For the first kiss should it be a peck?

well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 days now,and we haven't had our official kiss yet,and I don't know how.i never had a real kiss yet..I'm 17,so please help,how should I kiss? and does the girl kiss the upper lip? and one more thing lol..for the first kiss should it be a peck?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • ok it's only 5days hun - I don't kiss until the half year mark more than a peck on the cheek unless she starts it. But before you kiss if you really want to, remember that a kiss is very very special and not to be used on someone at random. As for how to: don't ask anyone because it's natural if you want to french kiss him [call me old because the term] the only thing you should remember is to lock lips. If he's taller than you use your tip-toes. I bend into the kiss and turn my head slightly to one side so our mouths can match. But again I suggest a peck on the cheek for now ^^ young wuv...i jealous QQ

    • ummmm wait a hlf year? never head of that before

    • im old fashioned? :(

    • oh that's okay! your probably really sweet to girls then

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  • If you want to have a REAL first kiss, stop thinking about the "right" way to do it and just let it happen. There is no "right" way, this moment is about you. Just do what feels natural and cherish the experience.

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  • Sweetie, just let it happen. :)

    No one kisses the upper lip or lower lip, just aim for his lips in general and you'll either get it right or miss a little and have something to giggle at a little later. Try to aim for both his lips though. If you want it to be a quick little peck, sure that's fine. Do what you're comfortable with. If you want to make out with him, just let him lead the first time so you know what to do. :)

    Goodluck!

  • Just let it happen naturally. You're not going to be able to think clearly when the time comes regardless.

    But here are some tips- Make sure your lips are moist. Use Chapstick beforehand. Not lipgloss or lipstick, that's just a sticky mess. And keep your mouth slightly agape and your lips relaxed. And just press your lips to his. It might be awkward at first, but you'll get the knack of it.

  • it should be something you feel comfortable about don't over think it. just go with the flow.

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  • Okay, I'll help you

    It's called English class, try actually going there

    • okay bitch seriously! who care if I write crappy! I'm actually on my news paper in school,and I write the stories so shut the f*** up! bye slut

    • First of all, you should have wrote, "Who caresif I write crappy!" You forgot the "s" & it is really annoying. 2nd of all, you don't have to be a writing expert to join the newspaper class at school, they will let anyone join. 3rd, next time you want to insult me, try doing it with something accurate. I'm not a slut, & you have no right to call anyone that name as you are writing in the sexuality category.

    • you think I care what you say! nope I dont! so go to hell..and yes for my school you do have to write good! I had to write a 10 page essay! so goood bye and bother some one else

  • YOU NEED SPELL CHECK TOO

  • it should be inbetween the upper and lower lips not just on one and if he initiates the make out than make out if not than just a kiss

    • Hey! You! Don't always wait for HIM! Do something first :(

    • im scared and nervous,we almost kissed but then I turned away:(

    • thats only natural! it's not turning him down no worries if he has a head he'll know that your a little nervous :) Also, if he forces a kiss do the KGT for him! Knee, grab, twist >-<;; *sweats a little*

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