Do women like being forced to do things during sex?

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i.e- lets say he penetrated you, and then got hold of your head and forced you to give him a BJ. Would you like that?This is done with your partner of course (i.e boyfriend/husband)...its also called "p****-to-mouth", but the site won't allow me to say it lol.Also, would you say that being submissive is a "natural"instinct in women? although I'm not trying to stereotype, I'm simply stating what I observe.thanks

selfishstars · Accepted Answer

Being submissive is not a "natural" instinct in woman, just as being dominant is not a "natural" instinct in men. If you've ever been part of the BDSM/fetish community, you'll find A LOT of dominant women and submissive men.

I consider myself a switch, so I do enjoy taking on the submissive role (though not ALL the time---sometimes I like to be dominant, sometimes I like sex where neither my partner nor I take on strong power roles). That said, if my partner and I engaging in sexual activity where he is acting as the dominant player and me, the submissive player, then I enjoy it.

genevieve · Accepted Answer

I do like it, if he forces me a bit. About your example it really turn me on but I wouldn't mind it either depending on how rough he does it. But ya in general I'd like things like that and after all I can still say 'no' or 'stop it' anytime.

Before you do it your girlfriend you should ask her though.

Instinct might be the wrong word, but I would say that we're natuarlly more submissive and I guess it makes sense when guys like to be more dominant.

haleyb · Accepted Answer

no. there's a huge difference between being submissive and being forced to do something. I like being more submissive with a guy, but if he forced me to do anything I would be out of there so fast. and no, since clearly there are women who like to be dominate submissiveness isn't an 'instinct'- I don't know if any sexual preference can be called instinctual, in the sense that it developed over generations.

ThatBritishLad · Accepted Answer

I suppose some people are into it. Some people aren't. Next question.

lelebear · Answer

I would not find it a turn on but if it was with someone I trust I would do it but no very often.  I don't know if being submissive is really the natural instinct.  It depends on my mood if I take control or if I let him.

luvvie · Answer

some girls like it some dont. I wouldn't want the guy to force that on me everytime, cause I will do it gladly without being forced. if you sort of tease her to, like if she likes the sex hard and rough and you go faster and faster, then slow down and take it out an then put it back in slowly, it such a tease. and you can tease her more by making her suck it after you do that. that's what I like, but if you are just doing her then stop and force her to give you a bj she might not like it