Is it okay for my boyfriend to have a boner when watching provocative movies?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I were watching a movie in which there was a single man who liked to do telephone sex with girls, and those girls in the movies were moaning. There was no visuals of those girls. The movie only showed the man's perspective. Is it okay if my boyfriend had a boner while listening to those moans? Would it be just a biological response, or would it mean that he liked the girls' moans? I moan during sex, and he gets turned on, so it's not like I'm giving him a reason to like another girl's moans, but I'm just concerned if a boner upon hearing another woman's moans could mean anything? I'll admit that when I watch porns, I only watch the ones in which the women are vocal and moves, showing how good the men or vibrators are doing to them. That makes the situation real, as if I could feel how powerful the pleasure is, and that makes me wet, so I like moans too, but I don't know if for guys it means something different, or just as some women get turned on by moans? Now, if the movie showed that the man was fantasizing a naked woman, and my boyfriend was to have a boner, would that be an issue, or should it be just like porns? I didn't check him because that would not have been nice, although I was concerned. I don't like being compared with another woman. Not that he would, but it would be threatening if he liked another woman more than me, wherever it'd be sounds (moans, voice) or images (body). I'm somewhat fit although no 6 packs. I have a nice butt, but no big breasts although they're perky.

[Reggieray]

for most guys, provocative movies create no emotional connection with the actresses. If you are nearby, we will gladly channel that sexual energy in your direction. We relate these visual/auditory forms of stimuli to our personal sexual experiences. If you're good in bed, you're where our thoughts will go.

Nothing beats really good sex...

[Asker]

I see... That day his housemates were walking near the living room, where we watched the movie on low volume, but another day when we were watching Fifty Shades in private room, we had let out our passionate fire intermittently during the movie 😳

[Asker]

It just makes me feel uncomfortable when a woman is naked in the movie, because then I start to compare and think if he'd be attracted to her.

[Reggieray]

Remember, you activate more of his senses in real time. You are able to awaken his sense of touch, hearing, smell, taste, and sight in person. The more senses you pleasantly effect the better. This sensory input creates memories, our frame of reference, and lights fire in our dreams. Erotica evaporates from many of our minds to minute the screen goes dark. It's been my experience that the only thing that takes a lover out of your mind is when a better lover takes their place. Consequently, my fiancee is the reigning and undisputed queen in my mind.

[Asker]

Well, I was not referring to "love." I was referring to physical attraction... How would a man feel and think if a naked woman in a movie has a beautiful face, medium sized (not big but not small) perky breasts, with a toned 2 pack abs, a round and perky butt, and she is having sex with a man in the movie, but she does him well. Would that make male audiences attracted to her? I mean, I don't have a horrible body, but I don't have the best body. I give to and receive from my boyfriend good sex, but I always get worried when my boyfriend sees naked women in movies. I know we're adults, there's no need to censor, but I get a little nervous unless the woman in the movie does not have the body type that my boyfriend would be attracted to (it's not that I think he would like only a woman's body, but people are wired to have physical attraction to certain body types. For example, a man who works out a lot might feel pleasant seeing a woman with a toned body and not too skinny)

[DrHonesty]

First of all, you would have to send me a picture of your body for a better visual. Second, I wouldn't be concerned, our penis is literally a different entity of our body. It kind of has its own agenda and independent reactions. Just appreciate that he doesn't have ED 😉

[Asker]

Haha... they didn't show visual in the movie either, and I'm not comparable... So if my boyfriend had had a boner, would it have meant that he liked the woman's voice from the movie, and/or he wanted to have sex with her, or none of these? The movie showed the telephone sex in the man's (main character's) perspective without showing who's on the other end of the phone, but if imagining how she would've looked like, was a focus of the main character in the movie, wouldn't another male audience be thinking the same? I'm sure he'd had a boner, but my main concern was, what was the reason?

[Zer0Ghost]

I'm confused. You watch porn, you have acknowledged that stimuli othet than your partner can be arousing for yourself, so why would it be a reach that the same can happen to him?

[Stockton]

If he didn't there would be something very wrong with him

[Anpu23]

Boners are involuntary and biological. I've got ones from sexy thoughts, photo's, and needing to pee as a few examples. He can't control it, so for you to stress it is just you.

[Asker]

I feel that you're telling me that the woman's moans in the movie was sexy, and mine isn't? I was asking if my boyfriend thought that the moans in the movie were sexier than mine?

[MajorZero]

Yes of course, I don’t see the problem. Specially if you reciprocate initiating sex and making him feel desired after.

[Asker]

What's that "reciprocation" in this case?

[UrsTrulyKrish]

It's just a boner
He's not having sex with another girl

[Dallsimo]

Simply ask him! I dont think its offensive at all!!! I even think you should take care of it! ;)

[Asker]

Well, I do take good care of his boners, but I wanted to know if he got one from a woman in a movie (who, sounded like she was giving birth, not moaning...)

[Dallsimo]

Its a possibility after all... hey just so you know : i got boner cause my gf's mom was talking to her on the phone about her breasts... lol

[Dallsimo]

I also get boners by watching hot tv shows like spartacus ;)

[Asker]

Is Spartacus hot? It looks like war and action 🤔

[Dallsimo]

Its full of pretty explicit sex, nice tits, orgys, long big half erect nice dicks ;) there's some to see for everyone ;)

[MarketData]

Lady, boners are always okay. They can happen at any time. Lucky for you.

[trick1988]

Yes, moaning can cause a hard on

[Asker]

And would that mean anything? For example, the desire to have sex with the person moaning, etc?

[trick1988]

It's we just kind of associate the moaning with the feeling of the sex. It's not that we want to have sex with the person it's just animalistic instinct.

[JacobCornchip]

Yeah it's alright and normal for to get a boner while watching that type of movie