Guys: What turns you on about girls masturbating?

So I've heard guys say that watching a girl masturbate or even know she's doing it is really hot...a guy friend told me that a lot of p*rn is girls just masturbating. As a female I don't really get turned on a lot by the thought of a guy jacking off.. neither have I ever watched it. So my question is what is it exactly that is hot about a girl touching herself? Why do you like watching it etc? thanks :)
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  • My boyfriend loves knowing that I masturbate after performing his sexual fantasy on him. He is extremely turned on by either talking about or actually having me kick him in the balls! lol Hard to believe I know, but apparently it's a power thing? lol I was uncomfortable with it at first, but to be honest I find it quite empowering and arousing now! :o) We use it as foreplay by having me in lingerie (or naked) and him in boxers (or naked too!) and talking about scenarios where I or another girl (and it has to be a girl!) kicks him in the balls as hard as they can and how they'd feel when they do it. We also play fight on the floor, where I'm allowed to grab, squeeze or kick, knee & punch his balls as hard as I want! lol Another thing he likes to do is stand up with his legs wide open and ask me to run up and kick him in the balls as hard as I can, which I do! lol He then likes me to masturbate over me kicking him and the pain he's in while he's rolling around on the floor in agony! lol Basically the whole female psychology and actual act of kicking (or kneeing) a guy in the balls really turns him on. I know it's a strange fantasy like and I don't know any other girls who have ever done that to a guy even in real life! Can I ask you, have you ever kicked or kneed a guy in the balls?... And if so, did you do it as hard as you could? lol

    • What... the... f***?

    • 0_O... that's um. thats...interesting...?

    • I wouldn't dare to kick my boyfriend's balls even if he was very sure he wanted me to; that's just somethingg that I can't Ctrl+Z to or load save game. I would do it to random guys tho o.O I did kick one of my team mates once before... and he was just screaming and holding his d***.. nothing special -.-

  • you seriously need to get in touch with your sexual side honey. I watch p*rn and pleasure myself more than once a week, its so easy and I'm so relaxed afterward. not only that, but no risk of pregnancy! tho I do prefer the penis. I use to think it was weird, gross, or just wrong to watch p*rn/pleasre myself...but since I know my own body now, I can get off alone, get off faster, and I can show the guy how to correctly get me off. all in all, its a win win situation (but look out for viruses that can attack your computer) it happend to me once (watching p*rn).

  • Two things: Men grow up confused about female sexuality and are very visually oriented. Men masturbate because high levels of testosterone cause them to desire it very much. Girls are sweet, soft and "in control". To see a women with a sex drive that actually causes her to masturbate is not necessarily taboo but it is exciting for a man because, with women, you just never know until you know.

    • Women aren't visual oriented that's why they masturbate to LOVE and EMOTION even women sex drive is weaker that guys because they don't have testosterone as like guys?

    • Wow I was just the other day I was wondering if testosterone had anything to do with me having masturbated so much because since I was 8 or 9 I started to masturbate and I have masturbated up to 6-10 times a day right up in to my 40s I was having a lot of sex on top of this and I have always wondered why so many girls who wanted to masturbate with me and a lot of them were total strangers, don't get me wrong the fact is that I loved it and to tell you the truth I miss it and I would luv to find a woman who would be interested to masturbate with me and I am not interested in cam girls I want something more intimate but it's hard to find where I live I'm on a Island in a really isolated area. But I have wondered why I had a massive sex drive and until recently I started to lose interest and just recently the Dr. checked my testosterone level because of the meds I was on and you know what she said to me, first off she says wow that if my level was any lower I'd be a girl lol and she asked me all about my sexual history and now I am giving myself 200ml a week injection and just today I started feeling normal lol. I apologize for the long winded comment but I just felt like saying something when I read your comment. I could say a lot more but to save you I gave you the short version but I grew up a little different from most guys and I was raised and taught a lot and I mean a lot by the 3 women who brought me up at 13 to the person who I am today and I gotta say I have had a lot of fun. I can't wait for when I feel my normal self if I was ever normal lol. Feel free to reply with any questions or whatever. Cheers

Most Helpful Guys

  • Because it's just a beautiful thing. It's the purest expression of feminine sexuality and beauty. There's nothing masculine about it, no men to dominate over her or otherwise get in the way. You get to see a girl completely free, in her own element, pleasuring herself in her own unique way. The female body just has a certain majesty and radiance about it, especially in a state sexual pleasure.

    Honestly, if you don't understand it already then I can't explain it to you. There are no words fit to describe it and that falls way short of the mark.

    Also, I personally love it because masturbation is an experience we all share and it's sort of a confirmation that women are sexual beings like I am. There's a sort of comfort in the commonality of it.

    As I always say: Whenever a girl masturbates, God gives the world a kitten.

    • So in less words, it is a female rubbing her pussy, which is something men drool over since the moment they are born.

