First of all, wow. You've really thought about this a lot. Secondly, staying over doesn't entail sex either. It just means he wants to spend more dedicated time with you, rather than on-again off-again meetings. Thirdly, sex is in the back of every man's mind. It sounds like he has feelings for you, so if you'd let him, he'd do it.
I guess out of that entire tirade, I couldn't quite determine what your question was. If you care for him and want sex, have it. If you just want to be friends, tell him. But if he's making out with you, he's at least a little more than friends with you...and if you're okay with making out, then sex won't change anything...cause its just sex.0 0 0 0hmm.. I guess I'm worrying that after we have sex, then our relationship will become nothing but sexual. All of this going out and talking stuff will end. And if that is the case then I will just half to cut him loose because I don't want to feel used, like he only wants my body. Also from my past I have met guys who will only want sex with you then afterward they don't even know who you are anymore. I want to continue feeling special. Is staying the night with him really a good idea?
Sure. You don't have to be a sex robot. Just hold your ground and tell him what you want. If you're up-front about it, like you were here, then you double your chances.
well you see I'm not talking to the guy, I'm not gonna text him, call him, email him. its so weird how we were always spending time with each other and then just our first time making out has changed us. I cant't tell what kind of person he is. its confusing. and guess what, after 2 days of not talking to him he texted me and all he said was that he missed me. and then I said it back to him. but really that's all we said, it was that cold.. I feel like he needs to tell me what's happening?
Sex doesn't change relationships, it clarifies them; if your partner's just someone to share an orgasm with, that becomes quite clear once you've come.
Clearly not the case here--he's spending way too much time, energy, and attention not to care about you.0 0 0 0
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