Slut question for guys and girls?

[Lavendel]

So, got a question for you, both genders. A girl sleeps around, she get's looked down upon, called names (slut, whore etc), get's talked about behind her back. A guy sleeps around, he get's a pat on the back, a "way to go kiddo!", the admiration of fellow men. So what's the deal?! (I'm just SO sick of guys complaining over some girls being "sluts". Look in the mirror guys! Most of you are ten times the slut a girl could ever be. No offense.)

[pandaninja]

Have you ever realized who exactly where the criticism or praise comes from? It is girls that call other girls sluts and guys who pat other guys on the back for getting laid. Often it is declared that this a double standard but I would argue that it is the effect of two separate spheres of influence. While guys and girls are both humans they are to a certain degree part of an inclusive sphere of society in which one's place is determined by gender. Girls view things differently than guys and each sphere makes its own rules for how those in it should act. Meaning that guys together decide exactly what a guy is supposed to be while girls do the same for their gender. To this you might ask then why do guys call girls who sleep around sluts too, this is because one sphere only has control over itself and when mingling with those of another sphere the others sphere's rules apply. So basically guys only think girls are sluts because socially girls as a majority decided that that was the case and guys have no power to change that. So if you want to change how society views a certain group of people the ones whose mind you need to change is that group of people.

[Lavendel]

I just read this question on here that said "Is it OK that I treat sluts badly" or whatever, where the guy said he wants to sleep with girls, and basically abuses them in bed if he finds out they are marked as sluts, cause he just loses respect for them, and consideres them as recycling. Use them and throw them away. And I'm like wtf?! He even wrote the girls started crying! I just arrggh... get SO mad. Poor girls. Didn't mean to accuse all guys of being like this, I just had to vent my anger..

[pandaninja]

its okay he was probably just trolling to try and get as many comments as possible if you notice a lot of the highest visited questions proposed don't really ask for an answer but just want to infuriate people enough to comment against them, just try to ignore them

[jester7979]

Jesus-H-Christ! I thought the feminist movement that's turning us men into pu$$ies already cleared up this answer! YES, it's okay to be a slut. YES, do whatever you girls want without reprisal from other stupid girls and effiminite men. Just be YOURSELF. Who the FORK cares what other people think. That's what it means to be liberated. Who...the...FORK...cares!?!?!?!

[Lavendel]

hahh, "fork".

[jester7979]

well this stupid effiminite FCC run website won't allow me to say F***... see how it's covered up?<<< *****... as if chidren don't know puzzles and can't fill in the blanks. Jesus-H-Christ! I yearn for the days of Sparta where you could fork a girl under 18, because that was the legal age, and the word "fork" was far less offensive than American cigarette smoking in public! FORK, FORK, FORK, all of you!

[madiangel]

The guys behaving like this are just jealous, it is so much easier for us to have the men we want than for them to get the woman they want.
It shows them a girl in control and they dont like that

[sinful1620]

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Stop bitching about this bullsh*t projection of your belief that there's a double standard that doesn't exist anymore.

[Lavendel]

If you read my comment below (under pandaninja), I explain why I wrote it. Just got really upset by that one question I read.. Sorry, didn't mean to take up question-space or whatever.. Submitting this was kinda a spur of the moment thing.

[Voltaire]

A guy who has sex with a ton of girls gets a bad rep with chicks. A chick who has sex with a ton of dudes gets a bad rep with dudes. Seems pretty fair to me.

[MossyG]

Think about it this way. girls mostly don't like virgin guys but guys like virgin girls. That's how people grew up and as a result they a lot of the time look down on a girl for that.