Forget about hj, give him amazing bj:
First, get your mind straight. Just because it’s called a “blow job” doesn’t mean you should view it as a job. He can see it on your face if you don’t enjoy sucking on his “friend” – and that’s NOT the attitude you want to convey. You have to love his cock.
It’s all about preparation. Make every blowjob one of a kind, unique, memorable. How do you prepare? Candles, good lights, music, some wine, fix up the atmosphere, spice it up. Look good. Make it special.
Throw him in the couch. Seductively, naughtily, with a sexy smile on your face. Look at him with fascination. You slowly get on your knees in front of him, unzip and take his pants off. Make a happy, surprised look – as if you just saw your favorite ice cream, and you are starving to death.
Men are visual. Pull your hair back, so that he can see you completely and enjoy the view. Massage his legs seductively, get closer to his cock. Before it grows large, put the entire thing in your warm, wet mouth – moan with pleasure. Slowly suck on his **** as it grows large in your dripping wet mouth.
A few “aaahs” and “mmms” are essential. There’s nothing better than the magic words when giving a blow job. No BJ is perfect without the right words entering his ear. Compliment him, tell him how much you love His **** in your mouth. Use your hands. Combine fast and slow strokes. Be his p*rn star, not a nun.
When you get tired, rest your mouth, stroke him. Be his “slut”, be dirty, sexual – free. Do whatever you want to do. He won’t think you’re a slut if you swallow, on the contrary – he’ll love you for it. So get dirty and slut it up.
Speed it up as you come to the finish. Involve his balls in the game. A perfect blowjob isn’t just with your mouth. Use your whole body. Let him see your sexy ass, thongs, a sexy necklace. The way to turn him on is by being turned on by yourself. You have to feel sexy in your body. It’s all about positioning.
Tickle his balls, lick them and suck on them gently. Use your sexy nails to drive him wild. Hold his shaft, lick it up and down sexily while looking him deep in the eyes.
Now you start pumping his **** faster. Fast, and short strokes. Pump, pump and pump some more. Moan louder, suck harder, stroke faster. And then – he starts shooting, and screaming, and popping his eyes out of his brain. Pull his **** out and pump it out gently. Open your mouth, show him what he gave you. Giggle. Then swallow all of it. Smile happily, give his **** a few more kisses and sucks – clean it up. ;) Of course – you can always get even better. I recommend you read Jack’s Blowjob Lessons, probably the best book ever written about satisfying your guy sexually, by clicking on the link
Unlike the other guys here... I would definitely not recommend spit. It will dry up a lot faster and probably lead to some uncomfortable rubbing. I would definitely suggest that you get some lube. For me, it's 100% better than without.
If you don't want to buy lube or feel weird carrying it around, there are some body moisturizers from Bath and Body Works that are almost as good (and smell good too).
lick/spit works just fine. Just make sure it's not dry. You can use lube, spit, water, vaginal juices, just make sure it's not dry. But, as far as I know, most people use spit; it's pretty inconvenient to carry lube around, everywhere you go.
thats true, lol I just wasn't sure if guys expect girls to bring it if their going to give them a handjob
If you bring it, it shows your a girl that comes prepared. :-)
Do girls expect guys to bring KY whenever they're going to eat them out? No! Spit's fine, my friend, spit is fine.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!yah lube does make it feel much better when a girls gives a handjob. When we jack off ourselves we are so good with our own member it is not neccesary tho haha.
spitt is perfectly fine, it shows your wild side. I don't think most girls feel comfortable spitting but its OK to guys. minty fresh breath is an added bonus!
Lube is fine as well as licking it or spit in the palm. Having the lube just makes it feel different but its not always needed. Don't forget tissues or paper towels for clean-up afterwards.
I would never turn an HJ down period. But something wet pref a nice massage oil or non sticky lube is wonderful and necessary, and takes the touch and stroke to a completely mind blowing level. Using nothing hurts after awhile. If all you have is spit that's cool. But if you like giving BJs too id say maybe mix both in at the same time. A nice wet BJ and your hands at the same time, amazing!
Lube If you are not going to use your mouth any thick body lotion will do
Lube is good. I do love when a girl spits in her had and starts stroking though. It’s hot. I cum pretty quick watching that. I love handjobs in general.
I actually don't need lube or spit, but I would prefer spit if you want it wet.
I'd get more turned on if a woman spits on my dick. It sounds like a dirty/contemptuous thing to do but very much a turn on (for me).
As for lubrication, there's a small bottle of coconut oil in my toilet shelf, just next to my bedroom (or the computer).
I guess it depends. Some days your spit's viscosity is lower than others. Watery spit is near useless, while thick viscous spit is a great lube. It might be a good idea to bring some KY with you just in case.
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