  • Let me put it this way:

    Hot girl= Hot

    Hot girl turned on= very hot

    Hot girl turned on and touching herself=very, very hot

    hot girl turned on and touching herself and fingering her pussy=scorching

    hot girl turned on and touching herself and fingering her p**** and moaning=10,000 suns

    hot girl turned on and touching herself and fingering her p**** and moaning and coming=

    I just came.

    Make sense?

    • hmm.. I take it you think it's hot? :P

    • Unbelievably so, yes.

    • lol

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  • Lol... first answer... and mine is - I don't :S .. probably the minority but.. I don't digg a girl masterbating :S... I haven't masterbated but.. I think it would be appealing for a girl to masturbate me? lol that would be hot :P and appealing as like a Bj... but... no.. doesn't appeal to me : / sorry

    • 11 months? Well that didn't take long - I'm the majority now :S. Change of opinion lol.

  • I get turned on watching guys jack off. If you've never watched it, try it.

    • reallly?

  • Not sure really, its gotta have something to do with the fact that most guys get visually turned on by images. And that image and idea of a girl pleasuring herself is just hot to a lot of guys.

  • > a guy friend told me that a lot of p*rn is girls just masturbating

    True. There are whole TV channels in the UK featuring nothing else.

    > What is it exactly that is hot about a girl touching herself?

    We don't usually get to see it ITRW, even in a long standing relationship. There's a a taboo for some reason about girls enjoying sex, or getting pleasure without a guy. It took my late wife nearly 15 years to be comfortable enought to touch herself in front of me. We had had many years of a good sex life by then (and two kids).

    A lot of female attraction works on the same principle. Boobs hanging out on a topless beach, nothing remarkable, and boring after a while. Boobs hinted at via a clingy or low cut top = very sexy, because you can't actually see them. The attraction must be in the denial of reward ordinarilly, because the prize when attained doesn't stay fascinating for very long.

  • so if I fingered myself it would turn you on :D

    • emm... yup

    • I just found out there is videos on youtube that most of which have no picture, and girls are pleasuring themselves to see what response they get from their sounds. VERY SEXY!

  • I think every girl I've been with has watched when I touched myself lol As for guys liking it when women do it, it's because the woman is is being sexual. Women are many times reserved and modest, so it's nice to see a woman going after an orgasm.

  • Truly there is nothing more beautiful than seeing a lady have an orgasm. This is during sex or if she allows you to watch her masturbate. It's just plain HOT

  • I just love seeing a cute, beautiful and/or sexy woman in total pleasure, and plus it's something you normally associate with someone being in private and thinking no-one can see, so it's kinda naughty that way too!

  • well she is normally naked when she does it.

    guys like naked girls.

    I personally get turned on a lot by a girl who is having pleasure or an orgasm so that's part of it...its just something about watching a girl make her self orgasm that's really really hot.

    But your friend neglected to tell you that a lot of p*rn is just a camwhore taking a d*** which is kinda hot to watch to

  • i love masturbating and my fave fantasies involve guys jacking off with me ^^

  • Its tough to put it into words to explain, but ill try - for me the a womans naked body is such a visually arousing/stimulating/beautiful thing (hence the p*rn industry), and seeing a girl cumming, knowing the pleasure she is feeling and being able to see the look of ecstasy spread across her face as her body convulses in orgasmic pleasure is something I love more then anything, it is really an amazingly beautiful spectacular sight. So watching a girl masturbate is a combination of those 2 amazing things and it also allows you to watch and see what she does to herself, how she touches her body to get herself off...

  • BOO those who don't 5nd it hot! :D lol

    but honestly it's really exciting to see a girl being stimulated both either by yourself or herself!

    every time I watch a girl masturbating...i wonder what would b der in her brain RIGHT NOW~? and start imaging that she's thinking of 'me' lol...!

  • EVERYTHING. For starters the female orgasm is the hottest thing ever, but the teasing lead up to that is even hotter. And any method is incredible to see or be a part of especially for a guy

  • I love a girl who is in touch with herself, her sexual desires, and will take charge herself to satisfy them, without relying on a guy. Besides, there's not much more beautiful than a woman orgasming.

  • If a girl's enjoying something sexually, and she's sexy, it's hot.

  • a women's body is very beautiful. smooth skin and hairless. and when they are just touching it up and moaning and just looking peaceful.

    and on another note, the vagina is just a work of art. it is more pleasant to look at than a penis.

  • Seeing anyone having an orgasm turns me one and I want to join them

  • I think watchng video of girl just becouse girl touching herself is not the actul reason .. the feel of girl... her sound during mustbation..and finaly squrting lots of water that makes a man horny for girls whenever he is watching a girl doing mustbation ;)

  • Well Girl's body is sexy whatever she does when she's naked she'll get any guy turned on

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  • her getting off

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