Sex doesn't feel good anymore?

[Anonymous]

Basically, sex with my boyfriend has just stopped feeling as good as it did. Before I was basically addicted to him, I loved having sex with him and it felt amazing, the best I've ever had. But recently, it's not feeling.. anything? I mean, it doesn't hurt or anything, but it doesn't feel great anymore? We've tried different positions (but he doesn't know it doesn't feel good) and stuff, so I don't know? Could it be I've become too loose for it to feel good? he is bigger than my previous sexual partners. what could it be? I want our old sex life back!

[katiesmuff]

From your description here it is hard to tell what you are trying to say the problem is. Is is something physical, is he not putting the effort into it he once did, just hard to tell?

[Asker]

No he is, I don't know though, it's just not as enjoyable as it was

[Cameron-Chapman]

i reckon because you had it so often you got used to it and therefore do not feel "new" to it so there is not really the same connection.