Does it sound like my vagina is bigger/wider than average?

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Im 18. Never given birth, only 1 sex partner. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We were fooling around the other day and he was fingering me. He wanted to see if there fingers would fit inside me. He bunched them up and it took a little bit of effort, but he was able to put three fingers inside. Usually he only puts one finger inside to pleasure me. He can put two fingers in, but he says that he can't move his fingers around much because it's tight with two fingers in. But he was able to put three insude me. He couldn't move his fingers around and it honestly felt a bit uncomfortable. But since he could put three fingers in, does that mean that my vagina is bigger than an average female's? I'm feeling kinda bad now because I don't want to. be loose or unpleasurable.. Do you think he feels extra room on his dick during sex? He says he thinks I'm tight and he seems to. enjoy sex with me but he doesn't do missionary anymore and I'm wondering if it has anything to do with me not feeling tight enough.. we used to do missionary all the time and now he switches to doggy to finish everytime. He says it's because doggy is his favorite and that's the only reason he chooses to. finish like that. But I feel like he wants to finish in doggy all the time because it makes me feel less loose.. :( Does it sound like I have a big vagina?

Alex31 · Accepted Answer

Vagina is adaptable to almost all sizes of penis, so if you had much sex before it's possible that it just got adapted at that moment to the third finger. Important is that he couldn't easily move them and that he feels tight with two fingers as well. If your guy's penis is really huge then your possible future partners may find it a little hard to please you but if he's not much bigger than an average and you get pleasure in sex then your vagina's fine!

helva · Accepted Answer

I don't think that there is a problem with your vagina. It happens to me that one finger isn't easy to be brought in and on other days two fingers easily fit. Maybe a problem with relaxation and/or lubrication?

Maybe he just really prefers doggy. I know most boys can insert deeper in the vagina with doggy style than with missonary.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You sound pretty ordinary to me. But 3 fingers is an athletic achievement, not nurturing intimacy. The right way is two curled fingers side by side, palm toward the mound. They fall on your g-spot inside and with a little positioning, his thumb should be on your clit. Fast orgasms ensue.

AhmadElsayed009 · Accepted Answer

No it's perfectly normal size, also don't forget that the the vagina can be stretched bigger than its size, that's how he can put his three fingers in, even if he put four fingers it wouldn't mean that you're loose.

CMC93 · Answer

Read this and you will feel 100% better :)

MrKinktastic · Answer

You were uncomfortable with 3 fingers so I wouldn't say you are loose at all. If you're worried about it just start doing kegels and itll tone back uo, its just a little muscle pouch basically.

ChronicThinker · Answer

I wouldn't say you're loose. I personally can't handle 2 fingers but I've had issues regarding tightness since I began having sex.

mynesterion · Answer

As long as there's not an echo you should be fine.

Rixdare · Answer

Sounds perfectly normal to me

Habib_M · Answer

for being more tight lay on her stomach instead of kneeling

reptocarl · Answer

This is so stupid. Your vagina is perfectly fine and normal. Stop overthinking

ATuairiscean · Answer

The vagina is elastic and will become looser very gradually (miniscule amounts) from sex - It will take major events like losing virginity or childbirth to cause some measurable change

Johnnie1000 · Answer

I never come across a pussy that is too louse. The pussy is extremely elastic and with a little patience a lot can go inside. I do 3 fingers all the time.,

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Compared with a baby's head, I think that three or perhaps ten fingers aren't that much. When we have a big heart, or big feelings: a vagina can be as big as it wants to be. Only minds are small. Sometimes.

outside_Toronto · Answer

Normal

RIVERTAY888 · Answer

you are very normal

radi_nce · Answer

All of my sexual partners have been able to fit 3 fingers with mild discomfort, and have felt as you have described. I wouldn't say you're any looser than normal. It also doesn't matter as much as people say, really.

toxicavoidance33 · Answer

Nothing to fear but fear itself yo. Be confident that he is telling you the truth about hittin it from the back. Confidence is one of the most sexy things in the bedroom (or kitchen or whatever) at least to me. Sounds like both of you are young, he's probably just exploring the gardens of life lol join him. Just don't sacrifice your comfort or pleasure for that of someone else, ever.