i've noticed that after I have sex with a guy and we're just lounging around naked he doesn't care that I'm seeing all of him but if he has to pee he always shuts the door or says that I shouldn't watch. it's not that I really want to see a guy pee I just wondered if there was a reason for guys being shy about this (if other guys are shy about this too?)? this has happened with almost every guy I've been with so I'm starting to think its the norm lol
Why don't guys let girls watch them pee?
What Guys Said 21
In the beginning of a relationship, I close the door out of courtesy, but after we get to feel more comfortable with each other I have had girlfriends that don't mind if either of us are peeing. More than one girlfriend has wanted to try their "hand" at aiming. It is fun for them especially when we are outside and there is snow on the ground!
I think it is nice to be able to pee in front of each other, actually... of course, I'm kind of weird that way...1
That's a rumor my friend ;).1
Does it happen only when you have sex with a guy at first time or does it also happen later? I think that a girl with whom I had sex just once or twice, shouldn't see me while I'm peeing, but I would love to have a girl seeing me peeing when we regularly have sex.0
I tell myself that girls don't actually pee. I have no interest in seeing that. I think it's good manners to close the door.1
Instinct, can't let our lovers watch us excrete0
I used to be very shy about peeing around other people, but my girlfriend never closed the door when she pee'd. Eventually I got used to it and will now pee even if she is there. It is kind of liberating to be able to do that.1
I don't care it's happened many times for different reasons that girls have seen/watched me pee.
we have to pee it's no big deal0
can't say I've ever been that shy...dunno1
same reason lots of girls don't let guys watch. Personally, I would love watch a girl peeing and even play with her if she let me. I would be more than happy to let her do the same1
I think its because of the emotions you create when you get close to him, so just let the boy pee! lol0
Since I would ALWAYS want to watch my woman pee, it would be hypocritical to not let her watch me. But I don't remember that any of my girlfriends was ever very interested in that. They just peed for me because they knew how much I liked it.0
I wouldn't mind this... but I agree that if I hadn't already started I might lose my nerve.1
i don't mind1
I've seen my girlfriend and been seen. Not a big deal it's just a natural thing.1
I can't lol. If somebody is watching me or right by me I just can't go. I can usually go in public bathrooms if somebody is next to me but it pisses me off when guys try talking while they're pissing because then I can't.2
Sounds like shyness, that perhaps his penis shrunk to the size of his thumb. I was never one to be embarrassed about it because I always wanted to see my girl taking a piss. I even liked it when she pissed on my chest in the shower, so I was never fickle about such body fluids. She even liked watching me pee from time to time. We were both very different from the rest of the society in more ways than one.2
What Girls Said 9
For some people, it's just a very private thing, but there are a lot of guys who don't mind.1
Haven't gotten the opportunity to watch a guy pee, but the guy I'm talking to is comfortable enough to pee while still on the phone with me...lol0
I would LOVE to touch the pee Orph2
Id LOVE to watch a guy peee so bad!
I think it's just natural, and it would be kinda awk to see that, ha.0
Would you want a guy to watch you pee?1
Wow, this question made me laugh really hard.0
My guy seems shy/embarrassed (maybe grossed out) to allow each other to see the other do our bathroom business. We've showered together and obviously has various kinds of sex, but I think it might be that crossing a certain line - the moment when he might think, "eww, this is gross and I can't look at her the same way - I'm no longer attracted to her" kind of thing... so I've heard from other sources (that "Blue Collar" comedy guy explained this kind of thing once - find the clip and I think it makes sense - it's unromantic I guess). But I'm kind of interested in trying to aim his penis when he pees, but, I doubt he'll ever let me.1
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