I lust after my friend so much

but she doesn't feel the same, help, my hormones go crazy when I'm around her, I want to snog her, I want to eat her out. oh god help me
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sher don't want me, for one she has a boyfriend, 2 I don't want to be with her I just lust after her and 3 lets just say we had an argument in the past, I said somethings that she won't forget in a hurry and she won't want anything like that from me
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  • could you just kiss her if you had a chance or would you feel crazy & want / feel like you need to do more..?

    btw try meditation, I don't mean for a moment I mean seriously study meditation, the purpose is self control & relaxation,amongst other things. there is a whole philosophy behind it... :)

  • I will say that sometimes a girl can change her mind and she may feel that way about you in the future. But it sucks to be lusting over someone but I just distance myself away from them.

    • You should really just move on and find another girl in that case.There's this guy who hurt me and he says he still has feelings for me and stuff and I wouldn't give him another chance because he ruined it. Once a girl reaches her breaking point that's it.

    • You're right. There is no turning back.

    • wat am I suppossed to do in the mean time with my urges for her

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  • If you find the answer to that, let me know. I've been trying to stop lusting after a man for a year and a half now.

    Can you distance yourself and if so, are you ready to do it?

    • well least you can have sex with your husband, I have no-one to have sex with to take my mind of her

    • You are right, I have someone else to go back to. Is it so bad that you can't see any other girls around as attractive?

    • i find a lot of girls attractive, girls just don't like me that way :-(

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yeah I feel the same way about a woman I work with and see at least four days a week. Lust sucks when you can't do anything about it.

    • oh man it sucks big time

    • could you just kiss her if you had a chance or would you feel crazy & want / feel like you need to do more..?

    • Yes I could just kiss her and I would love it. I have self control but there are always fantasies if you're lusting after somebody bad. I don't say love because I haven't known her long enough and I probably want her extra bad because I've been lonely lately.

  • Walk away from her, man, at least for a while. The crazy won't leave you until she does.

    • wat am I suppossed to do in the mean time with my urges for her

    • Nothing. Beat off furiously if you have to. Better, hook up with a dozen other woman. But leave her alone, but good.

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  • I lusted over my high school female friend for several years. One afternoon, she asked if I really wanted to have intercourse with her. We got into her bed and we went from there.