My guy wants me to Prostate Massage when I give him head and I'm not sure what to do...

[Anonymous]

My guy told me his ex used to massage his prostate. Which basically is hooking your finger inside the asshole and massaging. He also likes being licked and stuff down there while I'm giving head. I was a little surprised, since most straight men want you to stay the hell away from their back doors. But he says its really pleasurable for him, it made him come buckets when his ex-girlfriend did it to him for the first time and he's hinted that he wants me to try it. This is completely new territory for me. I have no idea what techniques to use. I've never been with a guy that enjoys this, or is even open to trying this. So I'm mystified about what I should do or where I can even get information about how-to's and guidelines or tips. Please help. I want to know if there are other guys who enjoy this. Its not like he wants a dildo or anything up his ass, just some gentle attention I guess. He's really sexually open minded and this was one of the things he discovered he liked. I just want to satisfy him and be the best sex he's ever had. Any input is appreciated!

[suziecuzie]

A prostate massage is not just hooking your finger inside his asshole. Far from it. You should be glad that you have a Boyfriend who enjoys the pleasures his body can give him. Way too many males are so restrictive in their sexuality when it involves any anal play. That's probably one of the contributing factors in the high rates of prostate cancer and colo-rectal cancer. Anyway, there are websites you can visit that will give info and instructions on how to perform this stimulating act of loving. Men I know who've had orgasms this way say they're the most intense and satisfying they've ever had. BTW, take your time, and use plenty of lube. Trim your nails and use a glove.

Good luck.

[inthecityre]

There is nothing wrong with exploring and learning new techniques in sex but if its something you are not comfortable with then tell him. But for the record I did know a guy into the same thing and he was into it too.

[Snowball69]

You are absolutely gorgeous

[Anonymous]

My husband likes it too, but I don't like to use a finger so we use a small toy when I give him head, sometimes during sex too. He says it is way nor intense when he cums. Have fun

[Opinion Owner]

And it means he is super in to you if he feels he can ask you for this. He wouldn't want you to tell anyone. Did you give it a try?

[Anonymous]

Most guys don't like to even think of going through this because they are deeply homophobic and think that if they enjoy it it could mean that they are gay. However biology dosen't lie, the guy G-spot is their prostate which just so happens to be located up their ass. It will feel good for any and every guy but not all guys are open to the idea. It is something I enjoy but to be honset I didn't have the confidence to even bringing up the idea of trying it until after 3 years with my girlfriend. It is only because of how much I trust her and how open I am that I tried it. If he likes it and you want to know how to do it best just google prostate massage.

[13seth]

This is the best answer, he should of course make sure he is completely clean and you should be comfortable with it before trying. I had a girl want to try this on me, once I got over being homophobic and ignorant I realized it is very pleasurable.

[debsman]

Just be sure and use some water-based lube like KY-gel.

[ebrady5]

my bro had a girlfriend who would do this for him, and he said she was the best lay ever, (ive never experienced this myself) I would jus google some diagrams about where the male prostate is and how to stimulate it, since this is the gland that is involved in male orgasm(females have a prostate as well, it is basically the g-spot)

[l-hedoniste]

Ask *him*. He's clearly an old pro at this, and besides, he knows more about what works for him than we do. Any information we give you will be waaay less informed than what you'll get from your man.

[mmafan1234]

Google it lol and don't be worried about it its a lot more common than you think. a lot of people are scared to admit that they either enjoy it or would like to try it. Take it as a compliment that he'd tell you about it he must of had some trust in you so don't sweat it nothing weird about it.

[cyrus7]

I would never let a girl go around my butt lol

[Anonymous]

RUN !!! 🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃

I do not envy you

[Anonymous]

Well this is an interesting question as I myself enjoy a rwalistic dildo in my ass, I also use a 10 inch dildo made of rubber. (Doc johnson) I am married and straight but nothing can match the feeling of ass play while getting sucked off. If you want more info just google male prostate stimulation. I would advise if you use something more than your finger be prepared for blood the first time. After that it should go in nicely. DON'T RUSH, be gentle and go slow.