Guys, Seriously Does having sex with a condom is really a huge deal breaker to you?

[Anonymous]

Most men who disagree wearing a condom say it is due to the sensation and the pleasure issue as it really does not feel the same as fukcing without one. I understand that part believe me, Nowadays condoms I suppose are made from different fabrics than many years ago and probably with better fabrics so the guy could feel something

I mean think about the risks of STD, unwanted pregnancies and still you want to go commando. I mean for some minutes of sex with a condom you are sparing your whole life of a baby responability or of a STD that you may not be even ready for it. or ask for it. If you do not want kids or have the responsability of becoming a parent or contract a STD why insist on going bareless just because for most guys they want to feel something, they are thinking only in them It seems they pay more attention to the pleasure than the responsability. Do you really wnt to take the chance and risk if you are really not ready to deal with a disease or a pregnancy from the lady?

I know you may all say well the woman also needs to be on birth control and it is also her responsability. You may be right but that is in the case the woman is probably sexually active so she needs to be on birth control often. But what if the woman is not sexually active (or virgin) and due to that she is not under any brith control method beaue she has never need to be under a birth conrl due to her sex inactivity or for beign a virgin and the easy way to protect in this particular case is the guy using a condom, not only is easy to get it but easy to buy it and you can buy condoms everywhere so they are more available out there for people to get it and you do not need a doctor to have one in hand fast. On the contrary the lady pills are only prescribed by a doctor or any other type of female birth control is prescribed by a doctor period and it is more tedious to get it just like a condom and what if one day the lady forget to take the pill the day she will have sex?

[Boromir]

Sorry, a person stating in all seriousness that using a condom is a deal breaker or unacceptable has a _serious_ issue with responsabilities and should be excluded as potential love interest or ‘fuck-for-one-night’.

True, a condom does affect negatively the sensations on both the male and female side but the risk is not worth it.

- STD’s
- Unwanted pregnancies

The normal way would be to use condoms for new relations and one night stands and if things become more serious / exclusive one should both take a STD test before going bareback.

If pregnancies are also not intended one should make sure that a reliable anti conception method is used.

[Asker]

In regards of the unplanned pregnancy the condom is also a good method right?

[Asker]

But im sure fabrics in todays conodms are done with a better way so at least something is felt by the guy right or the woman? I heard a guy saying that he does nto want to use a condom but thenhe knows how not to get a lady pregnant? really? How can thatbe achieved? If he is talking about the pull out method I heard that is not %100 reliable.

[Boromir]

Condoms are a very good solution for both STD and pregnancy protection if used correctly. Pull out to lower the risk of pregnancy might work ‘reasonable sure’ when combined with cycle observation and good control, many men make the error of going in bare for a second go straight after which nullifies all the good practice or the first go. Many man also pull out too late.

[Asker]

What alame excuse for not using a condom right that "it doesnot feel the same " and he knows how not to get a lady pregnant. Im talking here of a guy who is 45 years old he is acting like a small kid if u ask me. I bet if he contineusto think like that there i sno woman who will like to date this dude right? No wonder this friend is single hehe. This friend is the guy who does not like to be involved in a serious relationship or marry in his future. But if he does nto want a relationship responsability why the hell he think that havign sex with no condom is like beign serious or not responsable

[tmanw]

I insist on using a rubber every time I get laid b/c I don't wanna take any chances but it does take away some of the sensation... That said, blowjobs and condoms don't go well together... That's a total deal breaker for me

[Asker]

I mean maybe a blowjob is ok if u dont use a condom if you know well the person but for intercourse a condom is simply a MUST

[jackmcmillin83]

y'all should get some ordinary trojans if it's your first time----- you should start with the basic kind just to get a feel and then you can branch out if you are inclined. And I hope you are using a penis health creme for improved hygiene, skin texture etc... these are made just for overall penis health and work really well. Man1 Man Oil is the best one.. check it out. Good luck.

[Logorithim]

Of course it's not a dealbreaker, but since I am only having sex in a monogamous relationship, I'd prefer to go raw.

