I WOULD! All it takes is one unlucky time and your life could change forever if you get pregnant. Even girls who have abortions or give them away say they feel a huge loss & an emptiness inside. Besides, they make condoms thin enough that they're SUPPOSED to FEEL like there is no conddom, but at least you're still protected... At least you're a little older than some girls on the site and may be more prepared for a child, (And that's NO OFFENSE INTENDED...It's no fault of yours, but teenagers just aren't READY) but if you're not ready or prepared for the possibility it could still rock your world pretty good...
I'm not sure I'm ready for that responsibility. I party and go out and I'm in school. We started using condoms and I have started taking birth control. But the more I think about it. I kind of want a baby.
That's fine, I don't blame you... The greatest feeling I ever felt was when my friend put his 6 day old daughter in my arms the first time! Just enjoy being young for a little while, & when you feel you ARE ready, plan for it the RIGHT way! Good Luck :D
This isn't about what's believable it's about what makes sense and you not making sure he straps it up each & every time is very senseless. In a perfect world what we're told would be enough unfortunately this isn't an ideal world , and we're NOT ideal people. You don't have a sexual past , but I'm assuming he does ( you didn't say differently) and for that reason alone you should make sure you BOTH protect yourselves. So I would go with the condoms
None of my partners have ever had a problem wearing a condom. There are some pretty thin condoms out there, and none of my partners have ever had a problem finishing without one. Don't be stupid. You should know better in this day and age. What kind of manipulative crap is he pulling? Yes, sex without a condom feels SLIGHTLY better, but it still feels awesome WITH condoms.
Are you really 25 to 29?How do you not know this information? Use condoms duh. Not trying to be rude but if you don't know this basic information...maybe you SHOULDN'T be having sex. Condoms help with the whole not getting pregnant thing and the whole not getting STDS thing. If you want to up your chances for both,then don't use them.
He lies. The feeling may be lessened, but it'll still be good for him. Either use condoms, or get on birth control, wait a month for it to be effective, and THEN you can have sex. Condoms are still a good idea anyway, though. Otherwise you're leaving yourself vulnerable to STDs.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!ok your pregnant..now you need to decide WITH YOUR BF...if you're going to do plan b or keep it...hope it works out the way you want
'plan b' refers to the morning after pill. It's too late for that now.
i think its like 72 hours, at least I thought
I'm keeping it. I can't get rid of my baby. I can't take plan B. If I can already detect my pregnancy. The only thing that would stop it is abortion. And no way in hell am I doing that. and any way to tell my boyfriend without freaking him out?
he can always pull out...my suggestion would be to get on BC to help prevent pregnancy...it may alter your mood a little bit but let him know you're starting it and he should expect that..
Pulling out isn't an effective birth control method.
lol I never said it was!
Point proven...
lol you want to get pregnant? if yes keep doing it
if not get your butt to dept of health and get yourself some birth control pills. unless you want to shorten your college life and be a full time moma
and don't believe that guy. there are plenty condoms out there that are literally really thin. where its same as sex. look into trojan ultra thins
LOL no way you're 25 years old at least I certainly hope not. No you don't have to use condoms of course you'll most likely end up pregnant or potentially catching a STD. If you care about your health buy durex love condoms from condomdepot.com or your local store if you can find them best condoms on the market imo. If not just continue what you're doing.
wow who saw this coming...
Condoms aren't that bad. If he doesn't enjoy sex with a condom on, there's something wrong.
But either get on the pill or ask him to wear condoms. Or both. You are not in a situation to have a baby, and STD's aren't great either.
It'd be very egoistic of him to refuse to wear a condom. If he doesn't care now, don't expect him to help you out of he gets you pregnant.
If you aren't on the pill or depo or some other form of birth control, then ABSOLUTELY F***ING YES YOU HAVE TO USE CONDOMS.
However, he is right that condoms make it far, far, far less enjoyable for him, so maybe talk to your gynecologist about getting on bc?
Lol, my friend got pregnant the first time without a condom... First I would check to see if your pregnant and than I would make him use a condom. Any guy who is so self centered that he would risk the chance that you will get pregnant just so he feels a little bit better during sex, won't be a supporting father when your pregnant.
We've only been having sex for about a week. I'm still new to this. I can't be pregnant! I'm in college. My parents are paying for my school. If I can't finish they'll KILL me!
Then be more responsible and start taking birth control and demand that he use condoms.
Yeah really ^^
Do you want to get pregnant really soon?
If the answer is yes don't use condoms.
If the answer is no USE the condoms.
Who cares if it is not very enjoyable for him. Are you going to enjoy getting pregnant?
Are you a complete moron? You are on your way to having yourself a baby while still in college. Congratulations! He ovbiously only cares about himself so he will probably dump you once you get pregnant, but it is OK because you will get all the help you need from tax payers and the government. Grow up and act your age, who gives a crap if it is less enjoyable, protecting yourself should be the number one priority.
You're right. I'll make him wear them and I will get on birth control.
Couldn't agree more.
Protect yourself and your future. I hope you did not get offended, I have a habit of being very blunt. I am in college myself and even though I am married I could not imagine having a kid and trying to finish school.
"25 to 29" ahahahahahaha :')
No, you don't HAVE TO use condoms. You're stupid not to in your circumstance, but you don't HAVE TO.
Bah-dada-DAH! What a surprise.
if you guys want safe sex then you guys should wear one. but from guys opinions, condoms is not good. the make the sensation less.
Not all guys share that STUPID opinion.
lol
Didn't they teach sex ed in school? @_@
Yes, either go on birth control or make him wear a condom...wait how about you guys do both?
uhm is this question a joke? You asked if he's lying? No, he's telling the truth. Condoms do make it less enjoyable. Your not on birth control and your not using condoms? So do you want a baby boy or girl?
"we have sex every chance we get and since we both live in dorms its very often. But do we have to use condoms?"
Update: Well... I'm pregnant. 17 hours ago
Update: Well... I'm pregnant.
And what are you going to do now?
Planned Parenthood can help you: link
You should use some kinda of birth control especially if he is cumming inside you.
youre going to get pregz
use condoms. 1 if you don't you can get a urinary track infection becuase of it being one of your first times. also it can give you rashes and it will start to hurt. Tell him its condoms or nothing
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