I think I'm bad at hand jobs... advice

I'm a pretty confident woman and I know how to turn my man on. I think I'm a good kisser and I give good head but I feel like my hand jobs are crap. my hands just don't slide up and down smoothly? (we don't use lube and don't really want to) tips, techniques/advice? thanks.
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  • I speak from the perspective of an uncut man:

    The key is that the friction doesn't have to be between your hand and the whole penis.

    If you grab it like a snowcone, when the foreskin is not retreated, with your pinky finger towards the base of the penis, your index finger should not quite reach the border of the foreskin. Yet you can move up and down smoothly. Your hands don't slide but the skin does.

    Keep in mind: when you move your hand towards the base of the penis, and the foreskin stretches.. there is a limit to that stretch, It can hurt if you do it carelessly or sloppily. You need to calibrate your grab so that the distance from your pinky finger to the base of the penis means that when you slide "down" it doesn't overstretch.

    As with a bj, its best if you pay some attention to the balls, just not overly.

    I don't think this "tip" would work for a cut penis, because foreskin here is the key to reach the glande without lubricant, but I don't really know. Perhaps an unlubed handjob is not such a good idea on a cut penis, I woudln't know, and I intend to keep my foreskin right where it is.

  • Use a lot of spit in your hand, focus on jacking the head off and try to tighten your grip with the shape of his cock. Meaning as you get to the slimmer part of the head make your hand tight-ish around it. Don't grip too firmly cause that doesn't really feel good and don't move your hand ridiculously fast, it just ruins it. Also try to incorporate his balls, feels great when girls play with them. All in all don't try too hard! It could result in sadness and injury.

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  • All girls suck at hand jobs. Seriously as a guy I hate hand jobs. I can give myself a better hand job than any girl can so I wish all girls would just stick to blow jobs

  • Another good idea is to watch him masturbate and mimic that. Then talk to us, ask if that feels good or faster, slower etc. Most guys are happy to tell what we want.