My girl won't let me go down on her?

[sikoo31]

why would she say she loves me but then be shy in bed and not let me eat her out? I'm not shy at all in bed, so I don't understand it completely. any girls out there who do the same? any guys with the same problem?

[KarKingJack]

Love doesn't equal sexual confidence. She doesn't like what's under her panties, or she's been treated badly in them before. Or both. Just built up to it gradually, and try to get over it. My ex wouldn't even let me under her trousers. And I helped her through it, and now she's having sex with other boys. LOL.

[SocietysBomb]

shes self conscious.

[sikoo31]

yeah but if you love someone, shouldn't all that just go away? i talk to this girl on this site, and she said she's super shy but when she got turned on and it was with the love of her life, the shyness melted away, that's exactly what she said. so shouldn't it be the same with my girl, she says I'm the love of her life and I believe her.

[SocietysBomb]

you have to remember everyones diffrent, maybe she loves you so much she's scared you might get grossed out by her or something and not want to be with her anymore, you just have to give her time to come to the realization that she's worrying for no reason

[sikoo31]

i have though, I went down on her once already but she didn't let me do it to her for very long and the whole time she told me it felt good but weird. but now she won't let me saying its weird. she doesn't smell or taste bad, in fact, I loved the way she tasted, never tasted anything like it.

[SocietysBomb]

hahaha, well then maybe she's not in to it.. trying something else

[sikoo31]

hmm... I just want her to open up to me.

[SocietysBomb]

talk to her then, don't pressure her anything but ask questions and be straight forward

[sikoo31]

i already did, that was the first thing I did.

[SocietysBomb]

well then I don't know sir, I just don't know

[sikoo31]

dam... me either haha