I'm glad you asked this, I feel like its confusing for a lot of guys. The majority of girls don't masturbate in that way (G-spot stimulation) before actually losing their virginity - they masturbate via clit stimulation, which obviously does not involve sticking anything inside. Mostly the G-spot area is left untouched, because otherwise you would feel like you're losing your virginity to a dildo (or a hairbrush handle, like you said lol). A second reason why girls don't typically stimulate their G-spot before losing their virginity, is because it feels very uncomfortable and weird, especially when you don't know what you're doing - so they themselves don't know what they like. They don't know what it's supposed to feel like, and in what way it is pleasurable. However, once you start having sex and trying different positions, you start to figure out where that sweet spot is and what feels good - but trying to find it yourself for the most part is just awkward. So to sum it up, the reason why (most) girls don't use toys before sex is 1) because they don't want to feel like they're losing their virginity to an object, and 2) they don't know what feels good. That's why it hurts the first time we have sex - we've never really had anything in there before.
Most girls don't use toys during masturbation, especially those who are younger. The legal age for sex in the UK is 16 but I'm pretty confident you can't buy sex toys until you are 18 so even if you wait until it is legal to have sex you should not be able to purchase sex toys. Also generally people are nervous if it is their first time and this can cause them to become tighter which can hurt. It's not only the first time which can hurt of course, men have all different penis sizes so bigger ones can hurt even if you're more experienced. Also the vaginal walls tighten naturally after sex so even sex with the same partner can hurt at a later point. The most important thing to ease the pain is too ensure a girl is properly excited and lubricated.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!For a lot of girls it hurts the first few times because they are nervous.. if you are relaxed the vagina relaxes.. if you're stressed and nervous it tightens up and doesn't get wet enough
I've never used a toy when masturbating,
and even at that, my fingers are nowhere near as big as a guy's penis.
some women ike me for instance
dont masturbate with toys
so when I have sex for the first time it will hurt
and he will love how tight I am
First of all not all, maybe not even many, girls use toys/objects to masturbate before they have sex. So their hymen might not be broken. And second of all, the first time can be painful because it seems more likely to be awkward or scary.
The vagina is very tight & it gets stretched. Imagine putting a cucumber in your mouth that is wider than your mouth can open. Your mouth would get pulled and stretched out. It would hurt because of this. It is the same way for women when they lose their virginity. Their vagina is stretched & also the cherry pops.
I use the handle of an electric toothbrush that's shaped kinda like you know...but I don't put it in very far and it isn't really thick. (I'd think less than 3 inches and less than 2 fingers thick and I have little fingers.) I'm too scared to push it in farther so I'll let a guy do that for me some day. And that will still hurt because as long as he's average size he'll be twice the size of my toy and I still have my "cherry".
My first time didn't hurt.. it just feels a bit uncomfortable for a few seconds untill you get used to the feeling.
No, I don't think this is a stupid question. It surprises me why girls don't use dildos repeatedly before having sex with a guy for the first time. Break your hymen, loosen up, so you'll enjoy it with the guy without complaining of the pain.
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