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Is it bad if the girl a little more perverted than the guy?

My boyfriend is amazing, he is my true sexual match because he likes to dominate and he goes really rough with everything we do, while I'm very submissive and I love what he does to me and how he defiles me. However he will only do things he is sure I like. For him my pleasure is more important, while for me his pleasure is more important XD I told him if he wants to try anal, or anything he would like to do that we're not doing he is free to ask. He was surprised and said that I'm a huge slut (he was joking of course). But now it seems like I'm more perverted than him . It was kinda like this before but now it's kinda official and I feel embarrassed ... I know he really thinks I'm a slut but is it too bothering? Is it too bad? I can't tell of it's bothering him or not... Guys what do you think? Would it scare you if your girlfriend turns out to be more of a pervert than you are?
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  • its a steriotype that all guys are perverts and girls are innocent. the only thing he might be worried about is were you have been and were you learned the things that you and him do.fetishes or whatever. but he probly likes you a lot already if he's already doing them. and I think I can speak for most guys when I say that would be awsome if my girlfriend was more of a pervert than me. I don't see why he would think you to be a slut just because you asked him to explore a little more sexually with you. also another steriotype that any girl who likes anal or watever sexual act is a slut. everyone has diffrent sexual prefrences and favorite fantasies and fetishes even. I'm into bondage and the girl who got me started into it was REALLY into it and I loved every bit of it :) there's no problem with being more perverted than him. and your submisive so it makes sence for you to want to please him but when I have sex I'm not happy unless my partner gets theirs, some guys are like that. I highley doubt he thinks your a slut. just show him that your his only

    • Couldn't have said it better than you! I totally agree. Just one things is that I didn't learn from anyone but p*rn, my current boyfriend was my first one in bed. Before him I only had som,e kissing experience and that's it. It's good that you're open minded too, I'm into bondage too XD. I am his only and I try my best to show it to him. Thanks! I appreciate your answer.

  • Absolutely not. Not every guy is a kinky bastard that wants to try every move he has seen in a p*rno out with his girlfriend and not every girl is the shy innocent type that has never thought to try new sex positions or other stuff. There are always varying degrees of libidos for both sexes and degrees of thought put into sex by both sexes. One girl may vary to another as far as preferences and behavior in the bedroom. Same goes for the guy. Its nice that it is like this, otherwise it would only be one type of annoying girl that has no experience and no cares about her man and what he wants. Well, in theory that's how it would go. But don't worry, its normal. It can happen. Be glad, your one of the few that wants to communicate openly to your partner about sex. Which is very healthy BTW. Kudos to you!

    • Thank you! :) I totally agree with what you say, everythin!

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  • My man loves it. But then again he used to be a player and loves a woman that will do anything. He's 40 and I'm in my mid to late 20's. If he can't handle it, move on. I had a boyfriend like that once and it was pretty hard to deal with. He's only your match if you're equally comfortable. I would ask him about it. Its a joke between my man and I that I'm his "cochina", his "slut", and he's my sex slave (we alternate submissiveness) etc. We're monogamous, happy, and we're serious enough that marriage is in the near future.

    • Good for you! My boyfriend is not exactly uncomfortable with it, I just don't want him to lose his respect for me and he didn't it turned out to be sth else it's in the answers and my comments above XD Hope you and your man have a great future together :)

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  • I love it when the Girlfriend is more perverted.

    As long as you don't let him think you learnt what you know on the backstage of a concert, or a VIP room, or a hotel room with 2 guys, I'm sure he will be comfortable with it.

    Try experimenting. Tell him you want to try X Y Z and see if he enjoys it.

    Just let him know he is the only guy HONESTLY that you want to do all these crazy thing with.

    • If you read the other answers and comments or at least my comments you'd know that he was my first and I don't need to say or proove any of that. I've already done that... But thanks for answering :)

  • It's 200% hot

    Your guy must be so thrilled to be with you.

    Remember that patience helps. Sometimes there'll be something you want to do that is hot but that he seems luckwarm about. Don't feel bad or force things immediately, he will usually catch up to the idea once he has had the chance to think about it more and fantasized about it in his head!

