How can you make sex special?

[Anonymous]

So just wondering, how to make sex special again with my guy. I asked him to not have sex anymore with me until March, which is our 1.5 year anniversary. Anyways, and when we do have sex I want him to do something super special so it will be memorable and he said he will try his best. March isn't that long from now, it's like 3 months only so I think he can wait. What do you guys think he can do to make it special? I really want him to and I think this will make it up to me how he treated our first time as un-special. He said his first time was super special but he didn't have to with me because he already had his first but I don't think that should be the case so I thought of this solution. Thanks for any ideas in advance! He said his ex danced naked to a trance song with strobe lights, so I asked him to do the same but he doesn't want to. So any other ideas will be appreciated.

[Method]

Try this:

1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ---->
10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

Good luck

[Anonymous]

Based on all you have said here, the one best solution for his making s3x better is for him to extend your 3-month moratorium to maybe 50 years and start having it with woman who loves and respects him. You clearly do not. Or, of course, maybe you made this up to get reactions. But if you did, you have a fundamental wiring problem. He will be just one in a string of relationship where guys don't measure up and have to be "motivated". Or maybe you are my ex wife. Yes, that's it! How ARE you Beelzebub?

[katiesmuff]

I can see why you posted this as "anonymous" because you come off as a complete idiot! Stop it for 3 mo's so that t in that time it will be something special? You will be lucky if he is even around in three months.

You have some crazy idea that there is some majical special thing that can make sex so special. It is special most every time you do it.

You had better give this a bit more thought before you loose what you had to begin with

[Butterfly_kisses09]

3 months? Really? That makes NO sense. Cutting him off from sex just because you want him to think of ways to make it special for you is selfish and honestly, it's pretty immature as well. If you really love him then EVERY time you have sex should be special, just because it's with him...really, I don't understand girls like you. But, let us know how it all turns out.

[ThirtyThree]

You're cruel for making him wait so long. Poor dude.

[dave216]

You removed the sex from your relationship and want to wait 3 months before returning to it? You will be very lucky if he is still around to have this "special" sex with you. It is a very strong possibility that before 3 months he will go find sex elsewhere. Why do you want to play silly games like this?

As far as special is concerned, sex or drinking a glass of water is as special as you decide to make it. It is all in your mind. If you want it to be special, just decide that it is.

[Thiezz]

Wait, did you suggest not having sex for three months, because you want to feel special?

[DocClassic]

is this serious?! I may be reading this wrong, but I gather that HE has to wait 3 months for sex, that HE has to come up with an idea so HE can make sex memorable for YOU...but of course he should get nothing in return for this because HE has to pay since the sex the first time was sub-par. I'm gunna go out on a limb and say that the sex HE f***ed up was not by himself...

[Anonymous]

3 months of abstinence as a reward for a meaningless 18 month anniversary? If I were him, I would walk. Why? It's seeds of rationing sex for something more important to you that may not be for him. "Honey, lets give up sex for Ramadan to honor Muslims!" "Honey, lets give up sex for a month so you can focus on buying me a diamond necklace".



Deal breaker, honey. You head is not on straight on how to keep a loving relationship. You may choose to abstain, but he hasn't.