What do guys consider good? (sex wise)

[Anonymous]

what do you consider amateur? decent? amazing? guidelines please!

[KERMlT]

Amateur

Someone who feels that their only job is to look sexy while having sex. They don't feel like touching the other person or taking the time to figure out what turns them on. There are those who are a dead fish and want their partner to do all the work.

Decent

Someone willing to try out new things. They communicate with their partner when it starts to get painful instead of pushing past the pain (unless that's your thing). Thinks ahead with items like lube, clean up towels, water nearby, a chaser if applicable, etc.

Amazing

They know exactly how to turn you on but they get you to that edge of arousal without pushing you over the edge. Kisses are like wildfire and full of passion. They are multitasking and you feel different sensations at the same time. Time seems to stand still in the moment but actually hours pass by. They want to give and receive equally and enjoy doing so. When it is all said and done, both parties are drained, a bit sore, and feel like a newborn deer (need a few minutes before trying to stand).

[ecologist]

I think amazing involves the girl being relaxed and not trying to do too much. I think if she is relaxed, even if nervous then if she is doing something wrong or that isn't nice it is easier to tell her.

Bad sex would involve the girl acting like she is a dead weight, a doll that doesn't move or say anything. Silent sex is also bad. Girls you don't have to scream but just a few little oh oh or that's the right spot would be nice.

[0ddjob]

Amateur?

I sure as he'll don't want to be with someone who does it as a vocation!

[BlackSuperman]

FOR GUYS- a 2-pump chump is an amateur... decent is 10-15 mins.. amazing is anything over 25 minz... FOR LADIES... anything under 20 minz, and just laying there is amateurish and pathetic... decent is some interaction, and lasting about 25-30 minz... and amazing is anything over 45 minz...

[tigerguy]

girls moaning while giving a blowjob, sex, t*ts in a guys face, girls riding a guy on top, girls taking charge. if there's anything else you want to know email me or get me on chat :-)

[jojojosephine]

hm... what if she's not that experienced?

[tigerguy]

fake it, enough girls do lol just take things at your own pace and don't rush to something your not use to yet and go from there to feeling the nice pleasure to make you moan :-)

[Anonymous]

i wanna know! lol