Guys- can you get an erection without being attracted to the girl?

If you were messing around with a girl (making out, going under her shirt...) would you get an erection even if you didn't think she was attractive? Or doesn't it matter that much?
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  • Depends. If I'm already that close to her, she has to have something of attraction value. Even if it's the smallest amount and she may be someone I'm not too keen on.

    But, we can get a hard on by thinking about something else, or someone else we did something with. And the erection isn't typically caused by the chick at hand per se.

    If it was with someone on a considerable level, to where I wanted something with her. Then there would have to be a significant amount of attraction. As I'm actually looking to enjoy looking at her on a more frequent basis.

  • Yes, it does matter. Except in the rare butterface who has a REALLY nice bod, she needs to be attractive.

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  • We can get morning glory without a woman in the room, so sure.

  • looks have nothing to do with it. Men have a saying "it all pink in the middle". Obviously meaning when the lights go out, all women are the same. Where as men are not since penis size ranges

    • Speak for yourself. I have never heard that expression ever used by any guy referencing girls and getting an erection for anything female. You're confusing height with what ever was on your mind. There does exist the expression, "They (girls) are all the same size lying down."

    • NOoooo, I am not confusing anything. And I have never heard anything dealing with height. Why would height matter? Maybe your not from the USA because every guy in the USA other then maybe the young ones have heard and used the xpression "its all pink in the middle".

  • nope tried it once

    epic fail

  • Why am I messing around with a girl I don't find attractive in the first place?

    • Hahahah actually, this is probably true.

    • Haha sorry not to answer the actual question but I couldn't really get past that in my mind.

  • no, but I am very shallow and cynical , I don't know maybee if the lights were off, and she wasn't fat

  • this may sound stupid but I believe they can, if thy are horny enough lol.. all they have to do is close their eyes and picture a hot chick rubbing on them lol

    • Yep, that's right but I wouldn't be messing around with someone I didn't find attractive.

    • lol well I would hope not.. wheres the fun in that? lol

  • I can get an erection looking at a plant!

  • I could get an erection if I was drunk enough, yes.

  • Maybe if I was attracted to her brother!