Why does my boyfriend stare at me while fingering me?

the other day my boyfriend and I were laying down next to each other, we were both naked and he started rubbing my vagina. it felt really good, so I tilted my head back and started moaning. he was staring at my face the whole time, and he was breathing heavy and made some moaning noises. he told me that I sound beautiful when I moan. Why does he do this?
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Most Helpful Guy

  • A normal man likes it when his efforts are rewarded by an orgasm.

    Don't fake it like Meg Ryan in this cult scene from 'When Harry met Sally':

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F-bsf2x-aeE&playnext=1&list=PLFB0C90E8ECE8D8DB&index=11



    A woman who's coming is beautiful.

    Look at Saint Theresa of Avila , by Bernini : link

    I love that statue (it's exposed in a small church in Rome, near the Piazza della Repubblica )

    link

    I found this text in that church:

    I saw in his hand a long spear of gold, and at the iron's point there seemed to be a little fire. He appeared to me to be thrusting it at times into my heart, and to pierce my very entrails; when he drew it out, he seemed to draw them out also, and to leave me all on fire with a great love of God. The pain was so great, that it made me moan; and yet so surpassing was the sweetness of this excessive pain, that I could not wish to be rid of it. The soul is satisfied now with nothing less than God. The pain is not bodily, but spiritual; though the body has its share in it. It is a caressing of love so sweet which now takes place between the soul and God, that I pray God of His goodness to make him experience it who may think that I am lying.

    ;-) Saint Theresa was a Spanish mystic nun... (ain't she sweet?)

    More info here: link

    (that statue was ordered and paid for by a pope but Bernini did his job a bit too good and it never got known well enough.)

Most Helpful Girls

  • Guys absolutely love to turn on or to pleasure a girl. They love the thought that what they are doing to you is making you horny.

    Your boyfriend is staring at your face because he wants to see your reaction. This isn't creepy, it's normal. And it's probably better than a guy that doesn't really care how he's making you feel.

    In my opinion this guy seems to be really unselfish, and he gets pleasure in pleasuring you, which is a good trait for a guy.

  • It's a turn on to watch your partner's reactions to pleasure---he was likely looking at your face because he finds the expressions and noises you make a turn-on. Being turned-on can also be sexually pleasurable in itself---so because you turned him on, a reaction to that might be heavy breathing or even moaning himself.

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  • there's nothing better than watching a girl cum.

    • I thought EVERYBODY knew this.

  • He probably turns him on to see that he's pleasuring you. and the noises you makes just makes it even better for him.