What is the key to giving head?

My boyfriend and I have just started trying new things. And giving head was one of them, he says I do a great job. But, it's so hard. I try really hard to make it good for him, but it starts to get tiring. And hard to keep up. What are some good tips?
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  • This is the best way to give head:

    1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

    2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

    3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

    4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

    5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

    6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

    7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

    8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

    9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ---->
    10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

    Good luck

  • One of the best things you can do is to look at him when you are giving him head. This is somewhat unnatural for women for some reason as they want to close their eyes which is OK. However, men are very visually stimulated. If you look deep into his eyes while you do this it will go a long way toward getting him there as he sees you look at him. Men are also aurally stimulated so please make noise (moan) and talk to him by saying sexy (the naughtier the better) things while you use that time to "take a break". But keep your hands moving during that time. The best advice is don't be nervous. Just relax and enjoy yourself. A guy will want to come in your mouth. Let him. You will make his day if you hold his come in the back of your mouth and then open your mouth show it to him and then swallow. Be sure to show him it's all gone when you're done. And be sure you smile sexily the whole time. Remember, guys are visually stimulated. You have no idea how great this will be for him, and you'll have a great time too. Just make sure he returns the favor for you!

    • i tried that and the dude had his eyes close! lol

Most Helpful Girls

  • im just going to tell you what I do because apparently I'm good? I don't know ha anyways..

    but always start off by stroking him and kissing and slowly make your way down. I like to sometimes give the tip a little kiss because its sensitive and a way to tease. I lick the tip and twirl my tongue around the tip (once again its sensitive so its like an easy target to get them going). I then slowly start sucking on the tip. I then move his **** a little more into my mouth and so on. now, when I suck up, I suck with my lips really tight and my tongue sliding across as I pull away. ill even slide my tongue from side to side (not majorly just a bit to where it feels good so not like dramatically) as I suck up. as your sucking up use your hand and stroke him as you go. you only really need your thumb and index and middle finger. also some guys like it if you play with their balls a little while you suck. or touch their body and just use your mouth. or even suck on the balls a little before you give head. but there's my tip :) apparently its worked out amazingly :) so you're welcome to take it or leave it

  • -Enthusiasm

    -Enthusiasm

    -Enthusiasm

    -Vary the tongue action. Go from licking, sucking, flicking the penis

    -If your jaw begins to feel uncomfortable, use your hands to give him a handjob

    -Pay attention to his whole "manhood" give his "friends" some attention

    -Look him in the eyes for about 10 seconds

    -Make little sounds while doing it, let him know that you enjoy doing it

    -Pay attention to the frenulum(V shape on head of penis)

    -Ask him what he enjoys and likes!:)

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  • well every guy is different and likes it different some guys like a little teeth action and other guys can't stand it.but I few tip I know. work the toung when his penis is in your mouth.also when you suck suck with your toung and your mouth.ya know how a baby sucks a bottle,like that.switch it up offten to.oh and somtimes put a ice cube in your mouth while you sucking. lol hope this helps :)

    • i mean tongue*

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  • Think of a blowjob as a handjob where you use your mouth too. Use your hand to stroke him off while sucking on his balls, tonguing his head, etc. That tends to help with the tiring part because you aren't doing everything with your neck muscles

  • Lots and lots of enthusiasm for starters but be gentle and go slow savering every inch of him.

  • Just concentrate on the frenulum of his penis. Rub either lip more on that than anywhere else. The shaft is nothing concentrate on that area around the penis where the ridge is and the frenulum. You should be able to have a mouthful of sperm rather quickly.

  • You don't have to go fast the whole time..I start off slow and slowly increase my speed. You also don't have to put the whole thing in your mouth either I suck on the tip and move my hand up and down ..just mix it up he will tell you what he likes

  • Remember to use some lip/tongue compression; leave your teeth out of it; keep ball juggling and try not to vomit...though that last part can be kind of funny, if not expected after so many drinks.

  • As a guy, I can tell you that I always come faster when my girlfriend starts by sucking on the head and goes all the way down the shaft, then back up repeatedly. The more wet, the better. Also, if you get tired, work it with your hand and stroke it for a little while. I love when my girlfriend does that to me. The most sensitive part of my penis is my head, so focus on that part.

  • tung, no teeth.

  • putting my d*** in your mouth. I thought that was pretty obvious. the human race just seems to get dumber and dumber as years progress.

    • You don't have a lot of experience, do you? Otherwise you would know that there are a lot of people who really need to know how to give head.

    • @lefthand... nate18 is only 19 years old... in a couple of years he might recognize that this answer was dumb...not the question!

  • Enjoying it, & no, I'm not joking.