His penis get so hard it hurts is this normal?

And it won't stop being extremely hard until I go away from him for a couple of minutes. I only had sex once and the guy was smaller. Me and him have been trying to have sex for almost a month but it hurts so much due to his girth and the fact that he is so incredibly hard. His vein get so thick it looks painful and they tend to get "thicker" as we progress I don't even know if I'm making sense. But is this normal? To be so hard that the penis doesn't have any and I mean any any any flexibility or softness?
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  • it is sometimes called the Eiffel or whatever really, it's when you are so hard it really hurts and your massive member just needs a rough release from that solid state, either by a hard HJ or by plugging in to a girl somewhere warm and soft to release that tension and solidness with a rough fcking

    • But it hurts

  • THE GIRTH of penis has nothing to do with pain in girl. Dick should be very hard for having a good sex. Maybe you are not having enough foreplay for penetration

    • Of course it has. I am being stretched. If the size had nothing to do the first time would be easy and not painful for any girl.

    • Some girls vagina are naturally tight based on my own experiences.

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  • You just need to really use some lube so won't hurt much and you can be stretched with him so it will work out eventually.

  • Sex shouldn't hurt except maybe the first time... make sure you are fully lubed up if the pain persists see your ob/gyn as it could be a sign of a more serious issue

  • After his first orgasm without intercourse, THEN have sex with his second which will be weaker.

  • how big is he?

  • Yes it's normal but you need to take your time having sex let him go down on you first for a while then have sex

    • I'm fine during foreplay but I get nervous when I know he's about to penetrate me, it is like I'm anticipating the pain and then when I touch him he is hard as a rock and my nerves go from 80 to 180

    • Well just relax ask him to go slow and once he's in you it will be fine and believe me you will love it

    • Message me if you want to

  • It is normal for some men

    • How can I make it softer?

    • You can't just ask him to be easier with you

    • I know you only 17 but I could use it

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  • you got hard men then 😂

  • If his girth is 5.5 inches+ there is not much you can do. If his lenght is also above average, it makes things worst.

    There is a limit to what a woman can take in my opinion, and a penis way above average in lenght or girth/both will cause harm and be uncomfortable for most, it doesn't matter how much lube is used. And for those who say "baby's come out from vaginas", remember they don't go out and in, out and in, and that is physically exhausting for women.

  • How can a penis be too hard?

    • You tell me since you have one.

    • That's what I meant There is nothing as too hard penis

    • Wish you could come over to feel his then.

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  • so, how do you know he's your boyfriend, if you haven't had sex yet

    labels are for soup cans, not PEOPLE!

    • You already comment that. Give me something new

    • NO! You know I'm right GIVE IT UP ALREADY

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