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How do you like your breasts played with?

I was flipping through relationship books in the book store the other day when I encountered this one author who was describing (in her opinion) how NOT to handle a women's chest. According to her ALL women Hate having their breasts squeezed, kneaded and rubbed. I was shocked! Now naturally I do occupy a man's body so you can't hold it against me for not knowing Exactly what it feels like for a women to have her chest played with but this astounded me and quite frankly I'm a little traumatized. She said ALL women hate to have their breasts rubbed, squeezed and kneaded... Well what the hell else is left? Singing to em!? Is this author correct or she off her rocker? Girls please weigh in on this and tell us what you like done.
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  • Well, your first clue that she's nuts is the fact that she made a claim about "all" women. All women are different---you can't make the assumption that they would all like or dislike the same thing.

    Yes, I love having my breasts played with. There are some things that I don't like done to them, however. I don't like it when a guy pays all his attention to my breasts and ignores the rest of my body. I don't like it when a guy pinches my nipples really hard, twists my nipples, squeezes my breasts really hard (those things hurt me, and not in a way that I find pleasurable), or squeezes them in a way that feels like he's "honking" them.

    I do like my breasts squeezed (but not super hard) and massaged. I like my nipples massaged, licked, and sucked on. The most sensitive/pleasurable area is actually the under side of my breasts, so I really like it when a guy kisses there, or if he's rubbing my body and comes up from below with his hand in kind of a "C" position (with his thumb and index finger) to stroke the under side of my breast, and then squeeze my entire breast, bringing his fingers together around my nipple (if that description makes sense)---very hot if he does it from behind too (like, wraps his arms around me from behind and grabs my breasts that way).

    • You gave the best pointers on what a guy should do.

    • @ErikaResponding Actually she gave me a boner!

  • It depends. If she's on her period, you gotta be really gentle (since it's more sensitive and painful). I used to think that I wouldn't like it and that the only reason it ever took place was because guys are so obsessed with them all the time. Then I learned better. Lol. I learned that having them caressed or gently touched (like tickling, and licking) is very stimulating and arousing. The entire area can be sensitive when done that way. However, when he's groping me or massaging me the roughness doesn't hurt but I also hardly feel or am turned on by that. The only exception is roughness on the nipples themselves. Tweaking and nibbling really gets me off, and most times ( with me at least) it's the rougher the better, to where I'm actually paying for it with soreness the next morning. Heh.TMI, oh well. = ) All chicks are different. When you're with a chick, she should hopefully give you hints as you explore her like I did with my guy. I prefer licking and pinching, that's just me. kneading and sqeezing is a little boring and so far pain hasn't been an issue.

  • she must be crazy. but I do enjoy my breasts being squeezed, rubbed & neaded. however, I do not like it when I'm just minding my own business and busy with other things and my boyfriend just comes in and starts playing with them. it's annoying and it pisses me off. for example when I'm in the kitchen cooking, or when I'm on the computer surfing the net, he'd come and try to squeeze them or play with my nipples which really pisses me off to no end. I'm not sure if other girls feel the same way, but do not touch them when we're occupied with other things

    • Thats so true! It's like hello? Go play with something else I'm busy!

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  • A thing about those relationship books is that they write "Women like X" when they really should write "I like X" or "The women I'm familiar with like X". What your partner likes, she alone knows, so it's best to ask.

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  • she is off her rocker

    or maybe she just has super sensitive, sore boobs

    but I love the squeezing kneading rubbing

    and I like when guys play with my nipples

    i don't think they get enough attention, haha

  • Well obviously very little is true of ALL women. I personally like them to be rubbed and kneaded, NOT squeezed, obviously kissed and sucked. I would hope it's clear but a lot of girls don't like their breasts squeezed hard or twisted. Hope that helps!

  • she's off her rocker.

  • She is crazy. I think my boobs need more attention.

  • I like them grabbed from behind. I know guys like to do the rutty twister deal between your bros but it hurts like he'll fornus and does not make us want to do things to you

  • It really depends, my breasts are sensitive. So if they are squeezed, rubbed or neaded it has to be done gently otherwise it'll just hurt. Can't say I enjoy it that much though, I especially hate it when guy play with my nipples and squeeze them, that hurts like hell. But I do like it when they are gently cupped and massaged and I do enjoy it when guys suck on my nipples and breasts, that gets me going like there's no tomorrow. :D

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