10 monthnold son walks across husbands lap and then he is semi hard?

[Anonymous]

My husband and I were on the couch. My son, which 10 month decided to walk on my husbands lap. I noticed that his penis was semi hard after he had Stopped walking on it. I said something to him about being semi hard and he said it happens and it’s just the pressure from our son walking on it. Should I be concerned? I mean he gives our son baths and everything and I have seen him hard after that so I’m just trying to ask if this is something that can happen.

[ShortCircuit]

The instance of your son walking across his lap and causing a semi erection doesn't worry me. Like your husband said, pressure is all it takes. Even road bumps can cause erections.

What worries me is your mention of seeing him erect after giving your son baths. I don't see what could've caused that in terms of pressure. So unless his erection was caused by drifting sexual thoughts (of 18+ women), there might be cause for concern.

Don't confront him yet, because there is no coming back from being accused of being a pedophile by your own wife. Just keep an eye out. Only say something if you notice that your husband never fails to have an erection after being in a situation that involves your son naked.

[Asker]

No he doesn’t I’m sorry. I was saying after baths he isn’t at all.

[ShortCircuit]

Ohhh I see. Well in that case it's even less likely that your husband is a pedophole. Congratulations lol

[worldscolide]

Wow really.. Something causes friction and he gets slightly hard.. its an automatic response.. And you're worried that he might be some kind of pedo...

Humans are sexual beings first and foremost.. Its why men even if they aren't interested can be raped, all it takes is a little pressure and friction.. Its the same reason women experience orgasms during rape as well. Friction and pressure causes it... I suggest dropping the paranoia and either asking him directly or ignoring it unless something actually happens. So sad SMH

[Asker]

First off... i'm not paranoid. Being that I;m a lady and just don't have a penis I just asked a question. There is nothing sad about asking these type of questions as, my very good friend was not only raped by her father but her brother as well. Do I think my husband is doing that, NO! But i felt that need to ask to make sure I checked myself so I did. There is nothing sad about it at all.

[worldscolide]

My apologies.. Often times i read stories about how men are automatically seen as predators.. Take for instance the man that was forced to move to a different seat on an air plane because the air line had a policy of not permitting men to sit next to children. I also see that kind of attitude among mommy groups and the like. Or say a man is sitting alone in a park minding his business and the like, he will be reported to the police simply because he is where children play and he happens to have a penis.. Again my apologies for automatically branding you as one of those women who see men as nothing but rapists, child molesters, and predators.

[Asker]

I would never think that not would say it. I just don’t know how this all works and wanted to know bc in the moment I felt uncomfortable but it’s bc I don’t understand.

[worldscolide]

it sucks.. Men don't have a whole lot of control over the way our body responds.. Take morning wood for instance.. It happens all the time. No sex dream to cause it.. But it still happens. Some times it gets really annoying to put up with.. to be honest he might be embarrassed about it. there are times where the thought crosses our minds "why did that turn me on" in response to random boners lol. I dont think you have any thing to worry about.

[tired_girl_]

I'd say be observant. It's very nasty to even think about things like that if it's not true. On the other hand, I'd keep my eyes open and of stuff like that happens all the time...

[Anonymous]

I would take his word for it unless you have a specific reason to think he's lying

[Asker]

No, no reason to think he is lying at all.

[Opinion Owner]

Then it's probably just natural like many guys have said

[Selena2418]

Nothing to be concerned about.

[bubbatxman]

It is completely normal. If pressure is exerted on a young male’s privates, things happen.

[wankiam]

can happen to me with the cat... i dont fancy the cat

[Celtero]

You could punch me in the dick and I'd probably get a boner.

[Asker]

LOL. Figured lol

[reptocarl]

That isn’t right

[PlasticSpoon]

Shit happens. Don't worry.

[genericname85]

Not to worry. Penises get hard when simulated. Doesn't matter how. Could be a cat, your baby boy or your wife with sexual intend. The penis doesn't care. It's natural.

[genericname85]

It doesn't mean that he's sexually aroused by whatever causes the simulation. It's like if you get chill, your nipples get hard. It doesn't mean the cold aroused you.

[Asker]

No i figured. It just caught me off guard thats all. But thank you for your response and they why you responded.

[outside_Toronto]

Why aren't you giving your husband the pressure he needs?

[Asker]

What the fuck? That make no sense. Mt husband, not that it's your busy, has sex with me whenever he pleases. One doesn't have anything to do with the other.

[outside_Toronto]

So you immediately think he has a problem... nice

[Asker]

What the fuck. I don't think he has a problem I asked if it was just normal. I DON'T HAVE A PENIS SO I WOULDN'T KNOW YOU DICK HEAD

[outside_Toronto]

Now I can see the issue

[Asker]

I’m sure

[Walrus_au]

I wouldn't be concerned.

[Philyouup]

It is a automatic, non sexual reaction..

[lpoots]

your husband or your son

[Dantheman101]

😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

[Anonymous]

Really? You think he is a pedo because your infant son stepped on his cock and he got a semi? Wow. He could brush against a car or a wall and get a semi but it wouldn't mean he was sexually attracted to them. Cut him some slack. Shit.

[Asker]

Did I say that?

[Opinion Owner]

Then what are you saying?

[Anonymous]

Troll questions are getting more and more obvious. It's like you're not even trying anymore.
I can't believe people fall for them.