, 80kg, penis size 5.5 inches erect, don't know what Kegel is, my ideal penis would be 7 inches and 5 inches girth

  • 1. 13, 5.6 ft, penis 6.5 inch, I would like 6+ penis.

  • 1) Age - 31, Body Type - Average, Height - 170 cm/5ft 7", Weight - 60 Kg/130 lbs, Breasts - C to D.
    2) Occasional Kegel exercises but husband has said I am tight enough.
    3) Unsure? Perhaps average size or slightly above.
    4) Length is not so important, Girth - 15 cm+/6"+
    5) Length can be an issue, 20 to 23 cm/8 to 9" was uncomfortable from behind (recent experience) however, same experience with girth of 16 to 17 cm/over 6.5" I accommodated. If well aroused I can accommodate 20 cm/8" (an adult toy I own)
    6) Satisfied sexually through intercourse? My husband is 12.5 cm/5" in length & 10 cm/4" in girth which leaves me unsatisfied. My answer would be - No.
    2/10

    • I'm 3.75 inches

    • Your husband is average so you need above average is what you are saying

  • I just wanna see results lol

  • WOMEN can't handle BIG PENIS, they like or even love the idea of a big Anaconda. The facts are clear most women cannot handle on a daily bases BIG PENISES. They run, and full penetration without women pushing you back or trying to control HEAD ACHES. I have fiends that have small 5inches or small 6inches and randomly there girl friends always ridicule them in front of other women, that is something that can never happen to me.
    kind regards

  • Age - 15
    Height - 6 ft 1
    Erect length - 6.89 inches
    Weight - 63kg
    Slim , slightly athletic build.
    ( just out of curiosity is my penis big , small etc )

  • 1. 17 years old, 5'2", around 110 lbs and petite. Don't know my exact measurements
    2. Never done it
    3. 3.5 - 4 inches length; 1.25 inches diameter
    4. 5.5 - 7 inches length; 1.75 inches diameter
    5. 7.5 inches length; 2 inches diameter
    6. On a scale from 1-10 it would be around 7 or 8

  • I'm 21, 5'9", 150lbs.
    I'm bulky, but as in muscle wise, not fat.
    I used to think mine was average size until recently.
    It's about 8in long, 2. in diameter, and 6.5in around.
    After reading some of these comments I think all I'll do is hurt most girls 😥

    • *2.1in diameter

    • And the test said it was a lie

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