    You guys keep the fun going!

    • Thank you! Don't worry I don't push anything, I just share what I would like and he makes my dreams come true (angel) again thanks for the answer :)

  • I would hate that. Of course it bothers him that he thinks your a slut. Us guys feel like we're supposed to have a stronger sexual appetite than the girl. I would never date a girl who overly enjoys sex. That's just asking for trouble.

    • It's not about the appetite or the overly enjoying of sex, it's about the mind my limits are further than his when it comes to kinky stuff. We talked it over and if you've read the other answers and comments you'd know what happened in the end. But sinci you answered so roughly what kind of trouble do you think a girl like this would bring?

  • No we love it actually... hard to imagen though..

  • I love having sexually adventurous women. That are a treat to find and love. If he isn't up for you, there are lot of guys who would consider your interests a strong plus.

    • Thank you! :) Very encouraging answer.

  • i would love for my girlfriend to be like that

    it seems like he is seeing the negatives but if I translate everything you said into the way I read it

    would read more like this:

    I'm incredibly outgoing in bed and don't mind trying new things my boyfriend gets some of the best kinkiest sex when ever he wants but guys would that scare you?

    thats kinda how I read it and if your boyfriend is having a promblem with that I would have to seriously questoin his man hood lol

    • The way I read your comment, you gave me a compliment so thank you! I don't think he minds, he is a very manly personality. He likes to conquer. I think he prefers to work for it rather than get it on a golden plate, if you get what I mean lol I think that's what all my worrying was about rofl

    • if that's the case play hard to get sometimes lol even though you want it more than him he doesn't have to know that and by the way I was giving you a compliment, you being in touch with your sexuality is a trait I wish all women had.

    • Thanks, I will! :)

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  • Cant make a hoe a house wife.

    How do you know he thinks that about you? Did you ask or just thinking it?

    • Just thinking it... He jokes about it. And please don't use the word hoe, I feel offended by it :) I just like more hardcore stuff, he likes them too it'sa more than obvious he does I can see it. I just don't want him to think I'd let anyone do these things you know, I'd never cheat. I don't even think about other guys. Our relationship just developed into this state... I'm such a woman I have no idea what's going, or what to do or even if I should worry or not XD

    • Santa says it, why can't I? :D You should just ask him.. Your making this way to complex. Just remember K.I.S.S. Keep It Simple Stupid.

    • I stopped making it complex. I figured it out. XD He prefers to work for what he gets, not just get anything he wants with the clap of his hands. It was right in front of me the whole time rofl should have guessed it earlier.

  • I wouldn't mind and I like perverted but I would prefer less submissive

  • its all OK I have a friend and she is very perverted she made a joke about blowing my friend in the middle of class I Keep on seeing her as innocent but no she is so perverted its really hot



  • what made you become so "perverted "?

    In my case I probably would like it to have perverted girl as you. at least once, its kinda hot because I don't think a girl can be more perverted than me. ha , I have only had prudish gfs,

    it also be kinda nice to have a girlfriend, or to be in a relationship like yours that is not selfish, and you both focus on pleasing, and giving what the other wants, and of course I am assuming lots of sex.

    • I think a lot of stuff from childhood have sth to do with my pervertedness, then there's the daddy issues... My hormone levels are like off the charts all the time, I ve been in puberty for years. It's just built in me I think. I'm this kind of girls if you get what I mean. Thanks for answering, and thanks for saying what you would like, that's always good info. :)

  • Well actually, in the beggining of my road to finding that one, i had expectations that my second half would be a little innocent angle, who i would pervert in some period of time, but the thing is, it my case the situation turned out opposite. I met this girl, that showed me my perverted sides i thought i didn't have. Now im the dominative guy that shows the iniciative but we both are huge perverts, and i would say that she is even a bigger pervert than me, but that doesn't bother me at all, it kinda has its own sides but most of them are good. We enjoy being perverts and are completely honest with each other.

  • scientific research shows that if a woman gets aroused, she is more open to doing things that normally gross her out. in other words, a guy can make a girl more perverted if she's aroused.

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