When you say you are directly stimulating it do you mean under the clitoral hood? If not and it's still hurting. You could try lightly (almost like a tickle feeling) tracing a finger around it in a circle, back and forth sideways across it, or up and down on the sides instead of directly on top of it. Some girls like different directions. You need to figure out which works for you. If the tickle thing seems to work try to apply a tiny bit more pressure until you can figure out what is too much and just scale it down a notch.
1 1 0 0I don't know it seems to be uncomfortable all these ways
I'm not sure. Did you get what I meant about the hood? It's the little bit of skin/fleshy bit right on top of the clit. You can kind of move it around on top of it. If it helps you, try maybe using a mirror so you can see what you're doing down there. For me, it hurts me when I touch the clit directly. But if I only touch the hood part and move it around it feels okay. I can't press down hard or anything and most of the time I'll tend to stroke the part between the lips and move up an down with the tip of one finger.
Oh okay... I'll try.. thank you
I have the same problem, I have to rub it in a certain way so it doesn’t hurt. For some people it’s just way too sensitive, you gotta find out what works for you, senselessly rubbing on it is not going to work.
Don’t be worried, everyones body is different, there’s nothing wrong with you.0 1 0 0Finally someone who understand it 😬 thanks I guess I'll just have to find that certain way
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You're pretty much a young teen with no experience your hormones haven't kicked in a lot. I wouldn't be doing that anyway at your young age. Concentrate on your school work and don't watch things that make you sexually aroused
1 0 0 0But I can't help being s*xually aroused anyways... and it's really frustrating so I have to take care of it
It's normal. If you don't know how to touch it, it will just hurt. Next time use a bit of lubrication. Also you should switch from clit to labia and vice versa.
1 0 0 0I don't have any lubrication 😬 I usually do it in another way but I don't understand why a direct touch isn't working
You're new at doing it, aren't you? That's how it usually is. I was hurting myself too when I started to M-bate. Try some oil, or a shampoo while showering. Just make sure it's not irritant.
I'm new to this way yes 😬
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0 7I would try different angles work on the labia minora do a lot of tickling and teasing. You will most likely have to experiment quite a bit until you find a technique that works for you as everyone is a bit different.
1 0 0 0Not a girl, but girls usually have a clitoral hood, aka, a piece of skin protecting your clitoris as its a sensitive organ, try to stimulate through it instead!
1 0 0 0You might be just super sensitive
1 0 0 0Deppends, is a sensible part, change the rythm, put your fingers inside the vagina, use toys... each person is diferent
1 0 0 0No no can't do that
Can't do what?
Put things in the there
Maybe u are doing it regularly.. so stop for few weeks and try
0 0 0 0Not really
OK I think it became sensitive there maybe..
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Could it be because it's overstimulated and sensitive?
1 0 0 0Why do you mean by overstimulated? But yes it does feel sensitive but I thought that's why it'll make me be able to finish from that
No if it's over stimulated it can become sensitive and sore. Sounds weird but it happens. It's a delicate area
But I never managed to stimulate it that way I only stopped after a bit because it was too uncomfortable so I don't think it's overstimulated
Cuz its the way u rub it baby
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