Should I wear lingerie?

It's going to be my first time having sex with my boyfriend and our first time together as a couple but he isn't a virgin.I wanted to make it special but I also know sex isn't special or important to guys.I wanted to buy lingerie.something like these

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I have big boobs so I'm not sure he will want to me try to fit into lingerie lol

So should I?

I mean, I am a virgin but we've done everything but sex or anal lol.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Like everyone has said, he'd love it. Since he's already into you, seing you wearing one of those will make his heart skip a beat or two.

    Then again, there is something:

    losing virginity is not without risks: it could hurt a lot, you could not ejoy it (and thus he'd not feel satisfied), you could be too tight for penetration, you could have miss-timed your period, or he could be so hot for you he'd come "too soon".

    so ¿whats my point? When you make it a bigger event, and do stuff like getting a fancy hotel room, buying superhot lingerie, etc etc, you are raising expectations and turning into high stakes. If something goes less than perfect, then the high expectations are not met, and there could be trouble.

    So I tend to agree with the Anonymous girl who said her personal opinion for your first time was "I would want it to be more natural. Maybe do that your second time".

  • First of all, sex can be special for guys too.

    Second of all, that's a very good idea!

    Don't forget that lingerie are produced to be sexy.

    Finally, it doesn't have much to do with how much experience you have with him, or how big your breasts are. It only has to do with how comfortable you are with the idea of wearing sexy lingerie.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes, I think you should wear lingerie.If you've already done everything but sex,then I suggest wearing the lingerie and doing a little teasing as foreplay.

    Babydoll style of lingerie are very neutral,girls with any body shape can wear them and look good.

    He'll appreciate the effort and it will be visually pleasing to him.

  • Great choices! If he loves your body, he would love to see you in something that sexy. That's something I would wear during sex! I'm sure he'll love it! But what size bra do you wear, cause usually lingerie comes in big sizes!

  • Go for it! he will love it.

    even if having sex doesn't mean anything he will be attracted to you like crazy.

    he will appreciate that he has a Girlfriend that will dress up for him.

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  • 1. It will be sexy to him. 2. It will hurt first time (practice makes perfect) 3. I hope you haven't been dating any less than 3 months. (cuz it won't last much longer)...(1 month)

  • Should u? what, you are seriously asking? if you don't there is something definitely wrong with u, girl. I really don't think your boyfriend will mind too much - that 2d one especially in my opinion is enough to give a blind man a rock hard d*** in about 1/2 second. omg - don't even consider not doing it!

  • "...but I also know sex isn't special or important to guys."

    That's not true! Why would you say that?!

    • I agree with the answerer. Let's not make such a generalization.

  • My personal opinion for your first time I would want it to be more natural. Maybe do that your second time.

  • go for it I am sure any guy would love it