Do guys get attached like girls do after sex?

[Anonymous]

like after his first time? or first time with that specific girl? or just in general?

[Anonymous]

well im in a pickle here. im a female who trained a virgin and at the time i liked him and thought he did too. after all the times he came to me i really thought he liked me. we had some distance becuz his mom doesn't kno he's active. I felt i had loved him but when asked him he didn't give a direct answer. he still comes back to me and it hurts becuz im in the process of moving on, but i come back to square one when he talks to me. i can't tell if he's attached, clingy or what else there could be

[katiesmuff]

There are some guys who get very much attached after having sex with a girl for the first time.

[toulouse]

funny, like 10 guys saying yes & 2 saying NO NO NO GUYS DO NT lol

[Romeo315]

Code5 is correct, there is no straight yes or no answer..

some guys get attached after sex with someone that they are really into.

On the other hand, I have slept with girls I have liked but not been really into, and not gotten attached.

In short, depends on the level of attraction the guy feels towards the girl, the kind of attraction he feels (physical, mental, or both) and how in touch the guy is with his emotions.

[Code5]

It is a toss up. It really depends on the guy. Like if you have the more player type of guy, he will probably not get attached. A guy who is a little more in touch with his emotions will more than likely get attached. It can happen in any of those situations you mentioned. To answer your question in short; yes, some guys do get attached after sex.

[Fredo]

After the first time no, but if it is a constant thing and not just sex, like if you two cuddle after instead of just putting your clothes on it eventually gets hard to stay detached.

[KERMlT]

Most guys do not associate emotions like love with the sexual activity.

[ladsin]

typically guys do get emotionally attached but may act meaner because they don't want you to know that

[YungPrynce]

Its not as intense or consistent as it is for girls. It also differs between individual guys as some men will develop a higher level of attachment then others.

[tigerguy]

it differs, more often than not life takes the p*ss like some cases girls do get attached and guys don't and some guys do get attached and the girls dont.

[Somethingtokilltime]

If I'm not in a relationship all my attachment and feelings are basically gone once I'm done lol... Sad but true

[Anonymous]

no, guys don't have the same chemical that girls do, that's why its important for him to feel like he loves you but for him to say it after the sex. if he says it before. itll be because he's getting you in bed, if he says it during, it doesn't really work out but if he says it after, you know he'll stick around. hard part is how do you know if he feels like he can say it. that's all got to do with how you treat him and how he treats you

[Anonymous]

It depends on the guy's motive. If he already likes you as a person and has sex with you he will probably feel more connected to you but a guy who is just looking for sex will feel nothing emotionally for you before or after sex.