How do I stop finding semen disgusting?

[Anonymous]

Every time I am with someone. It makes me really anxious when their semen touches me. It kinda like scares me, I hate the texture and I’m worried of it carrying an std. main reason why I didn’t have actual sex yet. I’d still be afraid to do it with a condom. Usually I give them a handjob and they finish on my chew and I’m so scared of it coming anywhere close to my mouth or down there.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I think perhaps you should educate yourself more on semen and how sanitary it is or isn’t, basically do research on semen’s properties for a better understanding of whether or not it’s safe for the skin, hair, etc. If you’re worried about semen carrying STDs that all can be eradicated by making sure your partner is tested and clean, that way the fear of STDs will be gone from your mind. If you don’t want to swallow or have semen anywhere near your mouth, many women are the same way and you shouldn’t do anything you’re comfortable doing. Ultimately making sure your partner is healthy in various domains, should ease your mind on the state of their semen if you happen to get it on you.

[djmzes]

Simple

[AnonT0]

Go for an STD check with your partners so you can be 100% sure.

[Mister_E_Alaska]

I only see 2 appropriate choices here.
1. Wait until you find The One. Your true love and maybe it won't gross you out.
2. Go see a therapist as this is probably indicative of a deeper issue.

[Asker]

How do you wait? Usually guys never want to wait. At least the ones I meet

[Mister_E_Alaska]

We men, most not all, stop pressing so hard for sex around 25-30. My ex wife of 10 years hated the taste of semen. So I went 10 years without a blowjob. I was still satisfied sexually. You just have to open and honest when that conversation comes up.

[EdwardMoon]

Sounds like they really put the fear of God into you during sex ed

[Asker]

That might be it

[slatyb]

Have you considered dating women?

[Asker]

I’m not attracted to women. I’m just incredibly scared of stds. That’s the root cause I think

[slatyb]

You SHOULD take precautions against StDs. The usual thing is to have guys take a blood test before you have any contact with their semen. If a guy tested clean, would that lessen your anxiety?

[Asker]

Yes it would, but I dont know how to ask them to do that. I feel like they’d be offended

[Asker]

I’m also a virgin and I’m afraid to not be one when the right person comes along

[slatyb]

Grown-up men don't get offended about this. Getting tested is the price of having unprotected sex.

[Wowgirl10q]

You don't and it is

[Just_A_Guy2018]

you sound a bit nutters.

[DiegoO]

Not sure. I can't say much since I find vaginal fluids discussing.

[jaejaeraa]

The only way you can convince yourself not to find semen disgusting is you condition yourself.

How though is up to you.

I find semen disgusting as well.

[ILikeRamenNoodles]

Wow I didn't know there are such whores on G@G!

[Asker]

Are you calling me a whore?

[ILikeRamenNoodles]

No opinion because you are making this up right? It can't be real!

[Asker]

Why would I make it up?

[ILikeRamenNoodles]

I just never met a girl that would do that.

[Asker]

Well I did not make it up. And I do not appreciate being called a whore. Calling someone a whore is mean and disrespectful. I hope you don’t refer to anyone with that word again

[ILikeRamenNoodles]

Good bless you with your problems with your man,.😁. I am assuming it's you're husband you do that to, right?

[lofii]

i think you're a lesbian

[Asker]

I’m not. The thought of being with the girl is even worse

[SovietBall]

Are you sure you're straight?

[Asker]

100%

[Anonymous]

if you are worried make them drink a cup of lemon and water before fucking