Fingers to penis, can I handle the diffrence my first time?

Question

Last time i was close to going all the way with my partner, i know i wasn't worked up enough to have penetrative sex and i think he only put one in and it was painful for me. Well i tried to get myself to a point on my own and i can get two of my fingers in comfortably (i have long fingers for a girl) and i want to know the difference between that and the width/girth of an average penis. I know all are diffrent but i dont want to be in a lot of pain with my boyfriend. I just want to know a comparison so i know what to expect.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Fingers can not compare to a penis. Every woman, unless she is broken in, (too much sex, loose etc,) has to adjust to her partner. A healthy va jim jam, is stretchy and shrinks over time very close to virgin tightness, or tampon tightness. Guy I am intimate with, is small, maybe 4 inches, average girth, and man hurt like hell our first night. I have only had sex with a smaller guy a few years ago, which also hurt, and my vagine shrunk back lol after childbirth, vaggies usually dont shrink all the way back.

You just have to adjust to him.

onetoomanybeau · Accepted Answer

Sex should not be painful. If sex is painful for you (even masturbation) either you have not used enough lubrication or have a physical disorder that needs to be discussed with a gynaecologist to receive proper treatment.

Steve37 · Accepted Answer

An average penis is between 4 and five inches in girth. If you find an object about that size, you can cover it with a condom and insert it to see how it feels. If you try this, make sure you are wet or use a good lubricant.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No two bodies are alike, your experience will be different too. What you've done to prepare yourself is a good start. First times are rarely if ever glamorous or pain-free. It does get easier over time.