I don't really care how it's asked. 'Can I go down on you?' seems to be the least 'offensive' way, without getting technical. Honestly I would laugh if a guy asked to 'perform cunnilingus'. Not in a mean way intending to make fun of him, but in an 'I think it's awesome that you just used a technical term in a serious manner while trying to get intimate with me' kind of way. =P
Personally, I think I'd prefer it if the guy didn't ask. I'd rather he just headed in that direction and went for it. And if for whatever reason I DIDN'T want him to, I would stop him and direct his attention to other activities I would rather participate in.
And that is usually what happens, my question was is there a phrase that is prefered by the ladies here, 'cuz sometimes at the beginning of foreplay, it is fun to proffer an intention as a means of creating some additional excitement. I prefer to ask forgiveness rather than permission... :>)
"I prefer to ask forgiveness rather than permission... :>)" My sentiments exactly. =D Personally, I don't really have a preference about how someone should ask me that, if it must be asked at all. One way doesn't turn me on more than another. Though I think 'can I go down on you?' would be universally the least awkward way to ask, among women in general. That's just me though, I could be wrong. =P
Have her lay down on her stomach, her bent kinda so her ass is up, get behind her and get some spit on the tip of your tongue. gently let the tip of your tongue touch her ass and lick little circles around the opening. when it's nice and wet, blow a little on her wet ass. repeat till her p**** drips. then lick be...tween her p**** lips, roll each lip around your tongue and kiss her p**** like it's her mouth, use some tongue. don't go for her clit till she can't stand it. then suck on it and press your tongue against it. use any of the above in unison till she cums.
Honestly, I don't need him to ask. I just like for him to do it. And do it well lol.
ya if I had to choose I would also say id just want him to do it
Ive noticed that girls don't like the term "give you head" cause they think I wanna suck d***? An I can't say I wanna eat your pussy. Cause its "gross" I think can I go down on you is the best. Or just surprise them.
Just kiss them and get lower, lower, lower, maybe tease her go back up, than eat that nasty sh*t.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Why ask? Your in the middle of foreplay wilth her and just start heading south and if she doesn't want it she will let you know and it will be obvious!
lol just shove her head down...her opinion doesn't matter as long as she's doing it right...u got no problems well that's how i;ve always done it hasn't failed me once
Lol, you should probably re-read the question.
mhmmm why the haters...4 downies?
'her opinion doesn't matter', lol.
i like suprises
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