Guys, has your partner ever had a pregnancy scare?
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nightdrotMaster
+1 y
Yes, a number of times, in fact - and four times they were not just scares. My girlfriend and I have lived together for ten years and have three children together. The first two - both boys - were unplanned pregnancies. The last was a girl.
We both love them with all our hearts.
The other experience was less happy. My girlfriend at the time told me that she was pregnant. I was stunned at first - and scared - but I was happy too. I pictured our lives together and being a father and while I was scared, I was ready to give it my best.
My girlfriend said that she was scared too but willing to try. Then a few weeks later she told me that she was changing her mind and was thinking of having an abortion. I begged her not too and reassured her that I would be with her through the whole pregnancy, would pay any bills, and that, if she wanted, I would adopt the baby and she would never have to see him or her ever again if she did not want to.
She seemed to accept that and that was it. Then one day I came over to her house. I kissed her hello and knelt down - as had become my habit - to her tummy and said, "Hi baby. It's daddy and I love you."
She stopped me mid-sentence and said, "Don't bother. I had an abortion, we're breaking up and get you s**t out of the house. I never want to see you again." We argued, though less than you might think, and I got my stuff and went to the car - and honestly, I cried my eyes out.
After that I went through a very bad patch, but I'll spare the rest of the story. Other than to add that several years later I met a wonderful woman, we have lived together for ten years and have three children. I am happy and got better than I deserved, but I still think of the baby that I should have protected and failed. That I would have loved - indeed that I do love - even though to this day I don't know if it is a boy or girl.
Having said all that, I never considered a pregnancy scare - except when I was in high school, and that was more worry than an actual scare - to be scary. I was always prepared to step up to the plate if I became a father - and few things in life make me happier now than hearing three little voices call me "Daddy."
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ConfidenceoverloadExplorer
+1 y
well my first girlfriend which I had when I turned 16 we had sex on my birthday raw like a idiot and I came inside of her and she liked it but I thought she took the pill but she didn’t and she said she was pregnant and then when we went to the doctor they said it was just a false alarm luckily
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faucheleventMaster
+1 y
Sure, I think when we were like 17? Obviously it was pretty terrifying but it was basically just me being inexperienced and being too paranoid :P
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roodyXper 7
+1 y
Not really a scare but being late after having sex even though we used protection gets me every time.
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EmmaMaryMaster
+1 y
Fortunately not, but there again I have always been extremely careful.
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LeaLeeExplorer
+1 y
Yeah, when I was younger, he did not know about it though
Broken condom during a hookup to a girl I didn't know. Resulted in a massive panic and then she slapped and yelled at me for some reason. We argued all day while we got the morning after pill and all that.
Then dated her for a few weeks.
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Paris13Master
+1 y
Yes, But No…. Test. xxoo
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GetzRektYoda
+1 y
I'm noticing a theme here. Anything you want to tell us? :P
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JanuaryCanine
+1 y
Is it that obvious? 😂😂
GetzRekt
+1 y
Just a little bit, yes, lol. The morning after pill is effective and should work in most cases if taken correctly.
JanuaryCanine
+1 y
Thanks, I actually didn’t even end up taking it because I’m 90% sure it’s ok. Still have a bit of paranoia though 😂
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GetzRekt
+1 y
Is there a reason to be worried? I mean, there are degrees of 'oops' in those oops moments. If the condom split that's one thing. If you didn't use one at all and you weren't on birth control, that's another thing. If you did everything right but your period is one day late, that's something else entirely. Is there a real reason to be worried about pregnancy?
JanuaryCanine
+1 y
I think so. I’m on the pill but forgot to take it one day. Then the day after that the condom broke (typical it would only happen the day I forget to take the pill). It’s a small chance but a chance nonetheless
GetzRekt
+1 y
I agree that it's likely to be a small risk. The risk would be slightly greater if you hadn't noticed that it was broken and he ejaculated inside you, but it depends on how broken and where the break was. The tension in the latex sometimes means that when it breaks it will literally fall apart. If you noticed that it was broken before he ejaculated then the risks are pretty low.
JanuaryCanine
+1 y
Unfortunately we didn’t notice until afterwards. Again, it’s still only a small chance so fingers crossed it’s all ok. I’ll know within the next few days for sure anyway 😂
GetzRekt
+1 y
Well, if worst comes to worst then can I be godfather? <3 I'm respectable, I've never killed any puppies or anything.
JanuaryCanine
+1 y
You can indeed, not killing puppies is all I require for godfather material 😂😂
HurlyburlyGuru
+1 y
Luckily no because my period has always been really on point ^^
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MalemotherneedsExplorer
+1 y
Yeah, i was sleeping with my girlfriend and her mom started knocking on the door. She said "i'm coming in". She pushed the door open slowly because we put dumb bells in front of the door just in case she came. I freaked out and let the condom slip and my cum fell into her vagina. my girlfriend yelled "OH NO!". I saw it and i quickly took the cum out and threw it away. She did the test the later and we found out she wasn't pregnant. Thank god. We broke later though. So thank god
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Ellie-VGuru
+1 y
No, but my mom thought I was pregnant once 🙄🙄🙄
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acooke-13Yoda
+1 y
Yes when I was 18
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LawSharkXper 6
+1 y
only for a few minutes... then i pushed her down the stairs. crisis averted!
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Drumlin2001Guru
+1 y
Ex was pregnant. We'd been together 4 months. She broke us up on discovering pregnancy. I was pretty freaked for a week but I think she also freaked. Don't really know, communication broke down. Ended with miscarriage
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BillieJean1070Guru
+1 y
I had a few between 17 and 20. Then I found BC.
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JustALonelySoulXper 6
+1 y
Wouldn't be a scare for me, more of a sad letdown. I want to be father! Lol.
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jacquesvolMaster
+1 y
Of course. But only once.
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TaureanBull81Guru
7 mo
My last friends with benefits had her period arrive late as I'd always cum Inside her. We both loved sex unprotected and taking risks.
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DesconhecidaEditor
+1 y
Every girl already freaked out once after being late
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TaureanBull81
7 mo
The joys of unprotected sex
al46610Xper 3
+1 y
Scare is an understatement... she was actually pregnant... now that's one P word I'll always be afraid of lol
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