[Asker]

i understand if it is in a monogamous relationship but for those who are just fool around with friends and arenot married soem dont like to wear one anyway for the thing that it does not feel the same

[Logorithim]

For anything but a monogamous relationship, it's utterly crazy not to use a condom

[Asker]

Even among friends is a necessity but likeI said nowadays fabrics could be better for condom and the feeling could be better than old dayys right?

[Logorithim]

It's possible. I actually haven't used a condom in a really long time (I'm not even sure what year it was, but over a decade).

[Asker]

because u had been in a monogamous relationship

[Logorithim]

Yeah..

[dwayne93ddp]

Ahh life just isn't fun without rolling the dice, that nervous feeling when you go to the dr for your hiv test, and then boom it comes back negative. Yessss! Dodged another bullet. Of course you still gotta worry about chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, but those are cureable. Oh and the pregnancy thing is nothing a hard slam to the floor and kick to the stomach won't fix lol maybe a flight of stairs, or just get a fucking morning after pill. Boom problem solved

[MsgtDixon]

Yeah there are some thin condoms today. It does make a differance, but shouldn't be a deal breaker. Thats someone just trying tk to wear a condom.

[Asker]

and the guy who says it does not feel the sme but he is not thinking in consequences if he is nto even ready todeal with theim is a douche or the guy who says "I know how to not geta woman pregnant" that is stpid

[MsgtDixon]

Yeah, it is dumb. The worse part is people except that then have to deal with the consequences. Just because they dont want to draw a line.

[Asker]

and they only think well the guys only think with their other "head" instead of the real head that is over theri shoulders

[uravgguy]

It's less pleasurable, but much better than contracting stds

[Asker]

of course is much better than contracting STD or unplanned pregnancies but why some guys dont get through their heads (brain)

[uravgguy]

Because they end up thinking with their other head

[wiseyoungman]

It wouldn't be a deal breaker with me for a one night stand, but if it's gonna be a regular thing she needs to take care of that

[Drumlin2001]

I insist on it. Even though SO has told me i dont need to as she's on the pill, i'm not taking the chance

[Asker]

Very smart move and very responsible way to behave. I applaud you. Indeed why a person need to take theh chance of alifetiem for jsut some minutes of fun

[Drumlin2001]

Little bit longer than minutes 🙄 lol I learnt a hard way. Until i'm with someone in a committed relationship, i'm playing it safe

[Asker]

very good i wish all guys will belike u

[ididsurgeryonagrape]

I always use a condom only when me and my girlfriend are ready then I won’t use one

[esotericstory]

No its not a deal breaker even if it takes away some of the feeling.

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

It may feel a little different, but it’s not that big of a deal if you dig the other person to put it on. And if its a ONS they you are for damn sure putting one on.

[Asker]

Even with friends with benefits I bett the condom use is necessary

[Asker]

What if is not a ONS but having sex with a person you do know but you are not in a relationship or a couple either.

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

I made sure to use them with my friends with benefits all the time. As they were only a friends with benefits, I want the best chance possible to not get her pregnant.

[Asker]

and the lady is a virgin but the guy told the lady "he does not like to wear a condom because it does not feel the same and I know how not to get a woman pregnant" Is that a stupid excuse from a mid age guy?

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

I would still stick to being more safe then sorry. You could always use a Female Condom too.

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

That is a very stupid excuse for any guy. Does it feel better without, sure, but its not worth play with a loaded gun and a chance for pregnancy.

[Asker]

I also agre very stupid excuse for nto wearing a condom just because it does not feel the sme heisacting like a kid. He is thinking with the"other head" instead the head he has over his shoulders. And also if he is not super caclulated thepull out method I dotnthink it can work too, especially if the guy is in that heat of the moment and excitementdont u think?

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

Most of the time in the heat of the moment that last thing you want to do is pull out. Usually both parties are pulling each other deeper.

[Asker]

and that is what the huge mistakes born

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

And why you always use some form of b/c unless trying for a kid