Experiences of showering together..?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend recently decided he wanted us to shower together. I however am still a virgin, and he listened to me when I said no. I wouldn't mind it, and don't find it as a bad idea, and told him I'd let him know when I am ready, but I'm not sure what to expect? Any stories? Not to in depth..lol

[999freakshow]

Wel if you wouldn't mind it then do it. Just because he wants a shower together doesn't mean he'll push you to do sth. No self-respecting man would ever do anything like that. You'll be closer, you'll get more used to each other, experience the nice shivering sensations of wet naked bodies toughing, he'l probably get a boner XD He probably wants to experience a wet dram of his. You said he listened to you when you said you want to wait so you have nothing to worry about... I showered with my boyfriend while I was still a virgin. I still remember it sometimes it was a very fun experience, we even shared his bath tub for 20 min and hugged each other in the water, It was so sweet (sun) So yeah I highly recommend it. If your boyfriend behaves properly of course... :)

[eithyy]

It's fun. There's usually lots of kissing and touching. Washing each other is always a good idea, and as debsman said, soapy hands sliding everywhere tend to feel pretty nice. It doesn't have to go anywhere you don't want it to, though. :)

[IAmAnon123]

I've done it once. Nothing has to happen if you don't want it to, honestly. Just expect lots of body contact, touching, kissing, washing each other, etc. I wouldn't worry too much about it. It's not exactly easy to have sex in the shower anyway, you'd fall and kill yourself if you got too into it, lol. Most we ever did from my experience was exchange oral, and even that wasn't really that easy. Just set up the boundaries with your boyfriend and you'll have a great time.

[debsman]

Take a shower together and wash each other...hair and all. Soapy slippery hands feel good. Don't allow him to finger you with soapy fingers...not good.

[Not_Peanuts]

After we had been at the beach for several hours, my girlfriend of a couple months suggested we shower together at her apartment so we could quickly get ready for a party. Although in our early 20s, we were both still virgins, and wanted to remain that way until we met the right partners. She kept her bikini bottom on while we showered. We hugged and kissed, and I told her how beautiful she truly was. It was a great experience for both of us. We actually got to the party on time! We showered together on many occasions after that. As I gained her trust, she became comfortable without the bikini (her choice), but there was no PIV at any time.